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my friend was telling me about her and her boyfriend "doing it" and she was talking about who did the work - what does she mean? what work is to be done? what do you do during sex anyway? im not ready for it or anything. i was just wondering. i mean, how are you supposed to move?
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What they ment by who was doing the work, can also be known as who was in control. This means that the person usually ontop or the one thrusting, or the person doing the most movement is the one working. In many cases the man does do most the work, but it can also be the woman and it can flip throught having sex. There is a lot of work that can be done, it takes a lot of energy.There are different way to move according to the different positions, it just comes to you when you are ready and start having sex.... your body just kind of takes control, follow your instinct.
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by "work" she was probably referring to who was on top. usually, while one partner is on top, the other is, for the most part, holding still. sex is a lot of hard work. it definitely take a lot of engery to move so rapidly, so consistently. there isn't a right or wrong way to move during sex. generally it's the back & forth or up & down movement of the hips, but it's really whatever you & your partner prefer. you just have to experiment. (:
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