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yeah okay. so i went out with this guy and he dumped me and he was but anyway i was really upset about it. and now he likes me again and i like him soo much and i loved what we had but like my best friend hates him and thinks that he a complete @$$! and like she's always like oh please dont go back out with him please dont. i mean what do i do? do i go out with him? oh and another thing lol um its like i really wanna be with him again, but then again i dont wanna go back to my past, but theres no one else out there and i really like him. lol sorry if its confusing and long but i really need the help
hey i cant totally relate to that, you know your going out with this guy and he breaks up with you, then he like you again, but you friends HATE him.. Well my advice to you is go for it.. if you do go back out with him, your friend should be supportive. and if something goes wrong your friend should be there fo you.. I Hope that helps!!!!
This boy I like (ive gone out with him 3 times) came over like 2 days ago and we kissed alot and well he fingered me. Within these two days, he hasn't even called me. He always used to call me..almost everyday. I talked to him online but i dont know things dont feel the same. I don't think he knows I like him but I do A LOT. yeah, he's my first love...dead serious. I don't know what to do..what I'm supposed to say, or anything. I dont thinik he used me because we we're really close before all of this. He acts different around me than all the other girls..like fools around with me and hes like not wicked serious. hes really funny and fun to be around, but hes serious around other girls.So anyways, what am I supposed to do? What should I say to him? I don't wanna call him because I'm just scared to. I don't see him in school, because he doesn't go to the same school. What do i do?? I've been like sad and stuff for a while now :( thanks in advance..I just really need some help
-kate
Well since this guy hasnt called you since what happend, maybe hes just as scared as you are.. and maybe hes waiting for you to call him.. and if you call him act normal, like nothing happened, and once you comtrable with him then talk about what happened..
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okay i have this friend that really gets involved with different guys over and over..well one day she was flirting with a guy,but that day she still going out with this other guy.So then i told her off (She shouldnt be all over different guys all the time,) cuz people start to call her hoe and slut, and i thought i told her off to Help her. am i jealous over my best friend or am i a good friend??
Personally i think you were being a good friend... And if she doesnt understand that, then she needs to grow the f*** up!!She needed to her what you told her, cuz no offense but she was being a little hoe... So all you were doing was being a honest TRUE friend.
okay i just did something with a boy that i really like and i dont know if it was right to do ??? HELP
dependign on what you did, if you really liked hi, then it was an okay thing to do!!! Hoope that helps
ok this is long yall but stick with me and i'll rate high. anyway im f/17 and ive been talkin to this guy whose 18. we go to the same school and we kind of started talking about 2 weeks ago. and he seemed like the perfect guy, literally, there was nothing wrong with him. but then he started hearing rumors about me that were so untrue about how im like a slut and stuff. and i told him that he just had to believe me when i say that they are not true because theres nothing else i can say or do to prove that they are not true. and he believed me. it took a little while to get past all of it but we finally did. the thing is though, were not boyfriend and girlfriend, we've just been kind of getting to know eachother in more ways than one. but then today i hear that the whole time that we've been talking, he has a girlfriend! and i was soooo upset at first! and when i went up to him and started yelling at him he told me that it wasnt true. he said theyve been best friends for a long time and stuff but they dont think of each other like that. and i was like "so if i ask her she'll tell me no yall arnt going out?" and he said yes. and then he said youre going to have to believe me like how i believe you. so should i? do ya'll think hes telling the truth? i dont know if i should trust him and give him another chance...please help!
Hey i think you should believe him, but you should keep an eye on him.. Cuz you never know things might happen.. Anyways you shoudl trust cuz he did trust you when there was rumors about you, so maybe this is just a rumor.
Hello.ok,I am in the 7th grade and my boyfriends never does anything with me like go up town or go to the movies.I am haveing thoughts of dumping him because he hasnt even huged me and we have gone on a date yet but i love him 2 death. WHAT DO I DO?
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Since your in the 7th grade, your pretty young. SO you dont want to send a message to other guys that your easy. And your boyfriend seems to be shy, so you should ask him when he has free time and set a date to go to the movies or something. and if its only been a month, your expecting too much from him, but if its been more then 2 months(GIRL YOU MAKE THAT MOVE)for more info emial me.
Their are these two guys and their constantly fighting over me and their really good friends with me and my friends and also good friends with each other and it's always justc been a joke to me and my friends how they act around me but now it's gone to far they got into a fight over me and ever since they havn't been friends and I feel so bad that I caused it. They got suspended because of the fight but when they got back both of them tryed even harder to get me and started flirting way more with me and I dont know what to do because I like both of them more than friends and I know they wont be okay with me dating both of them.
hey there isnt alot you can do. Since you like both of the guys you have to choose one, because deep down you have to like one more then the other. When picking between the two guys that you have feelings for, you should list things that you like of each guy (which one makes you more comturable. And once you have chosen the guy, you should try and be friends with the other one and make sure that he knows why your not choosing him, cuz then if you and the other guy break up, youll always have the guy you rejected to go back too... BUT then again the guy you rejected might not take you back for choosing the other guy.. So then again if you dont want to have to choose between them you can always reject the both of them...If you reject the both of them just make sure they know that you only want to be friends. I hope that helps>> For more info email me!!!
okay so im 16 and the guy is 17. he is in my genetics class. and yaeh he may not be the cutest or anything but is so funny and is nice and all. he talks to me and stuff. been thinking i may like him more than a friend. just wondering if there are ways to know if a guy likes you as a friend or as in a more than a friend way.?? hope that made sense... any help/advice would be GREAT! :)
hey waz up!! from my experience you would know if a guy likes you more then a friend when he touches your and looks in your eyes ALOT!! He would also try to impress you by being the best in things... He would also be a joker around you.. Hope that helps!!!!
okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.
hey you should just go up and talk to him, maybe thats what hes waiting for....
How Do You Like Makeout With Some One I Never Have Before So I'm Like Scared I'll Do IT Wrong.... Ummm soo whoever knows give me some feedback please i rate high, and dont give me the b.s like oo practice on your hand lol ok thanks
hey, i know how you feel, i have alot of friends that havent kissed their boyfriends yet... You should just do it, that why, when anyone askes you "have you kissed yet" you can say "hell ya"... and that way you dont have to feel embarrassed when people talk about kissing....if you kiss, email me!!!!!
okay well theres this guy and i like him alot but he moved to alaska and i barley ever talk to him anymore and i just got threw talking to him and asked him if he still liked me and he does the thing is he was like my best guy friend be4 he left and now i have feelings 4 him and he told me that he might come back this summer. i realli hope he does but i have a boyfriend now and i dont no what to do. please help.
okay there really isnt alot to do.. For one you have to choose between the two guys. You can stay with your homeboy throughout the year and then when the summer starts (if you still have feeling for the guy that moved away ) then you and your homeboy should take a break... And you can be with your friend that moved away until the summers over) > Then you and your hoemboy can get back together..
Ok I need help. I have a boyfriend that i really like alot but my ex boyfriend that i loved like alot. and i got over that yet i still love him so i still think back sometimes. well he called me and it just brought back memories cuz i hadn't talked to him in a long time and i just need to know how to get over him bc im so happy..but i still get sad when i look at a picture of us or think about it..help..advice please
hey, that is hard to do... But you have to remember you have a boyfriend that you like, and your ex is just your ex, sooner or later your going to have to move on, so just try to get through the pain cuz there really isnt anything else to do ... and just be happy for what YOU have...
Okay don't get me wrong I really like this guy but i don't want to go out with him. I'm 14 female and all I want is to be friends with benifits. Lets call him Pete, so me and Pete are BEST friends but I want more. So how can I devolp that more of a relationship without him asking me out? Love always diane (and i rate high pure truth!)
well since you and pete are BEST FRIENDS, you dont want to do anything to ruin that relationship, but if you want to be more then friends without going out with him, then just hang out with him more and just be a REALLY GOOD FRIEND!!!!
My g/f and i broke up a while back but I don't know what i did...we were only going out for two days and she said that she was scared that we wouldn't be friends if we broke up. The next day she had another b/f.....what did I do? Are there any suggestions on how to impress a girl...plz?
well tell you what, since im not a guy, but if i were in your situation i would just BE HER FRIEND, just like she wanted...
Ok i started talking to this one guy on aim and we talk about all kinds of stuff and he's really sweet and he goes to a school in my district and well we've met before and he's known me for along time but i never knew him until about a week ago and i really like him but my ex boyfriend told me that he was on drugs real bad and that he gets drunk every weekend and well a bunch of other people have told me that but i still like him...and he told my friend that he thinks im hott and that he would like to talk to me so when i asked him about it he said he did like me and he did think i was hot but he had to find out what was going on with this other girl before we could start talking...do you think he really does like me or is he making and excuse up and making that up about that other girl? If he decides that he does want to start talking should i sense he gets drunk and is on drugs? What should i do?
well you should take your chance if you really like this guy. Maybe he is using the girl thing for an excuse, but then again he might really like you...You should talk to him over the phone (a couple or not) you guys can always be friends..and i think you would be able to sense if he gets drunk, cuz hell act wierder then usual..
Ok im really bad with my self-confidence like some of my friends think i just say "oh i'm so fat" just to get them to tell me im not.. but i really don't i really think of myself as fat.. like my face is pretty but i always think im fat, sometimes i think its because i have such gorgeous friends and they get all the guys i never think i can get any. I always brush by hot guys because its almost like i know they would never like me.. it's horrible but its how i feel.. like (1) i need to know how to feel better about myself and not think of myself as ugly. (2) does anyone know why i got this way.
okay you shouldnt compare your selve to your friends, you should be happy with what you got and you shouldnt care what people think, but if they give you good compliments, then take em.. you need to stop looking at yourself in a negative way, and start thinking positively about youself...
alright wellll theres this guyy who ive kind of liked for a while and its been a while alright well it isnt like im in like 5th grade and have a crush on him but since like the end of august ive had a thing for thing i guess and throughout the year its been like maybe he'll like kind of fade away for a while, but like whenever im with another guy or like getting on another guy or whatever all i can think about is him and like its weird because its like i always want the one thing i cant havee sort ahhaa but idk what to do like im just sorta trying to find another guy or whatever but idk if i should just move onnn or i dont know what to do and like ya:-( i jsut nnnnnnneeeeeeed help please! and hes older than me and i cant stop thinking about him whenever i hear a song i think aboutt himm
well if you really like this guy then take your chance.. Ya i know that your feeling may go on and off once in awhile, but the best thing to do is take your chance and stick with it..
I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :)
hey i think you should ask him what he wants and if he doesnt answer, then try compromising with friends.. (Get em a movie he really enjoys to watch, or a cd and you can even try going out to eat or to da movies...) Either way get em somthing he'll enjoy...
ok i am a white girl and I like this black boy. Well he is the type of guy that is touchy feely, and I was fine with it at first, but now it is so much, every time he sees me he want to put his hands down my skirt, or up my skirt. And now I have people at school talking about me. Saying thats the girl, and heads turn. I like him a lot, and I don't know what to do, cause I don't want to hurt him. So Please help me!!!!!!
well if i were you i wouldnt let him be all touchy around me.. For one thing its kind of creepy having a guy that isnt your boyfriend touch you. and if he wont listen the first time, then tell him off the second... Even if you like this guy, its for the best( unless you know that, thats his way of saying he likes you).other then that TELL EM OFF!!!!!
okay this is kinda stupid but o well,
i BEHOND like this guy a LOT o-m-g u do not even know! Well... the thing is that i kinda of met him over the internet. But technically i did not because one of my friends has been firends with him for forever! and my best frend went to a camp with him,
well I do not know what to do? he asked for my number and he said he put it on his hand, but i am really scared that I am going to get hurt if he doesnt like me. Well i have not really met him in person ( you mite think that is crazy) but its not, I might have seen him before though. He always wants to call me but I am soo confused soo PLEASE i am begging you!! H-E-L-P!!
p.s. I kind of told him I like him because we have been talking for about 4 months now but is it creepy that i do????????
well if you really like this guy, then take your chance and go out wit him.. And if you dont have the nerve give him your number and let him call you and then take your chance. or have your friend help you and ask him out for you!!!