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im not a cheater =[
ok, so my friends and i went to this club on a teen/all ages night. we're 17. my boyfriend who's 18 didnt want me going bc he says that me dancing with other guys is a form of cheating. i disagree with that. i can understand if me and some other guy were groping all over each other or kissin or whatever, but i dont think dancing with someone else is cheating. even if i do grind/dance with another guy, my boyfriend is the only one i care about and want to be with. he said he understands that, but he still doesnt like it. i would never have it in my heart to cheat on him, or anyone else. in your opinion, is dancing a form of cheating?
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Personally, I don't think its cheating.
We can all tell you that, but in the end
the only opinion that matters here is what
your boyfriend thinks. He isn't right, but
if he thinks its cheating he will be mad
regardless of what we say.
If you think you will doing a lot of dancing
without him, it may be best to re-evaluate
having him as a boyfriend. He probably
won't see it any different and its going to
cause problems. :)
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It's okay to dance with someone, but grinding is a different story, because your body is against theirs in a kind of sexual manner. How would you feel if your boyfriend went out and started grinding with a girl? I don't think you'd be very impressed..
Just tone it down a little. If you care about him as much as you say then you simply shouldn't do it.
That's just my personal thoughts on the matter.
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look if he dsnt like it then dnt do it...it wont kill you not 2 dance w/ some other guys you dnt know...i dnt think dancing is cheatin how ever grinding and things like that i can consider as a slight form of cheating...so i say dnt do it...if it bothers you that he says that then simple tell him "i love you alot (or w/e) and those guys dnt mean aything 2 me...ok?"...so thats about it...
hope i helped...:]
14 girl xuya...
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I personally don't believe that dancing is a form of cheating, not at all. It's a way for people to have fun, and socialize. Now GRINDING however, is an entirely different form of dancing than a traditional method. It involves aggressive contact between two people, ussually a male and a female in most cases and if you do watch two people do it, you can tell that they are getting some forms of sexual vibes from it. Even if you have no intention on cheating on your boyfriend at all, and you love him with all your heart, he might think differently when he sees another guy basically humping your body on the dance floor. I think that you can comfortably dance with other guys, and that's not a problem at all, but grinding in the club isn't exactly the most faithful thing to do if you have someone else you care about. Hope everything works out well for you! Dave
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