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What should I do?
I am a married women of 17 years with three kids.I been seeing another man as my bf for over 8mo now and my husband is ok with it cuz he has a gf also. This guy has a gf with 3 kids and they been together for 14 years and she doesn't know about us. Here's the problem: she found out and now he is playing it on the DL for a while. It has been over a month since I seen him and he called me two weeks ago and told me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. Tells me I am his life. I changed his life. I am his one and only, etc. Only problem is he doesn't call for weeks at a time and I haven't seen him in. He says he wishes he could see me but she took the car, the phone, everything from him and doesn't let him out of the house. He is 31 I am 37. I feel he does love me but I don't know if he is being true or out playing around. What should I do? I don't want to leave my husband and he doesn't want to leave his gf cuz of the kids involved but we do want to be together. What does it mean when a guy says you are my life but then isn't around much?
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I think it is better you just stay away from him and continue your marriage with your husband! Firstly, you have kids and don't you think they deserve to be with their dad?! So stay with your husband that has been with you for SO long, through sickness and in health and all that stuff. So don't be selfsih and thin for yourself only, think about your family too, they should mean something more to you, than yourself, so just take sometime to think if it is worth it! Especially because he doesn't call you so often and only once after a few weeks! Is that what you really want to continue with?! A hidden, secretive relationship from the beginning?! Leaving your family for a man that doesn't want to leave his GIRLFRIEND, not even his wife! And he has had kids with her, is it really worth it?! And think about the fact that he cheated on his loyal girlfriend, don't you think he may do the same to you, especially because he is younger than you, maturity is something you might want to invest some time and thinking into.
Just think about the consequences and things like that, and if he is something much more to you, than your family, children and husband.
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have you ever heard the saying "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you?" i think you're better off getting out of the relationship. /:
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Wow...Well I have no reall clue and I'm sorry but look. Well first can i ask you a quick question.
How is that possible?:0 That's amazing!!!0_0
Both of you are married and both have other lovers? Er...Is that what you call swinging I think?...Wow!:D
Sorry about that any-who.
So lets see you're both o.k with it right,and now she won't let him see you.Well then I'm assuming she's not happy or o.k with it.Then I think you should sit down and talk to that guy and ask him what his true intentions are tell him you're not up for playing silly little games you're a grown woman and whant him to be honest.Do to what he responds from there i leave the rest to you I'm sure you're more then capable of kowing your next move!;] So yeah plus you are older then me much more older so you should know.Let me know what happens,just because it's so interesting.^_^
Good luck! Xuya 14 girl.:)
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