hi sorry i'm a little new to this whole advice column thing... but i guess ill give it a try. it cant hurt right? lol okay well this boy is practically driving me INSANE, dead serious. i thought he used to like me maybe a little bit, then we stopped talking for a while, then we slowly started talking again (mostly me embarassing myself when im trying to start a convo with him), then i thought i decided that i was TOTALLY done with him whenever i saw him talking to another girl the exact same way he did with me, then today he seemed to show more and more interest in me again. whenever i describe my situation to people they're always like " wow, so he's a player?!" but thats not true at all. he's the sweetest guy that i have EVER met, and i can never stop thinking about him: in class, at dinner with my family, when im trying to fall asleep, on my way to school, on my way from school, 24/7. no boy has ever done this to me, i mean, im around your age and i've never had a bf before. but this boy is special somehow. do i love him? whats my deal? i know im too young to be "in love" but what is going on.... hes practically EVERYTHING...CUTE,!! (omg hes SO CUTE!!), and athletic, and has never been ignorant to anyone is his entire life, oh and he knows how to make me laugh.
If you can't stop thinking about him, there's a reason for that. I am a firm believer in the 'everything happens for a reason' thing. Sure, he may act the same way around you as other girls, but that's his way of seeing how each girl acts differently around him. It's his way of.. I guess you could call it observing.. girls and seeing if he's interested in trying a relationship with that certain girl.
The fact that he's showing interest in you again is good. He liked the way you handled the origional situation. Yes, love may make you go crazy every now and again, but trust me, it's well worth it. I hope this helped a little bit. Let me know how everything works out!
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