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Me and My CRUSH
I reallly want to hook up with my CRUSH(let's call him CUTIE)! I always get jealous when other girls like talk to him. I donn know why. But then I'm starting to like my best friend's EX-BOYFRIEND(lets call him JACK). He's not all cute but then I start to talk to him a lot and I think he likes me. Rumor has it at my school that he's gonna ask me to the dance.If he does I dont wan't CUTIE to feel bad because I love him more. I also don't want Jack to get hurt if I say no to him. My friend is OK that I kinda like him and the same with him. But I just feel so wierd that i like 2 guys at the same time. It kinda makes me feel like a slut at the same time. I don't want to live my life wondering if I picked him what would have happened? Please help me.
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my advice is to choose one guy
i know it might be hard.. but eventually your either going to have one happy guy and a sad guy.. or your not going to have any guys. So choose now before they get sick of it.
So just see which one has more qualities you like in a guy. hope everything works out!
-blonde911
p.s. your not a slut..
you only like them, doesnt mean your having sex with them!
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You have to find out which guy you honetly like the most and why. Sometimes you like a guy, but then realize it was all for the wrong reasons. You should try and be less worried about the boys being hurt and focuse more on what you feel is right. You should not pick to go out with one of the boys just because he will be hurt if you don't choose him; you have to follow your heart. Also you can not have both boy and you know that. Try and think which one relates to you more and who you feel more comfertable talking to about more subjects that are life realated. If you can only talk to one of the boys about sports, then maybe that boy is not the right choice.
You also have to nicly explain to the other boy you do not choose that you dont feel it would be right and you just want to be friends. You can also state that maybe in the future something might happen but at the moment you are not sure. You never no what the future can bring.
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welll first of all your not a slut its not your fault these boys are in love with u! ;] lol its completly noraml to like 2 guys at the same time your just confused its also normal to get jealous everyone does and it seems like these boys are a bit jealous too. so my advice too you is to wait it out and talk to them both and then sewe who you like more its a tuff decison but you cant worry about hurting any of them you have to worry about what you want not whats going to please others thats the same with everything in life. hope i helped! if u want more just ask me on my page
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