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Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!

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1st get on her good side. be really nice and helpful tonight and then at the perfect moment say mom: I really like this guy and he invite me to go hang out with him and his friend austin at his house tomorrow. Explain to her how important this is to u and ask her how she would have felt when she was your age. I'm sure if you are really responsible about it she will let you go. I remember the first time I asked my mom if I could go hang out at a guys house. I thought she would say the same thing but she was acctually pretty cool about it. Just tell your mom about him. Good luck!

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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long! (link)
I know your sick of hearing "your time will come", but it's the truth. You have to become friends with guys. Ask your friends to set u up with friends of their bf's. Then you can double! Good luck!

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i really like my friend and i poured my heart out to him (after we told him i liked him 3 months earlier!) and he goes oh you still like me???? and so it was awkward for a while but hes been liek more normal anyway like this week is spring break and he hasnt been on so i went on an old sn and he WAS on so i found out HE BLOCKED ME!!!! i am so upset right now and i keep trying to get over him..please help me what to dO?!?! i am 14 female--hes 14 male (link)
Well my best friend is a guy and i really liked him and made the mistake of telling me. He stopped talking to me completly and what i did was tell him that it really hurt me because it didnt matter whether or not we wer bf/gf i just wanted to be friends with him. He prbly just felt awkward. If I were you I'd talk to him and tell him how you feel, but if he is rude then I wouldn't waste my time. Things like this happen. Sorry :(
xoxo shea


Make it short and sweet. Met the girl at the gym,talked for awhile. Gave me her number,then when I call it she tells me she's got a bf. I think it's a lie and she would really want me to rot in hell. What does anybody else think in here? Was she lying, or if she wasn't, why'd she waste my time in the first place? I'm an 18 year old guy. I want RussianMailman to answer my question,too. I need a good laugh. (link)
Not all girls have sumthin wrong with them!Haha. But anyway how long after did you call her? She and her boy friend could have been in a fight. You never know. Call her again and ask her about it.


There is this guy in three of my classes and almost every single class he says things like
"I like you"
"I love you"
"You have pretty eyes"
"I'm gonna call you my boo"
and "You're so nice"
but most of the time when he says these things he says it in a dorky joking kinda voice, and I like him. We're pretty good friends and we flirt a lot but I don't know if he's serious or not. Is he? (link)
my guess is that he probly his he just embarrassed in case u dont like him back so he can say he was jokin if u dint. good luck!


hey im a 15 year old girl and i have oily skin, any body have any good concealer/foundation/cover-up/powder ? (link)
clean and clear powder concealing stick. U can get it for like 3 bucks at cvs or any drug store, also to reduce the oilyness try stridex clean cycle.


thats a really great answer and ill have to try that but there is a story behind this all...im a lot closer to her than you may think..if you want to hear the story, tell me and ill tell it to you (link)
yeah id like to hear it also tell me like age and stuff so i can get a better idea. i luv this type of stuff lol


i need ideas on how to convince a girl that i really do love her...so please give me some good ideas ill rate a five (link)
k well learn to cook a meal and make her a really romantic dinner for just the two of u. Play romantic music and have candles and stuff. If u can sing, record a song about all the things u like about her and how much u love her. If i was her id like be so in love. if ur under sixteen have her come watch movies at ur houe. Pop a bag of popcorn and sum where in the middle of the bowl put in a lil hershey kiss with a tag that says I love you Love (ur name). Then when she finds it hug/kiss her
good luck


ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut??? (link)
it really depends. i mean dont get too ahead of urself tho. He cud just be flirtin. Hey but if he likes u and u like him and u wud do this, ask him out! otherwise it will happen sooner or later and ull just havta wait


hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself? (link)
dont make a big deal about it. Just if u sit next to him in a class be like i like u. really casually, nething like that works. Good luck


I joined the army to make a life for my then girlfriend, now fiance. She has always resented the fact that I made the decision to enlist and leave home. It's now been almost a year and I have only seen her a few times since leaving. I miss her and I think it could have been a mistake joining even though it has created a way for us to get married. I am not happy without her and the long distance is wearing on me. How do i make myself happy without her? (link)
wow iv never been in a position like that but its gotta be tough. Make friends, write/call her as much as possible. keep pictures of her in ur shoes/pockets. Find a new hobbie, something to take ur mind off it. And sleep and drink water as much as possible. And by the way it may feel like it but joining the army is courage and pride in ur country and people pray for u every day. So thanks for doing sumthing so truly amazing and heroic. And good luck!


im inlove with a lady that is older than me for 13 years. she's inlove with me too. but were both married. any advice. thanks (link)
well if ur maried no definitly no, think of ur wife and her husband wud feel. Its selfish so no absolutly not


13.m.fl(8th grade)
i like this girl a lot that goes to the other jr high in our area. i met her a couple weeks ago from her friends that ive known for a few monthes. i recently asked her out but she said she doesnt think she knows me well enough and is now going out with sum1 else from her school. im afraid she has a bad reputation of me from rumors about wut me and my friends do. wut should i do (link)
k well im 13/f so ill put myself in her shoes. Well i dn about other ppl but my friends and i dont really care bout reps but neway......1.Be extra nice and show her that you are a good person 2.get to no her betta.(i.e.-ask her aton of ?'s about herself and tell her bout urself) Girls love it when guys ask them ?'s about themselves. 3.k i no it sounds crazy but the harder a guy is to get the more a girl like him. Be nice but act like u dont need her. There was once a guy who like me but then when he started to do that i got a major crush on him.

Good luck and drop 1 in my iknbox if u need more help


I'm 14/f. I have a brother who is 17 and I'm really starting to fall for one of his friends who is also 17. The age thing isn't an issue but I think if we were ever together my brother would freak out. My problem is that I think he might possibly like me back. How can I tell if he likes me romantically or if he just thinks or me as my brother's little sister? (link)
well here r sum proven facts

1. Guys have no contorl over this one. if there pupils get bigger when they look at u it means they are atracted to u.

2. if when he talks to u his toes r directed towards u, it means he is interested in u

3. if he is across the room but his body is facing u, he likes u.

Good luck!


I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...

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Look if u really like him ur friends and family shudnt get in the way bcuz of their beliefs. Plus if u really like him u shud go for it. Tell ur mom ho u feel and explain to her that race isnt nething. If ur friends get mad at u for ur beliefs then they rnt ur true friends. Good luck


Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!! (link)
K well there is a guy who dus the same thing to my friend and it really annoys her. He finally asked her out and she sed no cuz she has a bf so his friends kept goin at it so finally my friend just sed look im sorry but I have a bf and i really need u to stop stocking me. If u just say it in a nice way hell get the message, also still be ice and try to avoid him. Good luck!


ok whenever i ask a chica if she will go out with me she always says no well not no but we are really good friends the uasual thing, and i havn't asked out a girl in a while and i am afraid to get hurt again, my life seems pretty good so far, but there is this one chica that i like but i am afraid to get hurt, so here it is

how do i get her to like me and for once in my life be able to feel the love that most people feel and get a yes from her.

thnx to all

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Well I can tell u what would turn me on with a guy
1. Act confident
2. Be funny, not shy
3. ACt like everyone wants to go out with u, the more u act like u r hard to get the more shell want u
4. when u walk by her in the hall be like hey beautiful or hey sexy
5. compliment her without going overboard, be like new shirt? or have u lost weight?
6. use pick up lines like this one: I know milk does the body good but damn how much did u drink?
7. say mean things while smiling so she knows its a joke. Be like damn ur such a slut! but smile so she knows ur kidden
8. probly most important make her feel good about herself

Good Luck!


I just wanted to know what anyone thinks I should do.
Well a few months back I met this guy who I found out taught at the school I go to. Well we started kissing and meeting up, I was never that keen but I did it anyway.
Well i got back with my ex bf and told him I had so I didnt want to see him anymore.
I know what he did was wrong as he was a teacher but Im not sure if I should tell or not. The thing is I think he would do it again.
What do u think I should do? Should I tell or not? (link)
Yes I think you should deffinitly tell on him. What he did was wrong and even if he doesn't do it again, it will still be wrong. What he did was illegal. You should talk to a parent or other teacher. Do not under any circumstances tell any other student. The word will spread and an official could find out th wrong way making you look bad and also ppl will call u a slut if they here it the wrong way when really u r not. Good luck and remember that if u dont tell this could happen again!


Tomorrow is my 15th birthday. Im in a pagent and i dont think that my boyfriend is going to come to it. Also, he didnt come to my little party yesterday either. What do i do? How can i get him to want to be with me on my birthday after the pagant? I dont even know if he knows its my birthday tomorrow. His whole family knows but i dont think he does. Should i be with him tomorrow or would that just be a bad idea? I just want it to be special.. ya know?
If you can help me id really appreciate it.
Sorry so long i just have a lot of different things on my mind
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If ur bf dusnt no that and dusnt want to spend time with u, u need to talk to him. If it keeps up, dump him. I suggest just hangin out w/ ur friends that way u wont spend the day worrying about it.
hope i helped!


okay, so there is this kid i like fell in love with and we told eachotehr who we like and he likes me back and he knows i like him too. well that was over the summer and then when we got to school we talked and shit but we arnt as tight as the year before (WICKED TIGHT) lol and so now hes pretty shy when it comes to me and looks at me alot and i like know he likes me and evrything but he wont ask me out im so tired of waiting its been wicked long and hes had so many chances to and idontknow why he hasnt hes had a gf before so its not like hes not allowed to date or anything, so then there is ths otehr kid that i like a lot too that i just started liking him and hes much more comfortable to be around now and he flirts with me alot and oh my hes just so hot and sweet and so i dont know what to do i think im falling out of love with the first guy but its just cuz we aint talking that much anymore...im not sure if you can really help me but if you could try that we be so nice! thank ytou and sorry this was so long

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I think u should stick with the second guy. I mean it sounds like u definitly have a thing goin w/ him and meybe u should be friends with the other guy. It sounds like it was a fling but that u cud still be good friends! Good luck! And if it dusnt work out w/ the first guy just ask out the other one!




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