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My boyfriend wants to finger me.
So, my boyfriend wants to finger me but i'm afraid.. I mean I want to!.. but i'm scared it's going to hurt, i've never been fingered before, or fingered myself or wear tampons... is this going to hurt????!
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As long as you're wet it probably won't hurt all that much. If it does, don't be scared to let him know.
If he hasn't done it before, don't be afraid to ajust the angle, sometimes the area of penetration can be hard to get to.
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it really didn't hurt the first time it happened to me. there was a little discomfort afterward, but it wasn't bad at all. just tell him to be gentle, & make him stop if it's hurting too bad.
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It most likely will hurt the first few times.
But if you go through with him doing it, tell him to be gentle and tell him to stop if it's really excruciating pain. Also: depending on how hard or deep he does finger you, you may bleed; so expect that, too.
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Mhm, i would deffinitly practice some yourself before you have him do it. It takes a while to get used to and the first time you do this you'll have absolutly no idea why anyone would VOLUNTARILY do this. It will hurt the first couple of times, but you get used to it. It gets better. Once you're comfortable then go for it.
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you could build yourself up to it, start wearing tampons and practicing on yourself. than you'll know what to expect. plus if your not a virgin than it won't hurt so you won't need to anything about it.
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No it won't hurt, not if you're aroused enough and relaxed enough. Don't let him stick his finger in until you are well lubricated down there (which happens when you are aroused.) There's nothing to fear. Having said that, only do it if you feel comfortable doing it and you want to do it. Not just because your bf wants to.
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