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First kiss


Question Posted Thursday June 12 2008, 1:32 am

Hi...let me just start out by saying im a 16/male...I guess ill just go ahead and start babbling now...

I decided, until recently, to be out of the dating game. Recently I've been going out with a girl that I'm absolutely crazy for and she's my first serious girl. I'm very glad that we're going out, but she's had boyfriends before me. I guess what I'm really getting at is that she's kissed before, and I of course, having not been dating, have not. We had our first kiss already but I don't know whether or not I did a very good job. I'm pretty sure it was decent, but of course I wouldn't know. I guess I just want to know if it will make it odd with her after a pretty awkward kiss, though I know she wanted me to kiss her. Basically, I want to know if it's normal to feel like this, like to be worried that things will change.

Thank you very much for any help, I hope it wasn't too much babbling.


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animelove answered Friday June 13 2008, 8:40 pm:
hehehe...babbling...well any who im 14 a girl n might help....


look aslong as your breath dsnt smell bad you brush your teeth you should be fine if you wanna be more play full w/ your kissing then you can play w/ her hair if it down or put your hands on the side of her face firmly and just mildly squeez this i dnt know feels nice...:p
and you can also play w/ ears ears are good 2 play w/...when you have been dating 4 awhile you can go on 2 open mouth if you havent already when you first do that try not 2 slobber on her dnt make it super long keep it sweet and short!:]

and thats bout it...so i hope i helped...xuya :D

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xoashhx33 answered Thursday June 12 2008, 3:40 pm:
im sure your fine, but there was this guy i dated for a little while and it was like he was gonna suck my face off. after the first time i didnt want to kiss anymore so yeah when we did i cut it short and tried to be into the movie so i wouldnt have to kiss him.

just look for those signs. if theres nothing then your all good. ps you wont get better until you practice and maybe just talking to her would help

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Sima answered Thursday June 12 2008, 1:29 pm:
Well, I'm a girl, and knowing that a guy is nervous about a first kiss is nothing out of the ordinary. I haven't had my first kiss, so I'm going to let my best friend sitting next to me, answer.

"i've been with guys who havent had their first kisses. at first, it was a little awkward at first, but just a LITTLE. i was nervous for my first kiss too. it went pretty badly, actually. the second time, though, was a lot better. the guy that i was w/ was having his first kiss, and as we continud to kiss, he got alot better. no, it will not be odd, because your girlfriend should understand what you're worrying about. if she doesnt, then she's being a little insensitive. i'm sure, though, that if she's nice, she'll understand and wont make a big deal out of it. its totally normal to feel like this. its just anxiety. dont worry, just go with the flow!"

Hope that helped you!

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