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hey mr.z long time no talk... anyways we went to the movies last night and it went well. we got along and had fun :) maybe this time it will actally work out i mean i am okay with just being friends with him if that is the way it ends up. but he has to be at least somewhat interested considering he came last night...so yeah :) its a all good. write back (link)
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happy for you,,, just don't expect too much so you will not be dissapointed!!!!ok
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hey mr. z!!!!!!! i havent talked to you in awhile !!!!! well i hope you have a good break! happy new year and merry christmas!!!!1 i love you!!! (link)
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I know,,, but I am used to it by now...girls and boys talk to me when I have them in my class and we get to have a good relationship but then after they are gone... everything is gone...
they don't come back...
It is like having a relationship...they break up with me and they find new teachers.....
saddddddddddd :(((((((((((((((
The amazing thing is that with you it was different.. I did not have you as students and yet you try to keep in touch with me...
I am really happy for you...
now I am the one that feel lonely.. I have noone...
it is going to be a sad christmas....
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he is a good boy :) one thing you might not like is he has a lip ring though lol. but he is sweet, and he respects me. (link)
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lip ring.. for a guy.. that is weird...
does your mom like him??
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his name is adam. and no one is supporting me right now cause well idk why!!! sam is and shenaye is but alot of people are against me and him going out. uggghhh im so sick of people these days. but he is really sweet mr.z you will like him :D (link)
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is he a good boy?? (meaning he does well in school and respects you and does not do drugs or stupid stuff)))
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hey mr. z. well i have a boy now and we are dating :D he is a good boy and yesterday he kissed me. im very happy!!!! i will come into class with him a little later kkk bye!!! (link)
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What is his name???
happy for you
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well dont worry i am noot going to make the move on him. he will have to do something if he wants too. yeah there is this one guy who is 18 and i llike it cause he is really mature. thanks mr.z but im not THAT amazing lol. sorry if i spell something wrong im tryting to finish this up b4 the bell rings. anywho but i just hate it that everyone around me has a realationship and i dont!! do you know how hard that is to deal with?? well im not going to be on this weekend so i will talk to you monday. bye :) (link)
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hey, you did not post anything,, and I was not sure what to write because I did not have the whole scope of things...
I just have to tell you, that in order for you to get into a relationship with a guy, you need to see what your options are.. meaning,, the guy that you want to date has to have certain good qualities that you need to have...
meaning has to be a gentleman, someone that does not want to be with you because of sex....
Someone that supports you and is there for you in the good and in the bad..
someone that lets you be with your friends because you are not attach to them...
remeber that love is not just being attracted but is to sacrifice for your them....
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Dont worry i will always be a good girl :) and yes matt has talked to me and im not starting anything, just being friends and if more comes along cool and if not whatever. I just dyed my hair. :) i really like it!! it makes me look older. anyways i hang out with shenaye and all my old friends. i dont talk to sam as much which makes me sad :( but i am trying to fix that. I am alot more flirtatious now but i am careful who i flirt with cause if i flirt too much i could get nown as a hoe. and that is NOT GOOD!! lol i dont know mr.z..... you helped me out so much. you changed me into a totally new person but in a good way. i didnt even see the whole picture till you came along! what would i be now if it wasnt for you??lol well write back and thanks for listening!!! (link)
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I think that you should let Matt make a move,,, because u already did before and he is going to think that you are too needy!!!
Well, eventually you were going to figure that out... I just helped a little...
hey,,, you have everything going for you...
pretty, brains, and friendly....
whoever is your bf,, will be so blesses to have you as a gf.....
just promise me that you will not sell yourself short...
you are worth alot... and you deserve a good guy!!!!
and yes,,, you are right,, don't flirt too much....
you know... sometimes is better to date someone that is more mature than you!!!!! so he can appreciate what you are!!!!
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im surprised your on!!! okay well shenaye has this new guy and i really dont like him because he has hurt her a few times but she wont listen and its making me mad. and she says she loves him but i dont think she really does, i think its infatuation. and then i have problems with boys (as usual) well there are a few guys but none of them are really what i want. one has a girlfriend, one lives too far away(sacramento),and another only wants sex. and im a good girl and dont do that. but its just like i changed alot this summer (thanks to you) :) and i am happy with the changes but at times i feel like they are getting nowhere i mean i cant find the guy that just fits me. and i know what he would be like but hes nowhere to be found!! and i think i might like matt anaya again. i know. stupid me. but i cant help it!!hes soooo cute. and i think if i tried this time it would work cause im different now. so im going to start talking to him again. well thats all for now. how are things with you??? i miss you!!!! (link)
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Well, thanks for confinding all this things to me.. I am not an expert but I have learned through my mistakes that the best way to aproach this is to make a list of the things that you are looking in a guy....
For sure you know that the guy that only wants sex is not the right choice and you should stay away from him... keep being a good girl...
what I would ask from you is that don't get in a relationship just as a desperation, because you most probably will end up with the wrong guy...
make a list of things that you can't live with out and things that you can deal with...
Also if you really like a guy, may be you need to learn a little more flirtitious but do not be too much though..!!!!
it may attract the wrong guys....
Do not talk to Matt, because if he had been attracted to you, he would have asked you already....
unless he is talking to you...
Do not sell yourself nor beg,, because you are attractive and now with your new look, you look older and some guys might also be intimidated by your looks......
Anyways who are you hanging out with????
About shenaye,, all you can do is tell her and just be there for her once her heart is broken... meanwhile you did what u had to do!!!!
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hey...the amanda and jordan thing is over...they got bored of eachother...well i have been having bad luck with the whole boy thing i mean there are a few guy AND HE STILL WOULNT GET IT!!!! (link)
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well,Jordan was more for you than her... Amanda likes more adventorous type of guys...your time will come eventually to find the right guy... still have 2 years at the high school... but if nothing happens in HS then in college.. be happy!!!!!!
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amanda decided she like jordan after meeting him 2 years before...james didnt like her so she gave up on him...and idk if sam passed the exam she hasnt gotten the results yet...me and sam will visit u (link)
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ok,, well he is a good guy... hope amanda treats him well... i am not good at hooking up students but i will keep trying...I have a sun burn... and i have been doing excercise.... going to the beach everyday
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no i never went out with jordan but amanda did. long story. she pretty much stole him and i am not going out with to many jerks lol just a few. sam has drama coming out of her kazoo and theres nothin really new there lol anyways i am glad you are having fun and when do you go back to gv?me and sam want to visit you!!!!! (link)
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Amanda,,, i thought she liked james... i will be back on august 1st.. Ask sam if she passed the apchem exam....
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obviously its brittany. so you havent been on for a loong time! how is vacation???any fun? okay well jordan is over with and there are a few guys here and there but not many. i have decided that i am not going after them they are coming after me :) and surprisingly it is working very well! i have met some new guys and am being there friends first. so anything new with you??write back! (link)
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what do you mean by Jordan is over...
did u go out with him or not?? and if you did how was it???
don't go out with too many guys and please do not fall for a jerk!!!
my life is great...
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my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year. he lives in the bigger part of town about 13 miles from my house. ive always gone there because thats where the movies, restaurants, etc are [there is nothing here] plus the fact that my mom works alot and he cant be here if she isnt, and we usually dont have guests over anyway [never rlly have]. in all the time weve been hanging out over this last year, his mom has driven him here or picked me up/brought me home maybe 5 or 6 times. i usually see him 2-3 times a week. it started out as just one time a week but then increased when he quit his job. my mom hated driving me there all the time because gas is expensive and what not [both of our families are kind of on a money crunch] but despite all the yelling and fussing she still did it. then i got a car. i pay for my own gas and now im up that way 5-6 days outta the week. i ended up getting a job that i love about a mile from his house. so on nights that i work [usually 3-4 times a week] ill drive over there and hang out for a few hours. no prob. but on days i dont work he stil wants me to come see him. but thats alot of money & gas. he got another job in april and is making decent money [about $7 an hour i think] and works 20-30 hours a week. hes 17 and has no car soo im the one doing all the driving. even if we go out to eat or to a movie [which we hardly EVER do.. seriously, 95% of the time we sit at his house] im the one driving there and paying half the time. i mentioned tonight maybe he could give me $5-10 like every 2 weeks to help me pay STRICTLY for gas, and he flat out said no. he has money that he spends on stupid stuff basically, so is that really too much to ask? i cant just stop going over there, because i cant not see him, plus there is NOTHING for me to do at my house, and my friends are always busy during the summer. how can i get him to understand thats alot of money on my part and i think he should help me at least a little. (link)
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look, that is the problem with boys of this generation... he is the man of the relationship, and he is supposed to do whatever to be with you, if he has to walk to see you or if he has to give you money.. but he is wrong of what he is doing...
he has a job and there is no way that you have to put up with him...
What is wrong with girls now?? girls go head over heals over some dumb guys...
you have to stop feeding his ego... he is controlling you,, can't you see it???
Tell him, to get off his ass and start caring for you...
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how do you know if you don't really love somebody anymore?
i have been dating my boyfriend for a while now and i used to be butterflies in my stomach can't stop thinking about him in love. He was the same way to me, and the thing is he is still completely head over heals for me but im afraid i don't love him. he changed alot lately, he lies to me now, hides stuff from me. he's doing alot of stupid stuff like getting arrested when he is with his friends. i talked to him about it, we even went on a break. he appologized did anythign to get me back and the second i did, he lied to me again. im a good girlfriend and i don't cheat or lie and i am there for him when he gets in trouble but im afraid i don't love him anymore. how will i know for sure? (link)
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I think you already know for sure,,,the signs are there...
These are the things that should guide you to know whether you love him..
Do you have patience for him?
Do you want to be kind to him?
Are you jelous?
Do you boast that u r better than him
Are you proud that you love him?
Are you rude to him?
Are you selfish?
Do you get easily angry at him?
Do you keep records of wrong???
the question is now...
Is he worth of your love???
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hey its brittany..... well i didnt do it and i am glad. shenaye asked him if he liked me and all he said is that we are better as friends.....so i am an idiot and you were right. (link)
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well, like I said before,, you are very attractive and you have to do is just wait to find the right guy...I just hope that u don't fall for a dumb guy..
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Background: I love her. I had to move last year for my work, but I made her the pledge that I would love her forever. As one of the things we did- I opened a joint back account with her- where part of my paycheck every 2 weeks would be deposited into that account. We "broke" up two months later. That account never closed. She started dating someone else. Now- she's using that account and now is spending like there's no tomorrow- 3300 dollars in 5 weeks.
But I still love her- and I can't close the account. What should I do? I don't know how to confront her if I should. I'm a fool. (link)
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No you are not a fool, YOU ARE STUPID.........
How come u can't close the account....
Stop the direct deposit.....
NEVER OPEN A JOIN ACCOUNT UNTIL U R MARRIED
sue her!!!!!!!!
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I am a 26 year old mom of 2 girls who has been dateing a 33 year old who has never been married and has no kids. He loves to play darts and is 3rd in the region. I want a family again and love him very much we do live together but the only problem is his bar buddy's always call him and want him to go down to the bar to "play" darts but then he comes home drunk.I don't know what to do especially when his friends say "ask your mom if you can come and play" He is so use to being a batchlor I don't think he knows how to handle it. How am I suppose to handle it? (link)
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Easy,,,
You need a man who either has kids of his own or has been around kids.. this guy is there just for the free sex,, but he is still a kid in his heart..
it seems that he puts his friends before you...
BIG SIGN OF NO COMMITMENT
DO U SEE IT???
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year [1yr3m] and face it, it's not the same. I love him as a friend, but I really don't think I feel anything relationship-wise with him. I really don't want to go out anymore because I feel like I'm just putting on an act, and he can tell that it's not the same anymore because I'm not as touchy anymore and I don't show much emotion at all. My friends know that I can't really stand him as a boyfriend anymore. It's just that everything he does annoys me, and it's not his fault, it's mine. I just want to move on and just be friends. But I can't find the nerve to do it, because it's so tough because we've been going out for so long and he's probably one of the few people that I can tell almost anything to and I feel myself around. First question: How can I build up the courage to actually do it? Tips please?
Second Question: We went on a break around Christmas (I enforced it) I was like' I don't want to go out anymore' and he thought it was just a break. Throughout the whole break he kept asking what he did wrong. He didn't do ANYTHING!, it's just not the same anymore. He just keeps saying 'there has to be a reason, things don't just change like that ..how can you just all of a sudden stop liking me' It's things like that that I don't know what to say to. I hate how I have to explain everything, but I guess he deserves it. How can I answer all these questions? It's not like he did anything, it was just the relationship lost it's spark. If I said that, he just DOESN'T GET IT! He keeps asking what happened, even if there wasn't a specific event. How can I get it through his mind that he didn't do anything wrong, and what can I say without sounded like a complete bitch (even though dumping somebody is bitchy).
It's not like I want to, (even though I do) but it's more like I need to, because I'm not happy, and I'm not acting happy around him which doesn't make him happy.
Any relationship advice, personal experiences would help me so much.
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Simple. Tell him Johnny my heart does not feel any passion love for you anymore. It died.. but I will remember the great times we had....
bye...I guess I was not in love....
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So, I have been going out with this guy, for a little over three weeks. He told me that he can't see us in the long-term having a relationship because I'm an atheist and he's a catholic. Like, when we get married - everything will just be screwed up. He said he still wants to be friends with benefits, the thing is. I can't understand why he would want to be that, you know?
What would you do? (link)
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just laugh, and tell him that he is a hypocrite because the Bible says to respect women in other words to be pure in heart. Tell him to go and read the Bible.
May be u should read it too!!!!!1
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