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My best friend and I are kind of competing for this guy we both like but I had broken up with him so I liked him again and all the sudden she likes him too. Do you think it would be bad if I got with him again? I mean he was mine first & she had never been interested then all the sudden she is like 'hes so cute, hes so nice' its making me reallyyy jealous and annoyed. can anyone please help? thanks! (link)
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First of all, your best friend should know the girl code of relationships. Never go after a best friend/friend's ex, that's a no no. Depending on why you broke up w/ this guy, should be a factor if you go back out with him or not.
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Ok, first of all my girlfriend and I are both sophomores in High School. We've been together for just over two months but we've known each other for almost four years and everything is going okay. But i'm in the middle of a depression right now and its making me reconsider a lot of things. For your information we don't have a typical on-off high school sort of romance. See we've determined that we are soulmates and intend to marry when we can (we even made these cheap little pretend rings to wear until then); in short, we're very serious for teenage romance. My question centers around the speed of the relationship. We've basically done everything aside from sex and being a guy, I feel I should try to get it to that point, you know? But for some reason all I really want to do is slow down. I feel if I tell her this, she will think I'm not ready for the kind of relationship she wants. And if she does, she might want to find someone else. My question is should this relationship take a step back or stay where it is now? (link)
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You need to sit down and talk to your girlfriend. They say that if you let something go and it comes back then it's meant to be. So if she lets you go and you go back then it's meant to be. You guys are both young, there are too many things ahead of you now to determine if you are supposed to be married. Explore your options, keep your friendship and see where life takes you.
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Okay this may seem strange but my friend is going out with my ex boyfriend and i'm really mad. Jordan (( my ex )) and I broke up in August and I really don't think that i still like him, that is untill my best friend decided to date him. I could've told her that it bothered me but I didn't! I think I like Jordan again but i don't know...I just don't want my friend to date him or any of my friends...what's going on and what should I do about this? Please Help! I'll rate 5's unless you're mean...
sincerley,
brokenhearted && confused =/ (link)
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You need to sit down and talk to your friend. However if she was really a good friend of yours, she wouldn't have went out with your ex in the first place. Don't any of these girls now a days know that the cardinal rule of thumb is never to date your friend's ex without at least talking to your friend about it. Tell her how you feel about her dating him.
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I like this kid but he went out with my best friend and everyone is tellin me to go out with him went should i doo
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First, I would ask your best friend how she would feel about you dating her ex. It's always a cardinal rule of girls, to not date your friends ex's.
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my boyfriend is scared that my dad is going to find out about me and him!! idont want him to be scared but at the same time i am scared too!! what do i do?
xoxx (link)
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It depends on why your boyfriend is scared of what your dad is going to do when he finds out about the two of you dating. First of all, how old are you two? Second of all, have you done something that is the reason that your boyfriend is scared. Maybe you should sit down w/ your family and introduce your boyfriend to them if you haven't yet.
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Last saturday I went on a "date" with my guy friend Jake. After we went out to eat, we sat in his car for a few minutes and just talked. I've never hugged him, or anything. But we were sitting there, and I put my head down to pick something up when he touched my hair and said, I love your hair. you look so beautiful with it. After that I was like, omgosh he's the best guy ever! Is this normal? Like just from him touching my hair and telling me I look beautiful - like I think I'm really starting to like him.
Sorry if this sounds cheesy. (link)
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It sounds to me as if your "friend" Jake is becoming to see you in a more different light. But don't rush this, you don't want to ruin a good friendship if things don't work out between the two of you.
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ok well i kissed this guy the other day and its been great but its the holidays and weve been speaking for like an hour on the phone coz he was at the airport going home so when he was on the plane just before he left he txted me and it was great and he said that he missed me and then i said 'so are we exclusive?' and he asked what that meant and i said just what are we? and so he replied what do u want us to be and i said what does you want?am i just a rebound (as he split up from a long term relationship) and he said 'look ur sexy and cool etc and we could go on 1 date or two' and then straight afterwards he said 'or loads of dates' and so then i replied loads of dates sounds prefect! so he just said lots and lots of love my bunny. ok sorry this is long but what did all that mean that he does like me?or that he just wants a couple of dates and stuff...i like him soo much i might be inlove so i need to know!!! im so sorry but ill rate high!!!! thank you xxx (link)
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Be very careful of what he is saying to you. If he just got out of a relationship, he may not think that it is a rebound but it indeed could be. I was in the same sitaution as you at one time, the guy i was dating had just gotten out of something and was so attracted to me and everything however, when it come down to it a few months down the road it ended. My heart was broken because he dumped me and moved another girl into his house, just like that. I dunno if that will happen to you, then come to find out the girl that he's been seeing has a personal ad on the internet and everything, however me and said guy ended on not so good terms and i wanted him to know so i had a friend tell him. I guess what i am trying to tell you is to be careful, dont set yourself up to get hurt.
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if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies? (link)
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Hello...do you seriously want to be with a man that disrespects you by calling you fat and telling you that you need to lose weight? Clearly, he's not the man you seem to thought he was and dear you need to drop him like a bad habit. You need to be with someone that is happy with you from the get go and not with someone that is going to tell you that you are overweight and that you need to lose it. Don't take him back even if he apologizes, just because he apologizes once doesn't mean that he means it and won't try it again. Be happy with yourself and when you are happy that way, the right man will come around and you will be happy, just you wait and see.
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Where Do I Start? Ok When my boyfriend is around me and MY FRIEND she flirts with him and she keeps telling me she doesn't. When I come around him by myself you never see him smile. But What I don't get is when WE are around him he smiles and she flirts with him like hell even though she has a boyfriend. I hate seeing my boyfriend down when I get around him. What Can I do to make him cheer up. Oh yeah his parents are divorced. SmartA**ES will get 1's and WILL be reported!!!! (link)
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You need to sit down w/ your friend and carefully and calmly ask her why she flirts with your boyfriend, when she has one. Tell her that it makes you very uncomfortable and that you are sick and tired of it. Then you need to talk to your boyfriend and find out if he's interested in her, if he is, dump him and find someone else. Because you deserve better than a boy that wants you and your best friend.
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ok so theres this guy..his name is michael. he asked me out on a date, so i went. i had a great time and i like him alot. but after 3 days he sent me a text message saying that he didnt think it was going to work. but the next day he sent me a nother saying that he was sorry and he didnt mean it. so we're not going out anymroe but i have a huge crush on him. his best friend says that he likes me 2. then yesterday was a big football game but i couldn't go. but michael and his best friend did. they called me up and michael is like "I LOVE YOU!!!!!" and then i told his best friend to find out what the deal is with michael and to call me back. michael did call me back at 9 but i was asleep so i didnt get a chance to talk to him. then just a few minutes ago i was on aim and michael was on. so i IMed him and said hi. he said hi then signed off. im going crazy..does he like me or not?????!!!! also: i go to an all girls school but theres an all boys school right next to it, they are sepereated by a gate. every lunch michael and his best friend comes over to see me and my friend. im just really confused about if he likes me or not...thanks in advance! (link)
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It seems to me that your friend Michael is confused about how he really feels about you. I would try to get his phone number and give him a call so the two of you can talk instead of having others talk for you. Explain to him that you do like him and you thought that he liked you but the way that he did what he did has you all confused now and your not sure what to really do.
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hey im a freshman in highskool and ive just been asked out by a freshman and he like almost in all my classes! when he asked me out, i though i shouldnt b a heartless bi*ch so i just said yes. i mean hes cute but like a lil brother cute. i feel like an ass**le. i will not say no now n tomm. i go bak 2 skool wat will i say wats next i dunt like him! oH MY GODDD ive made a big mistake n i need help PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thnxx (link)
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Go out with him anyways, who knows you may end up noticing some similarities that you two have and it may work out. If not, let him down gently and explain to him that you still want to remain friends with him and you dont want to mess up your friendship.
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There's always articles in magazines saying how you can REALLY get the guys to like you.
Smile, be nice, be funny, yada yada yada.
But, in your opinon how do you REALLY get guys to like you?
I mean different magazines say different things so, what do you think? (link)
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You have to be happy with yourself in order to get a guy. If you cant be happy with yourself then how are you going to be happy with another person being your boyfriend.
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theres this kid named darron who like is always trying to hurt me because we broke up wut do i do? (link)
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First and foremost you need to report it to either a family member, teacher, principal or even the local law enforcement. There is no reason for him to be harrassing you because you broke up. You do not need the negativity in your life, find something less drama filled and move on. Obviously you can move on but he's having a hard time with it. Do not go over to him alone and ask him to leave you alone, because he may hurt you and even worse this time. If you have to get an ex-parte or restraining order against him.
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i am 13/f and i want sex is that wrong (link)
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Hun, you are too young to be thinking about having sex for your first time. You always remember your first time, so cherish the time you still have to find the right guy to give it to. Don't just find anyone that wants it and just give it up to them.
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So my boyfriend & I's 6 months is coming up and I wanted to do something special for him but I don't have any ideas. I'm not really sure if we're going anywhere, we may just stay home.. so I don't really need any ideas of WHERE to go or WHAT to do.. basically I just want to know some cute, creative, and romantic present ideas that I could give to him. Something other than the usual cologne, clothes, cd, scrapbook ((everyone suggets that)) ideas. Hopefully you all can help, THANKS! (link)
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Give him a gift that will show him how much you care about him, reminding him of time spent with each other. Granted this may sound like a scrapbooking idea, but how about if you have pictures of the two of you, finding a way to put them on a computer and burning them to a disk with songs in the background that are special and dear to the both of you.
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Well i got my girlfriend a really nice gift for her birthday...well not gift....more like gifts....they were pretty expensive all together....but its her first birthday since weve been going out....and weve been going out for about 4 months now....do u think really expensive is a bad or good thing? (link)
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Okay, you've been dating 4 months now and you got an expensive gift for her? I think for the birthday, just some flowers and a small token of what she means to you would have been better. I mean you have only been together 4 months, so spending less money woulda been best. I could see if you'd been together for a year buying her a bigger gift but you haven't.
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I just started going out with this guy that goes to my old school. And we talk on the phone sometimes and we also talk online. But i dont get to see him alot. Which kinda makes me upset cuz i really like him.This weekend i only talked to him once and it was on the phone becuase he had to tell me if we where going to a movie or not. I havent talked to him since. I dont know if im just being weird because i dont get to see him. I was suppose to go to his football game today but my mom wouldnt take me because it was like hour away so i didnt get to see him. All of our friends where online and told me that he really wanted me to come, its wasnt my fault. Should i like not make a big deal with it and just be happy when i talk to him??
ThankS for the Help (link)
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Don't worry too much about not talking to him when you don't, or not seeing him when you can't. Be happy that you get to talk to him and see him when you do. If there is one thing that you need to have is trust in the relationship, because without trust, you really shouldn't be in the relationship anyway. I know that you want to be able to see him whenever possible, but you dont want to seem to pushy or needy, do you. Make memories of just being with him when you can, hope everything works out.
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i have an amazing boyfriend who i am totally in love with.
my friend, however, likes me..he won't leave me alone and is always sad because i have a boyfriend..he's getting pretty annoying and i don't want him to be all depressed.. what should i do? (link)
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First, how do you feel for your friend? This is one question that you need to ask yourself. You need to sit down and explain to your friend that you only like him for a friend and that you value your friendship. Include him when you go out with your boyfriend and friends. Find a girl that he may be interested in and help him get a girlfriend. There are many things that you can do to help your friend be as happy as you are.
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OK I really like this Kid... He is a cutie and I want to start hanging out with him more and stuff... like do I just wait until he askes me or what? he as been calling me and stuff but whenever he wants to hang out my parents are being gay? so what? well thanks (link)
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Okay first of all you need to sit down and speak to your parents about the fact that you do like this guy. See if they can be less 'gay' as you say if he wants to come over. It's 2005, it's okay for you to ask him out, instead of waiting for him to ask you out. Just casually suggest some video games or a movie, something that you two like to do would work too. Hopefully this works for you.
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