im inlove with a lady that is older than me for 13 years. she's inlove with me too. but were both married. any advice. thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? vickiooos answered Friday November 5 2004, 4:22 pm: first off.. you're married. you've made a commiment to someone else and you shouldn't forget that.. atleast if you want to get involved with this women.. break things off for sure with your wife! it's not fair to her or even if you do.. your children. secondly.. 13 years.. that's kind alot.. taht's almost a decade and a half.. it's a little risky because later on the age may make some problems and differences between the two of you..so i'll let you decide if you want to do that.. but first of all... be a man and stop going behind your spouse's back. you owe her that much. [ vickiooos's advice column | Ask vickiooos A Question ]
xxxxxx answered Friday November 5 2004, 3:24 pm: you should honestly seek counseling, because there is obviously a lack of SOMETHING with you and your current wife. you need to talk to your wife about this first before you go off cheating. think about it. [ xxxxxx's advice column | Ask xxxxxx A Question ]
I_love_horses answered Friday November 5 2004, 2:10 pm: Maybe you should just be friends with the lady that you now love, MAybe go on a double date and maybe you'll be lucky and you wife will like the man that is married to the woman you now love. But if it gos any farther try to talk to your wife and tell her what going on and ask her advice. [ I_love_horses's advice column | Ask I_love_horses A Question ]
GroverTheStoNer answered Friday November 5 2004, 10:53 am: You should NOT even think about getting together with this woman. You are married. I highly doubt that your spouse would appreciate you cheating on your marriage. You took the vows, you stick with them.
*Randy T* [ GroverTheStoNer's advice column | Ask GroverTheStoNer A Question ]
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