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My name is Chelsea Lynn but everyone calls me Glamour. I chose Tragic Glamour as my name because its been my name on myspace for over a year and i came up with it as a clothing line name 2 years ago and thought it was beautiful. Tragic: for the tragedy and pain you feel throughout your life that makes you stronger and survive through this life. Glamour: because Glamour is a way of life, beauty, fashion and a constant popularity contest we almost always seem to be in and rarely win. It makes us weak but builds us up in the same breath.
I've always been very good at giving advice. I'm like my friends personal therapist :) I'm very loveing, compassionate, creative, bold, twisted, smart, funny, funky and fabulous. I'm a makeup artist and aspiring clothing designer, model and I have an upcoming magazine called Glam Rock Magazine. I have a website: www.glamourfabulous.com Yes I'm on myspace. Who isn't now a days? (besides my lover) I'm technically single but I'm dating someone. I've loved, lost and learned. I constantly feel like I'm living in Fight Club and Reality Bites. I'm a christian. I rebel. I have an addictive obsessive personality but I'm extremely well grounded and learn/hurt easily. I do all I can to help people.

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Ugh ok so everyone says that making out is so fun and stuff like that. Well i'm 14/f and I have had my first kiss and stuff but it was only a pucker on the lips. I want more then that with my bf but I'm so scared I'll be like a bad kisser or something stupid like that. i also don't know how i would start making out with him bcuz i don't think he would expect me to do that. i'm not like prude or anything i just need to know what to do!! i'l rate 5s!

Does he know you haven't done much? If so try this, talk to him about kissing and say really sweetly that you'd love to kiss him but you think you might be bad at it. Then be like, wanna teach me? Be all cute and he'll think its really sexy and be like, yeah of course, practice makes perfect. Hehe


Good luck doll!

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I'm eighteen years old, and female.

This morning, I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was allright during, and it was fully consentual, but now, several hours later, I can't shake this feeling of guilt.

My question is, is it common to feel guilty after a sexual act? If there's any advice that you can offer, I would appreciate it. I'm feeling ashamed of myself and I don't want to let my boyfriend touch me sexually ever again, and I really want things to be the same as they were before.

It is totally normal. Question though.. Have you talked to your boyfriend since? A lot of times people feel guilty for the reason that they think it will be different between the two of you after. Give it time and act like nothings changed. Eventually it will feel like nothing has changed. If that doesn't work, you might wanna talk it out with your bf. But I think it will get better for you soon.

Good luck sweetheart

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I really like this guy but I found out he likes one of our other friends.

I'm not sure if she likes him, but she's doesn't seem to be discouraging him...

I don't know what to do.

She doesn't know I like him.

I only told our other friend. (since she kind of guessed so.)

But now I've stopped hugging and walking too close to both of them. I can't smile around either. I get a sick feeling.

I don't want to get in between them if they want to have a relationship.

Should I just avoid them? And not go hang around them at lunch and in between classes and after school?

I don't know.

I feel a lot better when away from the two but then all of them will think I hate them...

I've been in this situation before doll and I have to say I regreted soooo much not telling him how I felt. He may like her but it doesn't mean he's married. It seems like you wanna avoid the whole thing and that's what I did, and in my case they ended up being very happy together but, I always regreted not telling him how I truely felt. What's the worse that could happen? He doesn't feel that way? If he doesn't, act like everythings ok and brush it off. Then you can both move on and stay friends. If he does than you two could end up being one anothers true love. But you'll never know by avoiding it all. Avoiding it could cause a loss of communication and friendship between you two which gives her an advantage if she kinda likes him.
Just tell him how you feel. You'll feel better knowing than guessing and secretly hurting.



Good luck sweetheart!
Glamour

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WELL I know this may be kind of wierd but, I like this girl. I met her Online and that's it. We talk everyday and flirt all the time, She's even told me she likes girls also. I told her I had a crush and she wanted to know who it was and I lied to her saying it was my OTHER friend, but it was really her. I feel bad but not at the same time because...I don't know how she'll react. I keep dropping hints and everything but either she doesn't get it or doesn't want to get it. I'm a mess about this..cuz I really do like her. What should I do??

Be straight up with her! Be like, yeah I really like this girl she's amazingg, and when she says really who? Say YOU.
Be sweet and be honest. There's nothing sexier than that. And plus, you know her from the internet right? That is the easiest place to say things you wouldn't normally say flat out in person.
Communication is key in every relationship and trust me, weither she likes you or not, it will be so much better knowing than guessing.

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i have not had my period in 4 weeks and 6 days is that bad?

I'd wait a week or so before I'd worry. If you haven't gotten it by then I think you should go buy a pregnancy test.

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how do i flirt sucessfully with a woman. i am a green leaf when it comes down to flirting. mst of the time my attempts fail me, i want to be able to make a woman laugh and attract her some how. im almost 7ft tall. that at times hinders me to. your tips and advice are very much welcomed. thanks

Start with a compliment about something unique. Like her eyes, eyebrows, clothing, hands, etc... Then if she says something back sweetly, engage in a conversation with her and maybe some of her friends as well. That should get your foot in the door...

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my boyfriend wants to give me a gold diamond ring and i told him no but he said he is going to buy it any way should i let him i will feel bad though cause he is wasting his money on me but he said he is not but still he talks about getting me stuff but i say no then i say i am going to get him things and he says no can anyone help me on how me and him can buy eachother things without the guilt? plez help fast he is gonna get the ring on wednessday

Well you gotta figure out why you feel guilty if he gets you stuff. If its because of a money issue, you shouldn't feel guilty if he doesn't find it a problem. And he probably feels guilty by taking your gifts because you say no to his. Does the ring have meaning? Like a promise ring or more? I say don't feel guilty and make it an issue if he doesn't. And if he doesn't want you to buy him gifts, make him gifts. Show him your heart.

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i was on myspace and my messages stopped working so i logged onto my bestfriends myspace to see if her messages worked. i clicked on a random message and saw that she had told my boyfriend that it was ok w/ her if he looked at her chest. and after i saw that i started crying and felt bad cause my bf asked wat was wrong and i couldnt tell him the truth. i wrote several short stories about how upset i was feeling on my xanga and my bf saw it and gave the link to 2 of my friends and they got really worried but i couldnt tell my friend y i had really gotten upset. should i still be upset at her even tho her bf said my chest was sexy? or should i just forget about it and let it go?

i think that you should tell him and her why you got upset. it may be hard but its not gonna kill anyone. i mean if they have a reason of why you got upset they may be able to relate to it and understand and if you can talk that out with your friend and bf than it will make the bonds between all of you stronger. but if it doesnt work out for the better you may learn something, that maybe they arent such a good friend or bf, and if you learn that sooner than later, youll truely appreciate it later.

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I just really want a boyfriend,
I want someone to love me for my imperfections,
i want to love someone.. and just be loved in return. I swear thats all I need is love.
I KNOW that the more you look for love the harder it is too find, but i cant get it off my jmind when i see all these couples all the time at school.

and please dont give me some smartass reply.
I want something genuine.

But its just I know EVERYOEN says you ahve the rest of your life. i'm in 9th grade btw.
but i know i have the rest of my life buti the point isI have now too.

gah..
help?

honey i know EXACTLY how you feel. up until a couple months ago, i swear that could of been taken out of my own live journal. hehe ive always wanted to find my one true love asap and just be happy together, in love. hell i still want that but i got to the point where i wore myself out and got so bitter over those happy couples that i just got sick of thinkin about it. i completely occupied my time with career goals and friends and then, one night a walk to remember came on tv and i was bawling. crying my head off saying why cant i have that! the next day, i went to my friends house and the guy who i liked who had screwed me over twice in the past 2 months before, text me. he ended up coming over, he had broken up with his gf and his life seemed to be broken and torn apart and he came to me to pick up the peices. its strange but i do believe that everything happens for a reason, and i think the reason that your not with someone is because soon enough, the guy who you really deserve, not some lowlife assole, a real man, will be there for you and walk into your life and change it upside down. it took me over 2 years to get the guy, and it was worth it. i believe something special is coming your way, doll. patience is hard but it is the key.


all my love,
Glamour

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