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Okay my question might be kinda long but there is this guy in my grade and i really like him and we're like best friends.. he tells me that somedays he likes me and other days he doesnt and then one night he kissed me and he told me how much he liked me and now i just cant stop thinking about him and i just really like him but its summer and i dont think he feels the same way as i do anymore but i dont want to ask him like straight up if he still likes me or not but when my friend asked him if he still liked me he said he didnt know .. what should i do.. im completly confused! Please help!
if he doesnt like you anymore...then he really didnt liek u that much back then...anyways i have a new coloum our name is i_love_my_bitch !!!!
ok right here ill tell you like it is. my girlfriend wants to have butt sex and i dont know if it is safe, or even pleasurable. and i was wondering if there is a special way to keep the poo off of my penis. please help.
signed,
troubled
ummm.. well have her like only eat fruit and if your thats erious about her then sure why noy do it. And i don`t think it`s that harmful so umm yeah. hope i helped... courtney
sorry courtney,but ur wrong hun..haha its even wrose to have anal sex then ragular sex...tissues break and its easier to get STD's
Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high.
Well I thik you should get to know her really well and slowy let her know how you feel. Like talk to one of her friends and ask her to mention you to her and be like "oh he`s such a ncie guy any girl would be lucky to have him he`s so sweet" and it sounds like she juts needs someone to be there for her that she knows she can trust. like set up and big groupd like 5 ppl to go somewhere and spend alot of your time with her to make it more ovious that your like her. hope i helped. -courtney =)
I am going to be a freshman this year, and I have just started talking to this guy. Well, He is going to be a junoir and i know him from my sister--who is going to be a senior.
I have started having feelings for this guy. We talk alot online, and he is really sweet. But there are two problems. 1)He has a girlfriend 2)He still see's me as a kid.
Now both of those are really..hard. Because I think he see's me more of a little sister, then a friend. And it is so tough to deal with. Because I know i am not brave enough to tell him how I feel. And I know he doesnt feel the same. What should I do?
Well this is what i would do if i were you. I would TRY and forget about him because you don`t know how many hot quys will probablly be in your highschool he`s just one you already know thru your sister... and that`s a disadvantage if he`s close with your sister. So i would forget about this guy and wait to get to highschool because theres always alot of hotties =). hope i helped. -courtney. plz rate !
hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!
Well it sounds like Tim thinks your a really amazinq qirl.. and he thinks that if your alone with other quys that they will fall in love wiht you liek he did and try and do stuff with you. You can just hanq out with him alot and kind of put a hold on other quy friends. i meen if your really that serious about this quy, then you need to make him trust you. set up a romantic date like going out to eat or somethinq and write him a letter sayinq how much you care about him. Don`t qive it to him while your with him, mail it to him or somethinq so he reads it alone. hope i helped ! -courtney. if you need any more help invite me in a chat plz dont IM me. BR0KiN x PR0MiSE !! plz rate ! =)
Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!!
No i don`t think your over-reactinq bk i would probablly be thinkinq the same thinq. Okay it sounds like you and "jane" like aren`t freinds at all anymore. So she could have purpouslly tried to go out of her way to spend more time with YOUR boyfriend and maybe he didn`t relize how much she was hittinq on him. I don`t think he`s doinq anythinq but i whink she could be. Like callinq eachother day is kidna stranqe i meen really... your the qirlfriend, not her. if you need more help my sn is BR0KiN x PR0MiSE invite me in a CHAT bk i can`t talk on AIM it`s messed up. sorry hope i helped !=( courtney plz rate !
My boyfriend of over two years is in the Navy. We're working on a long distance relationship and we have gotten so much closer, it's unbelievable. I'm going to visit him in 18 days where he's stationed in Florida, and I'm going to be there for almost two weeks. I want these two weeks to be the best ever. Any suggestions on what I can do to make it awesome? What kinda things can we do, or what can I say/do to show him my feelings haven't changed? I want this to be perfect. =)
aww that`s soo sweet !! umm you could set up a romantic eveninq.. dependinq on what he likes you can qo to a restaurant then qo to a romantic movie ! and qo back to where your stayinq and just talk. Be like i`m so glad we had this oppertunity to be together because my feelings for you have become so much stronger. Hoep i helped ! - courtney plz rate !
I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her?
Well maybe she did cheat on you. But maybe she didn`t. You shouldn`t accuse her unless you are like 100% possitive because if you accuse her of it and she DIDN`T cheat on you she will be like "omg i thot u trusted me" and stuff and probablly end the relationship. Or maybe somethinq happened that you don`t know about on the trip that made her self consious or scared or and sexual reletions. People change when they go places they aren`t formilier with. what you need to think about is if you think she`s changed for the better or worse. And think about how much you love her and if it`s worth takinq the chance or her cheatinq on you aqain. hope i helped. -courtney
On Saturday night I went to my best friend, Sidonie's party. A guy that she broke up with a month or so ago was there and I really liked him. We ended up kissing and the next day he asked me out, I said yes. Now I'm not so sure if I made the right decision by saying yes to him. For a start, I just feel like his rebound girl. When my best friend broke up with him he was very upset and I don't think he's fully over her. He keeps saying things like "You're so much like Sidonie." Which is kind of irritating and off putting. Secondly, I hardly know him and I wont be able to see him much as he lives on the other side of my city. I do like him but I'm not so sure if I want to just be his rebound girl, should I break up with him or see how it goes?
I think you should talk to your friend Sidonie and see how she feels about the situation also. I meen what if she is still madly in love with this quy ! And if you not 100% happy with the situation then it`s not worth it. hope i helped. -courtney
Me and my gf are having a fight over the republic and the empire(star wars) she says the empire has the brains and knowleadge 2 easly over throw the republic, but i say the rebublic has better things 2 do then 2 worry over the empire casue every1 knows in episode 4 luke blows up the death star using the x-wing.
WHAT DO U THINK COULD OVER POWER?
hahahaha..let me ask my brother...yodddaaaaaa...
his brilliant answer:
Get a life, man. And get a better chick.
^^^wow tahnksz for the good advice yoda...
anyways...yeah ask a guy that question..hahha
kk
you see i have this delema. im really desperate and i want a boyfriend. i have the urges to make out with someone. the only thing i can find to make out with is my dog. it gives me pleasure, but not enough. what do i do? HELP!
Well no offence.. but don`t only qo out with a quy for sexual reasons because then people will think your easy and you will qet a bad reputation. Ummm.. i dunno try makinq out with a bestfriend that`s a guy if he`s up for it. If he`s really close to you i bet he will do it. And if he does sports or anything ask him to try and get you a date with someone on the team. Hope i helped ! - courtney
Theres a girl named nikki and we broke up like 3 days ago and i cant get her out of my mind i really want her back but i dont know how to get her back i know she still loves me so what should i do
Wow that`s really hard i`m so sorry. But don`t OBSESS over her because girls find that a little strange. Don`t seem despret but if you really do want her back just walk up to her and say i love you. Like i know it sounds drastic but life`s too short to wait for the "perfect moment" because she could be going out with someone before you get the chance to ask. Hope i helped ! - courtney
my exboyfriend hurt me emotionally in ways that i never thought he would hurt me we have been broken up for over a year and im just now getting over the pain and hurt but i want revenge i want to get even i want him to hurt the same way i was hurting so what should i do to get revenge or get even without hurting my boyfriend
Okay you might not like this advice but it`s how it is i`m sorry. Getting revenge might sound good at the time but it makes you just as low as he is. Kepp yourself busy.. like do sports or find hobbies or depending on your age you can get a job ! Just don`t talk to him at all even if he asks you a simple question don`t answer him because he`s deffinatly not worth it. Hope i helped ! - courtney =)
I am a seventeen year old female and I am in love. What is the problem with this, you may ask? I shall tell you. The man I love is 7.5 years my senior (he's 25) and he lives in another continent. He says that he loves me as well, but I'm not sure how to make this relationship work. Can a 17 year old and a 25 year old really make it? Especially with him being so far away... He says he may move here in December, however, but then what? My parents would never approve and I crave their approval like I crave oxygen. I am at a loss. I don't really know what I'm asking, quite frankly, and I won't be surprised if no one replies. I suppose I'm just looking for opinions. Thanks.
i wouldnt work right now,but next year you will be 18 and allowed to make whatever desicion you want,so maybe you should just wait a year until your old enough (legally) to be with him...hope we helped