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ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..

but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??

Are you kidding me? You’re sitting here saying his parents are about to split up and you’ve been together for a year and a half.. But u like someone else and don’t know what to do?? .. First .. Smack yourself.. Think of it the other way around.. He needs you.. especially right now.. If your parents were breaking up wouldn’t u want the person you’ve spent a year and a half w to be there for you .. instead of thinking about some other guy.. If you have to ask a question like that you really are messed up

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is it like totally wrong to talk to guys on the internet that you dont know? 'cuz my mom doesnt let me talk to anyone i dont know! and know i'm falling for this guy! what do i do? i wanna keep talking to him!! And my mom would kill me if she found out!
what do i do? i'm so confused!

Sorry, but your mom is right! It is very dangerous to talk to guys online!!! You do not know how old they are, where they're from, anything about them-- just because they tell you something, does not mean it is true!! Over 50% of guys online lie to get girls to talk to them. Do you know how many girls have gotten kidnapped by guys they talked to online?? They started out just talking, then the guys hack their computers..they can find out their address, full name, #, social security #..everything!! I'm not trying to sound rude or anything.. it's just I know from personal experiences how dangerous it is and I do not want you to get hurt !!

I hope you take this serious and listen to your mom... she Does know what's best for you..

xo`Lexi

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I go out wit this guy but i like another guy too i dont know what to do ???

ok first of all, when you have a b/f..you should NEVER ever have thoughts like that..or even like another guy..if you do, then maybe you should think about this..do you REALLY like your b/f..(if your thinking about another guy, then i'd say no) ..idk just my opinion. you should talk to your b/f & tell him exaclty how you feel, be fair to him. then until you can stay with him & not like other guys, i'd probably consider taking a break..see if you really have feeling for this other guy or your b/f..


Xo`lexi

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Anyone know any ways to fix short curly hair?

hey, you should be more specific when you say "fix"..but um if you want to "fix" the curls, as in get rid of them, then use a straightener. REVLON works great and is only about 25$..

if i'm not even close to what you're talkin bout, then drop one in my inbox and be more specific=)

xo`lexi

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Alright, this is gunna be long...
ive been with this boy for a year, and im in 7th grade..everythings great i love him...im pretty sure, then theres another guy in 8th grade who really likes me and hes so sweet and im starting to like him too..i dont want this to happen because i REALLY love my boyfriend, and id do anything too stay with him and im scared to let go of him cause i cant live without him...what do i do

ok you said

"i REALLY love my boyfriend, and id do anything too stay with him and im scared to let go of him cause i cant live without him"

umm duh.. don't do anything, stay with your man..and let the other guy know you can only be friends, if he can't except that then screw him. don't let him ruin your great relationship... especially after a year. that's a long time, especially for junior high relationships. =)

xo`lexi

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one of my good guy friends seems like hes into me and stuff.. and i keep thinkin about kissing him n' stuff like that- should i make a move? or ask talk to him about it and say somethin lyk u kno u want a kiss?!.. i really wana be friends with benifits with him but idk how i should approach that whole area with him?! *help plez*

yah i agree with sherry..just go for it! i mean if your close friends, and feel comfortable doing that. you never know he could be wanting to kiss you too! or be like all cheesy and sweet and ask him if u can kiss him...lol =-* pucker up! good luckk hun xo`lexi

hehe letme kno how it goes

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ok i have 2 questions

1. my ex-boyfriends when we broke up he said 4 me to promise to call him everyday still (we dont go to the same school) what does this mean??

2.we or he still says "i love you" and is always askin me out but then after he says sumthin he'll tell about this girl at his school how he walks her to class and holds her hand and it makes me sooo SAD that im not that girl....is he trying to make me jealous???...cz its workin!!

3. how can i tell him that i still care 4 him and why he keeps makin me jealous and that its hurtin me ...bad...too!??

guys are immature like that..i think its obvious he still likes you b.c he said he loves u & asked u out..he doesn't really like the girls at his school & nine out of ten, the stories about walkin girls to class are probably just lies to make you jealous and want to go out with him--yea thats a guys dumb way of gettin us back-ha and it works! lol..i would def. tell him how you feel or just say yes next time he asks you out. i would not mention you being jealous about the other girls--cuz then that just shows him he got his way and you don't want that..only say something if he'd do it when you went it! but thats just my opinion of what you should do..hope it helps..im here 4 ya if u need anything else!

xo`lexi

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Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?

aww that's so sweet--hun you HAVE to tell him..if you don't you'll never know what you could have had and you'll regret it for the rest of your life!! tell him that u still love him and have for the last 2 years ..don't leave it alone and try to move on until you know how he feels about u..you have nothing to lose..just talk to him! aww i hope he feels the same way about you--good luck!! =) let me know how it goes

xo`lexi

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this is a really stupid question but whatever, i know this guy for a while, hes always telling me that i like him does he like me? thanks a bunch

most likely yes..but if he's one of those guys who are conceited and think they're the shyt .. then he probablly just wants the satisfactory of hearing someone else likes him..you should ask him..that's the only way you'll be sure..or if you're not that bold, ask one of his friends..xO`Lexi

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Ok..i'm a freshman in high school and i never kissed a girl before, but i have the feeling that this is gonna be the year that i get my first kiss. I'm scared that i'll do it wrong or something and i don't know where to put my hands. Any advice?

hehe..ok don't rush, wait for the right girl. you wAnt your first kiss to be special and with someone you really like! don't be scared-kissing comes natural believe it or not..put your hands where ever you feel coomfortable, around her waste, on her face, or hold her hands. don't be nervous or think about doing anything wrong-that'll just make it worse! you'll do fine!
just make sure you have kissable lips--use some chap stick =) and have a mint!

xO`lexi

good luck with the kiss & your freshman yr! and if you need anything else, i'm here! just drop it in the inbox!

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see, i LUV this guy..and im pretty shure he luvs me too! & we are soooo close! we have tonz of insiderz n stuff but he just wont "pop the question!" hahah i mean b/f g/f not getting "hitched" hehehe! well anywayz! PLEASE HELP ME!

then ask him! trust me-guys LOVE it when we make the first move..if you Really love him & you knoq hE atleast likes you, then ask him out--don't be afraid of rejection!

xO`lexi..
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ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!

hmm maybe he's shy or scared of rejection..if he knows you like him too then iduno what else you really can ..just flirt a lot and drop LotS of obvious hints..dont push too hard tho..or..if i were you, i'd ask him out! guys love when a girl asks them..they don't always have to be the first to make the first move..i think he'd be really happy if you did..
xO`Lexi

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is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

omg yes!

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ok so i like this guy and he likes me but we arent going out. so he tells me he loves me and i say it back, and it becomes a regular thing. so then today, hes leaving and i say i love you and he doesnt say it back. i want to talk to him about it but i dont want to come right out and say why didnt you say i love you too like you always do...any ideas to hint to him?
thanks

maybe he didnt hear you?..iduno if nothing happened that would have changed his feelings then what i would do is say "i love you" again, the next time you talk to him & see what happens..if he doesnt say it backt hat time then ask him how he's feeling? talk to him and find out for sure how he feels about u..

xO`Lexi

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

that's a good thing! i wish more guys were like that! i wouldn't think he was gay, i would just be happy..you're satisfying him enough that he doesn't need to look at the skimpy girls on tv...you can trust him--thats great! he only needs you..plus if he gets horny around you & you're a female..lol well then hmm i doubt he's gay..if you feel comfortable enough then maybe talk to him about it, but be careful about what you say..that could offend him a lil'

xO`Lexi

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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

talk to her..that's not cool if you were involved with him first..but just make sure you talk 2 her in a nice way..you dont want to let a "boy" ruin a friendship..xO`Lexi
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i feel so dumb..anyways..what am i suppose to do? like when my b/fs givin me a hickey or kissing me somewhere other than my mouth or doing other things..yah you know..umm like i dont know how to describe it, i just sit there like "duh"..what are some things to do to actually acknowledge what he's doing, show him that i like it, or idk..lol anything so that i'm just not sitting there..
please help..i'll rate :)

touch him, rub his back, run your fingers through his hair, make lil moans if you like it..umm that;s all that comes to mind right about now..
xO`Lexi
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ok i really like this girl in school and i gave her some chocates and a note telling her how i really feel and now she is not my freind anymore and she is dating one of the most popular guys in school please give me advice ill rate u


sighned
boy in denile

aww sweetie im so sorry..don't worry about her, she doesn't deserve you. you were friends and you give her a gift and express your feelings and she disses you? -that's not cool-she wasn't a real friend in the first place. it seems like she's more interested in popularity than being a good friend and having someone who will treat her right. go out and get to know a new girl--definately 4get her, she's not worth your time!
any girl would be lucky to have a sweet guy like you and i'm sure there are plenty out there who would be willing to get to know and date you.

hope that helps, if you need anything else-i'm here 4 you! =)

xO`Lexi

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lexi,
i love your advice site..great job girl..

question:
how do you french kiss? i'm scared, i WANT to ..but what if i mess up?! i don't want to look stupid in front of my boyfriend..but we both want to take our relationship further and kiss..and it's not fair to make him wait just because of my little fear

thanx,
jenna

dont worry about looking stupid in front of him..if he likes/loves/cares bout you then he wont make fun of you and will help you get your first kiss just right..usually you can't even tell that its your first time because it comes natural..if you feel like your comfortable enough with him, then give it a try..


xO` lexi

*practice makes perfect..you'll be a better kisser and have fun* =)

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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him?

Eww definately not lip gloss..that's too messy..lip balm..like chap stick is nice tho..it makes it soft and smooth..xO`lexi

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