As far back as i can remember, I've always wanted to be a gangster...
Well I'm latina, Guatemalan yo! Anyways, I like to surprise people. Which is quite easy for me, I'm very odd and awkward most of the time.
Randomness is do to my ADHD, I tend to ramble on alot sorry. >.< Well as my name clearly states I love anime, yay! I have an rp account in myspace, do you rp?:O
Add me my name is Shizu and yes I edited my df piccy that's my character you see in the graffiti, if you already know me somehow and have me added well wow... .__.
Weird...but anyways, I've been through much in the past years of my some what short life.
I've learned a few things,no matter how shitty everything happens for a reason.
So yeah feel free to ask me anything you need help with, I'll try to help and will answer to the best of my ability~
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hi well i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 16, and we're going to homecoming this saturday. it's my senior year and last homecoming, so keep in mind i'd like it to be really special :) he lives right down the road from the school, and theres a little park not 200 ft from his house, with some really pretty spots such as a manicured field and a nice wooden bridge over a stream. i want to take some hc pictures there. leading up to my question...after homecoming, i want to do something really romantic, such as laying in the grass in our formal-wear (haha) looking at the stars, or something. (he's like me, so i know he'd enjoy something like this) does anyone have any ideas as to what else we could do? preferably outside - parents inside ruin the mood lol. and it's still warm here at night, so weather isn't a problem. any and all ideas would be greatly appriciated! thanks :) (link)
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You could pack a small little picnic, if you eat at your homecoming well who cares you may be hungry afterwards or, even if you don't eat wouldn't it be nice to sit together on a nice picnic blanket with some food around you, you ca pick and nibble on as you two stare at the night sky? :)
Or you could go for a walk, not that romantic or fun I guess, but talk and enjoy each others company.
Guess that's all I really got sorry :(
Heh, hope I helped
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this kid really really likes me, i kinda like him.
but the problem is i dont wanna be made fun of with him because hes not really the best lookin of kid. and i dont know. i might not like him cuz of this. i dont know what i think! give me some advice to cheer me up! and just get over that fact. im looking at his personality, not his outer appearance.
i dont think this is a very big problem but i could use some help.
thanks. (link)
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Don't be affraid of what people may think of him or you, there plenty of strange couples walking around. One partner maybe drop dead grogeous while the other may resemble a goat. o.O
But like you said, you're looking the personality, so then over look his looks. If you like him give him a chance. My bf isn't the most attractive guy around people often ask me what I see in him, I say he's the most beautiful person I've ever met inside and out. :) We've been together for about a year, 2-14 will be our year. :P Not that you care but it makes me fell warm inside to see our date. (lol) Anyways, go with your feelings and not your thoughts so much, if he's a nice guy then who knows what may happen.
Good luck!
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i'm 15 f
i've been struggling with my sexuality for a few months now, almost half a year. first, my best friend who moved to texas said she had a crush on me over AIM and i grew to like her back. since she hasnt been able to visit us, i think her interest faded. she considers herself bicurious but i really dont think she likes me. it took me a while to finally not like her so much, but she's gotten with a group of friends who really dont label her and they all act sexual anyway. i really wish i could be with that group of friends because my friends would label me in an instant. i dont want to be labeled bi because i really don't know what i am. i'm kinda attracted to girls but i'm also attracted to guys, i know im not straight but i dont want to be bi. i've only dated 1 guy in the past and that didnt work out very well. i havent dated any girls, and i havent opened up except to that friend, and one other friend that i just talked to tonight. how do i get comfortable with myself enough to open up to more people? and where do i begin? all i want them to know is that i'm probably bicurious. at first i thought i was going through a phase, but im not sure what phases last for half a year. =\
help me pleassssssee (link)
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I've been their before, but bisexuality is frowned apon by many people, if your friends don't exccept you or feel awkward around you. Tell them you're still you, and that's only a small part of who you are. I'm straight,so I claim to be...>.>; But I am a bit bi, you're probably like 'Wtf? You just said you're straight!' Yeah I know see, I like guys and am far more attracted to them then I am to girls. But I do get the occasional crush on other girls. I've noticed I don't like so much girls for their body, because they don't have a penis...T-T; But I like them more for their warm thoughtful kind gentle ways. We're very affectionate and are way cuter in the way we act too, as I see it I fall for the mind of a women and her personality more then her figure... .__. I have boobs she has boobs, I have a V she has a V. Nothing new and exciting, but men have penises!:D We don't atleast most don't...e-o; But yeah, you say she told you she had a crush on you and you 'Grew' to like her back. Figure out what made you like her in the first place? But uh yeah this is like uber-long now so I'll wrap things up. As for coming out, I haven't quite come out to my parents but I plan to, but not untill I have a steady girl girl relationship. When I do I plan to introduce her to my 'rents as I come out. Not the best idea for most people I guess, but that's my plan,yep! For your friends I'd say make some new one's that are bi or les even, hell gay guys are great friends to have and talk about this sort of thing. Tell some of your current friends if you want but say it normaly and nonchalantly. You know the type of people your friends are, atleast you should...Think first before telling whoever it is you plan to tell, about what their reaction might be and if that person is more likely to push you away then stand at your side. Trust me I told one of my friends that I was fairly close to and she completely shund, doesn't even acknowledge my existence.
Well hope I helped~
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it's actually really complicated, i'm not a player.. i can promise you that. there's rarely a time where i play people. this is kinda different, i don't know what is going on in my mind.
my best friend and i had a thing before, but apparently we haven't gotten over our 'thing' yet. cause, i still like him.. and he still likes me. so i'm kind of stuck in between my boyfriend and my best friend. the thing is about my boyfriend, he can rarely go out.. and talk on the phone. but we see each other at school at the time, so what worries me is that.. what if every break comes up.. like a 3 week break or month break or something? i can't stand to not see my boyfriend for 2 weeks... because i start loosing feelings from there, hey i can't control my feelings. and most of the time, i hang out with my best friend. and my best friend acts more like a boyfriend than my actual boyfriend does. my actual boyfriend doesn't do much, i'm the person who wears the pants in the relationship... i always call.. but he sometimes never picks up.
the thing is, my best friend is probably thinking that i'm using him for things i'm not getting from my current boyfriend. but i'm not, i know it's not right... but i don't know why i keep doing it. i don't ever let anybody get into my relationships, i don't know why i let him get into my relationship. i feel alot more comfortable with my best friend than i do with my current boyfriend, because i don't know much about my current boyfriend (he's shy). me and my best friend can talk for hours and stuff, but my current boyfriend.. the longest time i talked to him was for 30 minutes, that's because i forced him to stay on the phone. -_____-" i don't know what to do, my best friend wants to talk to me tonight about something... i'm guessing it's bad, so i might have to choose my boyfriend or him. loose one and gain one.
i don't know what to do, help me please! btw, my current boyfriend is super sensitive because his last girlfriend and him had a bad break up, i'm basically his first girlfriend since his last girlfriend used him to get to someone else. and i don't want to hurt any of them..
i don't wanna loose neilsen, but yet.. i don't know.
i still would stay friends with both of them, if i could.... please help! ASAP! (link)
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It sounds like you and your bestfriend still have feelings for each other,you should think about who you care for most. Your current boyfriend or your bestfriend. It may be hard to choose but,know one know how you truelly feel about the guys but you. If you end up braking up with the guy lay it down gently....Hope I helped and good luck!=]
Darci X,15/f
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Is it true that you never forget your first love? i am in a serious relationship and have been for quite a few years, but i do not think i could ever let go of my first boyfriend. i find that i cant fully give myself to my current boyfriend as i always wonder what if! i am happy im really happy, but i do always wonder what if things had been different... should i try to forget my first love? is it healthy to forget? i think he will always hold a place in my heart that no one could ever fill. i havnt seen my ex for years, snce the day we broke up. do you think it would help me move on if i did see him? (link)
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I don't think anybody ever forgets there first love,beacuse it's your first love duh!
Ha,but I mean...I'm not sure because I don't think I've been in love yet,truelly inlove.
However I think if you haven't seen him in years and are currently in a serious relationship you should avoid seeing him.That's just my oppinion.So you should maybe try to get over him,I think it's perfectly healthy to beable to forget.Unless you plan to someday try get back together...
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I am a married women of 17 years with three kids.I been seeing another man as my bf for over 8mo now and my husband is ok with it cuz he has a gf also. This guy has a gf with 3 kids and they been together for 14 years and she doesn't know about us. Here's the problem: she found out and now he is playing it on the DL for a while. It has been over a month since I seen him and he called me two weeks ago and told me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. Tells me I am his life. I changed his life. I am his one and only, etc. Only problem is he doesn't call for weeks at a time and I haven't seen him in. He says he wishes he could see me but she took the car, the phone, everything from him and doesn't let him out of the house. He is 31 I am 37. I feel he does love me but I don't know if he is being true or out playing around. What should I do? I don't want to leave my husband and he doesn't want to leave his gf cuz of the kids involved but we do want to be together. What does it mean when a guy says you are my life but then isn't around much? (link)
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Wow...Well I have no reall clue and I'm sorry but look. Well first can i ask you a quick question.
How is that possible?:0 That's amazing!!!0_0
Both of you are married and both have other lovers? Er...Is that what you call swinging I think?...Wow!:D
Sorry about that any-who.
So lets see you're both o.k with it right,and now she won't let him see you.Well then I'm assuming she's not happy or o.k with it.Then I think you should sit down and talk to that guy and ask him what his true intentions are tell him you're not up for playing silly little games you're a grown woman and whant him to be honest.Do to what he responds from there i leave the rest to you I'm sure you're more then capable of kowing your next move!;] So yeah plus you are older then me much more older so you should know.Let me know what happens,just because it's so interesting.^_^
Good luck! Xuya 14 girl.:)
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ok, so my friends and i went to this club on a teen/all ages night. we're 17. my boyfriend who's 18 didnt want me going bc he says that me dancing with other guys is a form of cheating. i disagree with that. i can understand if me and some other guy were groping all over each other or kissin or whatever, but i dont think dancing with someone else is cheating. even if i do grind/dance with another guy, my boyfriend is the only one i care about and want to be with. he said he understands that, but he still doesnt like it. i would never have it in my heart to cheat on him, or anyone else. in your opinion, is dancing a form of cheating? (link)
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look if he dsnt like it then dnt do it...it wont kill you not 2 dance w/ some other guys you dnt know...i dnt think dancing is cheatin how ever grinding and things like that i can consider as a slight form of cheating...so i say dnt do it...if it bothers you that he says that then simple tell him "i love you alot (or w/e) and those guys dnt mean aything 2 me...ok?"...so thats about it...
hope i helped...:]
14 girl xuya...
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okay, so theres this guy i like and i need some ways to show him that i like him by being subtle, because i work with him. anyway, if anyone could help me out that would be great, thanks :) (link)
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how about making him lunch :] invite him 2 a movie the 2 of you only...:) share gum w/ him may not be much but itll give you a reason 2 talk 2 him....:]
hope i helped...:] good luck! 14 girl xuya...
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im engaged to a woman who just doesnt like my 9 year old son. she has told me she doesnt like him and shows very little affection towards him. what should i do? (link)
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fuck that tell her to try to get along w/ him!!!>:O other wise dnt marry her!!! look your probly an old guy that knows much more than me but theres something i do know and that is i know how it feels2 have a step parent that doesnt love you...it sucks it makes you feel sad depressed and the lowest of the low...so tell this woman to build a more affectionate relationship w/ your son or leave her besides whos more important her? your 9year lod son or that woman? well thats all i can tell you and think hard!!! this is no joke your a grown man you should now by now right from wrong...>:/
14 girl ayux...
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so i have serious confidence issues when it comes to men. if i dont know them or are a bit wary of them or even just in an uncomfortable situation. i freeze up. i wont talk, make eye contact or even talk to my girl friends till they've gone.
if it gets really bad i will start shaking and sweating pretty much uncontrollably. i will usually make an excuse and leave. i fear being left alone with a lad.
that is my worst nightmare as i cant handle the conversation and make a fool of myself which just makes me feel even worse. i just want to be rescued.
its never the individual's fault its just cos there are male. stupid i know but i have very irrational and fucked up thought processes.
i have never revealed the extent of this problem to anyone although i have briefly mentioned it to a few people.
the reasons may be to do with the lack of male presence in my life growing up. (my dad left when i was 4.)
i want to overcome it as im restricting myself to half of the population. im also desperately lonely and would love someone to talk to and be at ease with. my friends are great but they all have boyfriends so i tend to get pushed aside.
i dont know how to overcome it. but i know i want to do it. its just that im soooo scared.
any help??
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ok ill keep it short and simple...1st slap your self in the face relax breath in and out ok your chillax now right...ok! now when you see a guy and want 2 talk 2 em or they talk 2 them but get the jidders just stare at the tip of their nose itll look like your giving eye contact...you juat have 2 realize youll never get a boyfriend or guy friends if you dnt even talk 2 the opposite sex so just go 2 the mall w/ friends and practice just look at a guy 4rm far away and smile then move on look and smile look and smile...then you can go 2 a look smile and wave hi look smile and wave hi! k! its no big deal just pretend youve know them 4 years and relax...when talking just use short sentences keep it short and sweet..:]
most important believe in oyur-self you can do it i know you can! so go get em girl!!!>:]
14 girl call me xuya...need any more help just ask!=]
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Okay, So there is this Guy who I totally like. And I want to know if he likes me back. Here is how he acts.
1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"
So Does he like me? Also, It seems like he's kind of flirting. So when he is Doing all of this, what do I do back? Thankss(: (link)
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nope...he dsnt like you...now thats wah a complet retard would say!!!:o look he so completly likes you its all the signs and the fact that he said ive never been 2 your house is the fact hes tryin 2 tell you he likes you so do me a favor and if you like him then ask him out!!!:]
and when he flirts flirt back duh!
hope i helped any more questions feel free 2 ask!
xuya 14 girl..:]
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16/f
okay so.. in our youth group there's like 4 guys (it's a small youth group). but anyways, i've hooked up with one of the guys lets call him A. A liked me a lot i'm pretty sure and i kinda liked him back. then there's B. my best friend hooked up with B. they really liked each other and he wanted to ask her out but she didn't wanna go out with him. but anyways.. now B likes me. and he's gonna ask me out and he like got me this really pretty necklace and stuff (my friends told me this). my best friend says she doesn't care if i go out with him.. but he was her first hook up and i would feel bad. and also i don't really want to go out with him. but here's the question.. would it be wrong if i just hooked up with him? because he's a really great person and he's attractive and stuff but i just don't really want a relationship for the summer because there's a few other guys i'm interested in. but then again i don't know if i should because i don't want to be like the 'slut of the youth group' having hooked up with 2 of the guys. ya know? i'm mostly just worried about my best friend caring even though she says she doesn't. but here's the catch.. one of my other best friends has never made out before. so B told her he would hook up with her so she would get the experience. my other friend told her it was fine. so would it be ok if i hooked up with him too? she said it was but i still feel like she kinda likes him a little just because it was her first time and i dont know it just feels wrong.
THANKS (link)
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i say if you dont feel something 4 the guy dnt guys can be just as emotional as girls they have feelings 2 so if its just 4 good looks dnt because what if some other guy or 1 of teh 1s you like ask you out while your w/ him you brake up w/ him and hurt hes feelings and use him...so just dnt accept the neckles and say i just want 2 be friends is that ok?...and if the hes like yes he might say i still want you 2 keep it you can choose 2 keep it or not...i wouldnt he might get the wrong pic and think you kida like him...so yeah...hope i helped :]
xuya 14 girl...:]
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ok so my friend is leaving for camp on sunday and she told her other friend from camp that she wouldn't go back to camp without having made out. so there's this kid who told her he would hook up with her... lets call him A. but she was too scared to do it. so i told her i would hook up with a different guy.. lets call him B if she hooked up with A. and she said fine. well the thing is.. i actually really like B and he likes me too. but we're like best friends and i feel like it would be really awkward. i don't know if it will like ruin our friendship or not. i know it probably will once we stop liking each other but what about now? i just don't know if i should go through with it or not.. even though i really want to. this would happen today so i'm like freaking out and stuff. HELP! (link)
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k look i like this guy 2 damn i wish i could be doin tat w/ him....;] sorry anyways! so look you like him he likes you so whats the problem? right now i think is th eperfect time 4 you 2 ask him out then if you brake up you say can we still be friends but well hit that when you come 2 that 4 ow just keep your focuse on him and just ask him out you be happy and itll work out 4 the both of you...:]
14 girl call me xuya!:]
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is blow job considered as cheating? doesnt that depend on a couple's thinking? it isnt the same for everyone...but i mean in general, would it be cheating? (link)
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i say yes...when you give blow job 2 some 1 who isnt your bf then yes even if u kiss some1 else it is cheating...think of it this way y would you want 2 give that 2 some 1 else when you could give it 2 your bf....just ask your self if he ate out some girl thats not you of his own will would you concider it cheating?
14 girl xuya...:]hope i helped...
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If some girl was forced to give a guy a blowjob from her school, and she has a boyfriend, she obviously thinks he will break up with her but she was forced, does that considered as cheating? (link)
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well how exactly were they forced? i think cheating is cheating there are no exceptions... how ever if you are tryin 2 look 4 a way 2 tell your boyfriend you dnt intend 2 cheat then just tell him wah realy happen also dnt wait longer tha 2 days because itll only make you more nerves plus he can some how find out by himself some how the longer you wait so just tell him as soon as psible and dnt be mad if he gets mad if that happens just say "im sorry i dnt want 2 explain slowly y it happen and how"...then if he loves you hell understand and 4givr you!:]
so thats wah i think you should do...:]
14 girl xuya...good luck!:D
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two weeks. well we barely get to see each other. but we tlk on aim like kinda all day. but everyday. but like for the past 3 days weve tried to hang out and he always has an excuse after everything is said and done like my parents wont let me now. they dont want to go becuz of the whether. aghh what should i do? (link)
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k so im 14 and a girl and i know wah your talkin bout ive had the same problem w/ this guy i like 2...well just ask him 1 more time be real tell him "i realy wanna hang out w/ you can you tell your parents ahead of time ask them if theyll let you go"...and then hell know 4 real your interested also you should give him your # if you can and tell him 2 call you when ever you want 2 hang out if you can ask 4 his # do so...:]
and good luck!
xuya....:D
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I have a huge crush on this guy and he's so sweet and nice. I really think he likes me too but theres one problem. All of my friends think he's gay. I know he isn't i can just tell but if i went out or did anything with him they'd be all obnoxious calling him gay.
He is in touch with his feminine side but he is definitely not gay.
what do i do? (link)
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hi im 14 a girl a you can call me xuya...
so lets see....you like him right! hes not gay right! so ask him out...when you guys are going out tell your friends those jokes bout him being gay arent funny theyll see you arent kiding n they will stop...so you shoouldnt have 2 think just ask him out n tell your friends 2 cut back on the gay jokes they should understand if they r your friends k!:]
good luck!
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ok so there's this boy i really like and he knows i like him. he's a real quiet boy. like he wont talk 2 me unless i say somethin 2 him but he talks my bro and my sis, like if my sis sends him a text message or a message on myspace he answers but when i do it he dont answer back. and im to shy and nervous 2 talk 2 him. we dont really talk so it'll be kinda weird if i call him so wat do i do??? (link)
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k hi im 14 and a girl...i might help...
so 1st you say he dsnt respond 2 your msgs right then dnt call him....if i were you i would send him a msgs sayin omg!!! n thats all he may be wondering wah happen and he might respond so then he might be like what? so you say...ummm...well i dnt know you make something up...id just say i bought a new book or something and its real good...:]
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Hi...let me just start out by saying im a 16/male...I guess ill just go ahead and start babbling now...
I decided, until recently, to be out of the dating game. Recently I've been going out with a girl that I'm absolutely crazy for and she's my first serious girl. I'm very glad that we're going out, but she's had boyfriends before me. I guess what I'm really getting at is that she's kissed before, and I of course, having not been dating, have not. We had our first kiss already but I don't know whether or not I did a very good job. I'm pretty sure it was decent, but of course I wouldn't know. I guess I just want to know if it will make it odd with her after a pretty awkward kiss, though I know she wanted me to kiss her. Basically, I want to know if it's normal to feel like this, like to be worried that things will change.
Thank you very much for any help, I hope it wasn't too much babbling. (link)
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hehehe...babbling...well any who im 14 a girl n might help....
look aslong as your breath dsnt smell bad you brush your teeth you should be fine if you wanna be more play full w/ your kissing then you can play w/ her hair if it down or put your hands on the side of her face firmly and just mildly squeez this i dnt know feels nice...:p
and you can also play w/ ears ears are good 2 play w/...when you have been dating 4 awhile you can go on 2 open mouth if you havent already when you first do that try not 2 slobber on her dnt make it super long keep it sweet and short!:]
and thats bout it...so i hope i helped...xuya :D
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hey i like this boy who is 16. does he likes me. he calls me , he talks to me on the computer. he texts my cell. it doesnt seem he does. he told me he likes me a lil...he wanted me to go to the powerhouse with him but my dad is not letting me go. i told him that and all he said was ok.. but i want to know does he like me ..... i will be on aol if u want to talk...bbj394 is my sn... please help and i will rate u (link)
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k...so im 14 and a girl call me xuya..:]
i dont care bout ratings like other ppl...
k..1 he told you he liked you a lil right so there 4 showin interest and waittin 2 see if you like him back 2 he asks you out 2 hang rigt he wants 2 hang w/ you so try as hard as you can 2 hang w/ him and even if you need 2 lie 2 your dad 1 time wont kill you and when you hang out see what kida signals he sends you then you can make a move or wait 4 him...hope i helped :]
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