so i pretty much just have some questions; any help would be awesome. is second base supposed to feel good for the girl? if i'm moving my hands around and go "down there" but don't want to do anything more then just touch and kiss, will he get the wrong idea? should i stay away from there altogether until i want to go farthur? is it better to unhook your bra or go over, and if he can't do it should i?
thanks for the help, i now its alot of questions!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? beanie answered Monday January 29 2007, 7:10 pm: yes second base is supposed to feel good for the girl if it is the girl receiving the plesure if your talking about giving to the guy it kinda feels a little good itreally kinda depends on the girl for me it's just there but it makes me happy because i know that it is turning him on. um it may give him wrong messages so you might want to stay away from there unless you're ready to use your mouth or hand. and it's just easier to unhook your bra and yeah if he can't do it it would be nice if you helped him a little so he doesn't feel embarassed fumbling around with your bra.
Kate032 answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:56 pm: Okay. All girls are different. Some think it feels good and some don't. A lot of the time the guy tries to fit more fingers in than he should. If he tries this just make a slight noise like your in pain. A quick "ow" should give him the hint.
The second question is harder. Different guys will interpret this in different ways. If he makes a motion to unbutton his pants or tries to get you to, and your not ready, then just move your hand away to his head or something and keep kissing him.
im not sure what you mean in the last question by "go over". so if u want me to answer that please explain what you mean to me and ill be happy to respond.
askxbrooke answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:54 pm: Yes second meaning touching the girl is supposed to enjoy it it is personmal preferance. He shouldnt get the wrong Idea he should accept your choice and if he doesnt, leave him. You dont have to stay away there is nothing wrong with experimentong with your partner without going to far. well you dont wanna unhook your bra if ur at the movvies but its not so hard to go under it
Boochie answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:52 pm: yes second base is supposed to feel good for a girl and guy.um he might get the wrong idea but you can always tell him. i dont really think you should stay away, as you call it its second base, there are steps that get you ready when you want to go farther. and if you do, use a condom. i think you should unhook your bra, because if he cant it would be awkward. [ Boochie's advice column | Ask Boochie A Question ]
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