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< Yeahh.. that's me playing Flip Cup at a party. We're so cool: we play with water. Call me a lightweight; I don't really care. :]



I`m Abby ! When you ask me a question, I will answer you completely honestly, but I am in no way trying to be rude. If you don't like it, sorry. I'm only giving you my opinion. :]




Just Some Random Facts About Me ! :]



I like to...
Sing (and i sing in a competitive choir), dance (and i dance at a noncompetitive studio), cheerlead (I cheer for football, soccer, wresteling, and basketball), shop, talk on the phone, ect.



Things I love...
JEANS ! shoes, clothes, make-up, more jeans, my amazing friends, getting out of the house, the mall, the movies, being with all my dance girls, more jeans, perfume, elephants are pretty much amazing, watching football, my python Jerry, my puppy Sadie, computer, uhm..jeans, cell phone, taking pictures, TV, music, anything leopard print, Hollister, Abercrombie and Fitch, American Eagle, and...jeans.



Things I hate...
Fake people, people who think they`re better than you because they have more money than you, people who try to fight with me over something stupid, people who think they`re cool because they drink or smoke, liars, owls, ground beef, raost beef, beef in general, ham, sausage, bratwurst, ribs (I know, I`m unamerican because I don`t eat ribs), cheese, blood..I can`t stand blood, running, anything that crawls (like roaches and crickets), and stupid people. :]




Oh yeahh.. STUPiD ?s = STUPiD ANSWERS [just keep that in mind !]




Ask away ! Love yahs !
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advice

hi sorry i'm a little new to this whole advice column thing... but i guess ill give it a try. it cant hurt right? lol okay well this boy is practically driving me INSANE, dead serious. i thought he used to like me maybe a little bit, then we stopped talking for a while, then we slowly started talking again (mostly me embarassing myself when im trying to start a convo with him), then i thought i decided that i was TOTALLY done with him whenever i saw him talking to another girl the exact same way he did with me, then today he seemed to show more and more interest in me again. whenever i describe my situation to people they're always like " wow, so he's a player?!" but thats not true at all. he's the sweetest guy that i have EVER met, and i can never stop thinking about him: in class, at dinner with my family, when im trying to fall asleep, on my way to school, on my way from school, 24/7. no boy has ever done this to me, i mean, im around your age and i've never had a bf before. but this boy is special somehow. do i love him? whats my deal? i know im too young to be "in love" but what is going on.... hes practically EVERYTHING...CUTE,!! (omg hes SO CUTE!!), and athletic, and has never been ignorant to anyone is his entire life, oh and he knows how to make me laugh.

HELP!

Hey Sweetie! You are so lucky to have a guy around that you could fall for so easily. And who says you're too young to be in love? Love has no age limit; it's not alcohol!



If you can't stop thinking about him, there's a reason for that. I am a firm believer in the 'everything happens for a reason' thing. Sure, he may act the same way around you as other girls, but that's his way of seeing how each girl acts differently around him. It's his way of.. I guess you could call it observing.. girls and seeing if he's interested in trying a relationship with that certain girl.



The fact that he's showing interest in you again is good. He liked the way you handled the origional situation. Yes, love may make you go crazy every now and again, but trust me, it's well worth it. I hope this helped a little bit. Let me know how everything works out!



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theres a senior at my school who is REALLY HOT, and sometimes he kind of looks at me...i was talking to a friend thats also a senior and he was standing right there and smiling the whole time. OH MI GAWD HES HAWT


lovekelsey

Well, it looks like you've got a senior after you. My suggestion: don't go after him; let him come after you. Going after a guy older than you, or any age guy, appears really slutty. If you be yourself around him, he'll eventually get it. DON'T ACT LiKE YOU'RE DUMB AROUND HIM ! Guys hate it when girls act stupid around them because, well, then they'll think you're stupid. Hope this helped a little!

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Hey abby, guess what ( fourteen female)
i lost him, u know the boy i really liked (who walks me to class, looks in my bookbag, helps me with anything) all of that stopped because he got scared. he found out that i liked him and so he ignores me now. i hate this but theres nothing i can do and i refuse to talk to him about it ...... i dont know if u can help me but i just needed to do something....i LOVED what we had and i cant believe its gone so theres nothing else to do anymore besides think about how amazing it was that a really cute athletic polite boy payed special attention to me.

you know.. you sound like an exact replica of me.

i had the exact same thing happen to me. the guy found out that i liked him.. and BAM !! we never talked again. if a guy is going to stop being your friend and talking to you (or even more) just because he found out you liked him, he is definitely not worth your time. there are soooo many other guys out there that would give their right arm to have you, and they wouldnt be afraid to admit it. now that mr. scardey cat left, i say hes not worth it. remember :: if you truely love someone, set them free. if they love you in return, they WILL come back to you. if hes really worth it, hell come running back, but when he does, girl you make him work for you !! he doesnt just get to run and then come back for free !! i hope i was somewhat of a help, and good luck !!
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whats wrong with me? i want a boy to like me so i try really hard, then he DOES like me but i dont like him anymore. i get scared.

Nothing's wrong with you! That's completely normal. You're probably just afraid of commitment, or it could be that by the time he likes you, you've lost interest in him already. When the perfect guy comes along, you won't get scared when he likes you. I hope this helped !!
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How much does this boy like me? (im a female and 14)
1. Helps me with anything i need (serisouly) he's even covered the heater thats next to me in science bcz i said i was freezing
2. Has geuinely thanked me for coming to his soccer game and watching him
3. Holds the door open for me and walks down the hallway with me (even though we dont say anything) its kind of cool :)
4. Laughs (nicely) when he pulls out a pic of me and friends acting like losers from my backpack. he looks in my backpack all the time and finds that picture
5. (most important) but hes shy :(

LOTS OF FEEDBACK PLEASE!

I can honestly say, he REALLY likes you. The shyness really gives it away. Guys will be shy around you if they like you becuase they're scared of saying something stupid. That's why he doesn't talk when you walk down the hallway. Going through your stuff also say he likes you. He seems like a VERY polite boy in that he thanked you for coming to his game, holds the door, and he helps you with everything. Laughing nicely is a good sign, too. All in all, he really likes you !! Hope this helps !!
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iam going out with this guy and i like him alot and he likes me alot but i never see him. the only times he calls me is on the weekends when hes with his mom. its thats not offten for him to call. i like other guys so i dont know if i should date him anymore since we never do anything. hes not passing 8th grade so if he doesnt pass 8th grade and doesnt go on the the high school i might as well dump him becuase i wont see him at all. so what do you think i should do? just wait and deal with it or dump him and get a new boyfriend that ill see alot more?

You have come to the right person. I am going through the exact same thing right now.

You're going on to highschool. He's not (from the looks of it). There will be soooooo many other guys in highschool that are gonna want you, trust me. Not to mention, you'll see them every day. Considering you don't see your current boyfriend or talk to him that often, it's probably not a relaionship worth waiting for. Don't hurt yourself or limit your opportunities with other guys because you're waiting around for some dude who can't pass the 8th grade (no effense to him or anything). In my opinion, dump him!! Let him go. Give yourself time to flirt and have fun with other guys. Then, you'll find someone who is perfect for you, and that you see everyday. Hope it helped. Good luck, and feel free to IM if you have any more questions.
~ab x3

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so i have this guy friend and i like him but he doesnt like me. he acts like he likes me and all but when i asked him out he told me no. i really like him alot so what can i do to maybe make him like me or even say yes if i ask him out again?

i hate to say it...but there is no way to make a guy like you. all you can do is be yourself, talk to him, & flirt. but most importantly...let him come to you. if he really does like you then hell come to you. im sorry that i probably wasnt much help. but i hope i did help some!!
~ab

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i like this guy a lot but we dont go to the same school soi i dont see him very often. sadly he has a girlfriend thats one of my friends, i flirt with him all the time and he flirts back. he said that if i went to school with him he would break up with his girlfriend and ask me out. but some one told my friend and now shes mad that i do that. how do i get her to be unmad at me but stil have the guy ask me out?

hmmm...thats a tough one. well if shes a true friend to you then i think she would understand. keep flirting with him. yea, shes gonna get mad, but if shes a real friend, shell get over it. she might eventually get mad enough at him for flirting with you that she breaks up with him. then BINGO!! he asks you out & you both live happily ever after. hope it helped!!
~ab

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