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im only 16 and iam pregnat i dont know what to do i feel like im dieing from my inside
the father of the baby want me to have an abort but i want ot have my baby and i dont know what to do is so much pressure and idont think is right to kill a little innocent baby i want to have the baby but this boy dont want to have a baby.. hes 17 and i love him but i cant do an abort.
:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:((: help me please ...
i definitely wouldn't recommend keeping it OR getting an abortion. have you thought of putting the baby up for adoption? i have a few friends who have been in your situation, & they have all said although it's hard, they're glad they chose adoption. it's so hard for a girl your age to keep up with a child. you need to finish school & live your life to the fullest before becoming a mother. plus, there are so many couples out there who are unable to have children on their own. personally, that's what i think you should do.
I am a married women of 17 years with three kids.I been seeing another man as my bf for over 8mo now and my husband is ok with it cuz he has a gf also. This guy has a gf with 3 kids and they been together for 14 years and she doesn't know about us. Here's the problem: she found out and now he is playing it on the DL for a while. It has been over a month since I seen him and he called me two weeks ago and told me how much he loves me and wants to be with me. Tells me I am his life. I changed his life. I am his one and only, etc. Only problem is he doesn't call for weeks at a time and I haven't seen him in. He says he wishes he could see me but she took the car, the phone, everything from him and doesn't let him out of the house. He is 31 I am 37. I feel he does love me but I don't know if he is being true or out playing around. What should I do? I don't want to leave my husband and he doesn't want to leave his gf cuz of the kids involved but we do want to be together. What does it mean when a guy says you are my life but then isn't around much?
have you ever heard the saying "if he cheats with you, he'll cheat on you?" i think you're better off getting out of the relationship. /:
ok so i meet this guy at a lock in. and from what i have gotten to know him and what his friends has said about him he is great. he is a good guy, and he wouldnt do anything to hurt me. i been on 3 dates with him so far. and know from waht his friend saids he is going to ask me out. and at first i was soo happy and i was going to say yes.
but today his friend was telling me some stuff that he has done before. like he has done weed once and saids he will never do it again. he did it that once cause he got peer pressure into it. then it worried me that he could get peer pressure into a lot of things then. also that he has a lot of friends that smoke. and i dont really want to be around that. also it is long distance so that is already hard enough. and he has cheated before. and my last bf cheated on me and i dont want to go though that again. but i still like him. i just dont know if i should go out with him.
and so far he has treated me really good, and been so sweet.
idk maybe i am just taking this to seriously and freaking out about it to much.
sincerly,
softballbabe2610
it sounds like you have yourself a pretty good boy. so, he tried weed once. who cares? he learned from it, right? you definitely are NOT going to be able to make him avoid smokers. they're everywhere, & that's something that everyone has to deal with. also, i'm assuming you're young. young teens are going to cheat on each other. ya'll are horny. end of story. i'm almost positive there's no getting around it. just have fun & enjoy being a kid. (:
my friend was telling me about her and her boyfriend "doing it" and she was talking about who did the work - what does she mean? what work is to be done? what do you do during sex anyway? im not ready for it or anything. i was just wondering. i mean, how are you supposed to move?
by "work" she was probably referring to who was on top. usually, while one partner is on top, the other is, for the most part, holding still. sex is a lot of hard work. it definitely take a lot of engery to move so rapidly, so consistently. there isn't a right or wrong way to move during sex. generally it's the back & forth or up & down movement of the hips, but it's really whatever you & your partner prefer. you just have to experiment. (:
I think I avoid getting close to people. I know everyone for the most part would like my personality, but sometimes I'm just so low on energy that I don't care about enjoying the moment...I always wait around for "next" time. Which never comes. How can I use my energy more effectively?
it actually sounds like you're having syptoms of depression. i battled with it hardcore about 4 years ago when i was a freshman in high school. you may want to let a doctor know about your low energy levels & you're unwillingness to go out & enjoy yourself. if that isn't an option, just force yourself to get up & go. if you're getting an adequate amount of sleep & not expending it through physical activity, that's really the only thing you can do.
So, my boyfriend wants to finger me but i'm afraid.. I mean I want to!.. but i'm scared it's going to hurt, i've never been fingered before, or fingered myself or wear tampons... is this going to hurt????!
please help /:
it really didn't hurt the first time it happened to me. there was a little discomfort afterward, but it wasn't bad at all. just tell him to be gentle, & make him stop if it's hurting too bad.
Im still a virgin but i want to try using a dildo will it hurt ?
i would definitely recommend it. it may hurt, but the good thing is that you're in control. you can go at your own pace, & stop if it's causing you too much pain. also, you'll loosen things up a little bit, & your first time shouldn't cause you as much discomfort.
hey:) id like to know what exactly is a college credit??cuz the college i will join says that each credit is like for 360 and you can take a maximum of 12....im confused??:[
you have to have a certain amount of hours in each class for it to qualify as a credit. for example, some classes may require 1 hour a week, some 2, some 3, & so on. i think what they're saying is that you take take a max of 12 hours of classes a week, & that you'll need 360 hours total.
is the hair straightener chi really worth the money?
the chi's really good, but i doubt it's worth the money. i'd try the wet to straight iron from remington. i have a friend with REALLY curly hair & it works great for her. plus, it's only about $30.
Hello,
I am having trouble with a few acne scars on my face. I was wondering if there is a product or a treatment that someone on here has used that helped them. I have only a few of scares... Eh, 4-5 maybe, but they are really annoying and I want my skin to look good. If there is any advice I can be given, it would be appreciated.
Thanks
i used neutrogena advanced solutions acne mark fading peel. it worked pretty effectively. you can still see the scars if you look hard enough, but it definitely reduced the appearance of them. i'd give it a try.
well i know this dude for 4 years and i like him but is that his a player and i don't know what to do he had ask me out before and i said ''no'' but now i do want to go out with him what should i do? and the thing is that my friend likes him!!!! But people say that we make a cute couple!!!! sincerely confused,
why would you wanna go out with a player? it wouldn't be worth losing your friend over.
i want my nails to be longer.
they are soo short, i dont bite them.
what should i dooo.
if you don't bite them, but they're still short, it's probably because they're thin. buy some clear, strengthening nail polish. it should help. if not, they do make boosters for nail growth. both of these products are available at walmart, or anywhere or the sort.
When my boyfriend fingers me, eats me out or we have sex, I always end up having a really intense orgasm where my legs shake and it's the whole arched back thing. Though... afterwards, I get like... after shivers? Is that normal?
that's completely normal & evidence of having a great partner. congratulations. (:
Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do?
if you don't see your boy very often, then you should have plenty time to spend with your besty. relationships can really tear friendships apart. trust me, you don't want that to happen.