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Q: okay well i think i like this guy, but at the smae time i hate him :P its really confusing. we went out like three times, but my parents don't like him& don't want me to date him because they heard what he did with one of his girlfriends and i think it was a bit much considering he was only 12 when that occured. and they said that if i do date him i can't spend anytime with him. but anyways, i'm always hoping he will be wherever i am, like hoping to run into him also, when i am with him its kind of akward but at the same time we kind of flirt.. like everyone says i act like i like him but i don't know. it's just kind of confusing but it's been like 3 months since we last went out and i still lik have an urge to be with him, but not date him.. err idk. like i was sleeping over at my friends house for her birthday and like i was just laying there because everyone had already fallen asleep and i kept like wishing he ws there and like i know this sounds weird but i just wanted to like cuddle with him.... like idk when we were going out i felt like really safe when he had his arm(s) around me.
sorry if it's long, confusing and doesn't make sense.

You apparently like him because if you didn't you would have said,

"okay well i think i like this guy"

That's my first thing.
Second, if your parents don't like him why can't you respect the fact that they don't like him for your better and not theirs? They're not the ones who are going to date him, you are.

Third, if he did irresponsible and stupid things with a girl when he was 12, it should give you the feeling that he's probably not the yummiest fish in the sea.

Oh and I should probably tell you this, part of being a guy and having girl friends (IN MY OPINION) is flirting with them. Hense the kisses and, "I don't know what I'd do without you"

And if he said, "HAHA nice clevage" it apparently meant nothing with the "HAHA"

I think you should just move onto better things, who knows you may end up feeling a lot safer in another guy's hands.

Q: 15/f

my boyfriend and i are celebrating our 1 year anniversary in about a week and we both are low on cash right now. he has a surprise planned for me once he gets his first pay check from his new job, and i will do the same. we plan on seeing eachother that day, but i want to do atleast something to celebrate this important day.

what can i do that is not messy or expensive and he will like?

Get him a silly gift that not only shows how much you care but shows that you love all the silly things you guys did during the year of knowing each other.
Buy something that symbolizes an inside joke maybe?

Q: ok so im in a friends with benefits relationship with my best guy friend. he and his ex broke up 3 months ago, she broke up with him. ok so we really haven't done much, i gave him a hj. we've been best friends for 2 years, its not like i just met him yesterday and im screwing him and 5 other guys, its just him and i trust him a lot, he's my first guy i've done sexual things with. anyways, i told my best friend and only my best friend what i did with him. about 2 and a half months ago he felt me up and i told somebody else, (not my best friend), who i trusted, turns out she told everyone and they all thought i lied about it but now they know i'm not lying because my best friend told them that i gave him a hj to defend me from their rumors. i forgive her for telling them because she was defending me but me and the guy wanted to keep the relationship a secret. ok so despite that they broke up, my guy and his ex are still friends and she still has him whipped!! ok so she found out what we're doing and now she's mad at both of us and shes calling me a slut and telling everyone that'll listen what i did. i dont know why she cares, she gave him up, so she should let him go, its almost been 4 months since they've been apart. me and the guy are on a break now until the drama settles. how do i tell his ex to back off, he's too scared of her to say anything. truly it's none of her business and she should just get over it. what do i do about her?

You tell her exactly what you just said here.

It's none of your business. You let him go.
Stop acting like you own him because you apparently don't come close.

my OPINION is that you like him and I say you just go out with him instead of being a friend with benefits. That should push her buttons even more and whoever will listen will get screwed over one day because of rumors. So let them talk, they're making you famous.

Q: SO me and my gf had unprotected sex yesterday and she is only gonna stay with me until she gets outta high school (she just turned a senior now) i dont know what to do
should i stay with her or end it here?

Why is she only staying with you until she gets out of highschool?
I think you should talk to her about this instead of asking for advice maybe?
But, my OPINION is that you should stay with her if you have feelings with her not because she's good in bed (not saying that you're with her because she's good in bed)

Q: so these 2 girls asked me out. and i like both. wanna help me? please look at the pictures.
this is katie: http://a797.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01007/69/70/1007270796_l.jpg
shes tom boyish. she likes to act. she does alright in school. shes good at some sports. she plays alot of instraments. shes a prude. she has a good amount of money. shes adventurous. shes always buisy. she likes ping pong and skate boarding. shes really family orriented. shes childish. she always hangs out with guys. she is well liked. she has a preppy prude boring sense of style. she always partys and gets drunk. plays xbox alot. tends to meet people on xbox live. she wears hollister and pacsun and things like that 24/7.

this is marychelle:http://a756.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/33/l_9a6daff5fbc15300da1df6b689dd5753.jpg
shes more on the girly down to earth side. shes been through a lot in her life. she loves to break the law. shes iffy at sports. but is a really fast runner. she does ok in school. shes not really prude. her family dosnt have much money. shes loud. but quite in school and around adults. shes wild. shes ussaully not buisy. shes a great dancer. she loves to swim and take pictures. shes funny. alot of people hate her cause shes straight and in the gay straight aliance. shes loud. she has a unique style. like hollister/abercrombie/hot topic/ghetto/retroish.

who do you think is a better choice?
prettier?
what do you think?

This is just my question for you to answer to yourself.

Do you really care what either of them looks like?

Make a list of good and bad of both girls, which one has the most good stuff is the one to be picked I guess. Don't pick 1 over the other because you think one of them is prettier then the other. I'm sure both girls are great. I'd say just go with the one that draws you more to her, the one that makes you smile the most, the one that has the most in common with you, and of course the one you can spend time with and be yourself around.

Hope I helped.

Q: 13/f
Okay dont tell me im to yung for love because i really lik this guy there he used to live 2 houses down from me and moved in with his dad i mean we've had our ups and downs lik we were playin basket ball once and i said he cheated and he said shut up u f-in slut tht made so so mad and sad at da same time but every time we were on the bus he asks me to hug em and when he come to my house for my bro and leaves ill go outside and sit he jus smiles at me lik a mean wit a twinkle in his eye :D thn leaves
does this sound lik he likes me im pretty sure it does or is he jus bein nice because im his friends sis...and how do i get ova him cbecause he moved PLZ help srry it kinda long ♥ Lesha

They'll be plenty of times for you to like/love someone. Don't let yourself get hung up on 1 guy even though you "think" you love him, I'm pretty sure it's just a big crush. He may have liked you but if it didn't happen, it wasn't meant to.

Q: What flavors do guys like when kissing a girl? Like what flavor lip balm or gloss would you like the gilr to be wearing?

I'm not sure a guy wants to taste lip gloss...
or touch lips with a girl that's wearing lip gloss
I don't know maybe if he wants lip gloss on his face
or on his lips I guess
But I say natural nothing on lips goes best

Q: Ok so today 5/20/07 is me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary and on thursday I had a break down because he was spending to much time with his best friend (who is a girl) he stays over at her house and sleeps in her bed and it pisses me off. So I flipped out on myspace and they got pissed. me and my boyfriend fixed everything and he spends more time with me now. He asked his friend if she would let me be involved in activities that they do and she keeps saying "yea since she's so jelous " blah blah blah....
She keeps dragging it out and doing stuff to make me jelous.
my first question is
1.) How do I piss her off more?
2.) How do I tell her to quit dragging things out like my 5 year old brother and grow up? Without punching her in the face?

Just don't give her the satisfaction of knowing it pisses you off because I bet she does it just to piss you off.

& another thing, you have a lot of tolerence towards this kind of crap if you didn't already punch her in the face because my first reaction would be to beat her to the point where she doesn't know the difference between the earth and the moon.

Q: So ive had a few grlfriends over the years, and i feel like each one has taught me something diffrent about what i like and dont like about relationships.

But what i can't figure out is,
why do i always get broken up with?

Im a good boyfriend!! I remember dates, i bring them flowers, i call to see how theyre doing, i do my absolute best. i really do. but they always end up breaking up with ME! i dont know whats wrong with me!

Like my last one, broke up with me RIGHT after i told her happy one month and gave her a ring. right after to my face! am i ugly or something? i dont think so. i like to think im fairly good looking.

this is probably just me rambling and ranting but id like some advice as to what i should do diffrently :)

thanks

You sound like a brilliant, amazing guy.
I would love to have a boyfriend like you.
Girls these days always like the bad guys
I don't know why, but it's like "cool" to have a bad boyfriend.
Don't ever let yourself think it's you.
Because it deffinetly isn't.
If a girl doesn't appriciate you for how gentlemen like you are,
her loss.

Q: by not actually showing that you like her like somethign really good but not perverted....and i really dont know what to say like im usually fine but i really like this girl and all i say to ehr is how is your day going and thats it....she is a grade higher than me so i cant talk about school or anything...so can anyone help me

Ask her about her life.
What she likes to do
Where she likes to go
Anything about music
Tell her she's got pretty eyes
Her hair looks good a certain day
She just looks pretty

Q: Hey ima 13/f and i have a boyfriend and i love him he has the best intention's for me ( most of the time) and he is so sweet but i have one prob. ima white girl and i have a very very close guy friend and he is black and him and my boyfriend do NOT get along at all!! and my and guy frind are so close like we habg out all the time how cani get him and my boyfriend to get along?? and the reason they dont get along is because my boyfriend thinks black kids/adults are gunna hurt me so can you please help??
Love, dont know what to do

You can't make someone accept someone else
Your boyfriend sounds kind of racist.
I don't know if you want that
He might grow to be controlling later on.
Just tell him that the kid is your friend,
and if he doesn't like it,
then I guess it's his fault
cause he might as well lose you
if he doesn't let you hang out with your friends.

Q: this guy REALLY likes me like he called me beautiful and stuff but i REALLY don't have feelings for him at all. and it seems like the more he talks to me and tells me he likes me, the more turned off i get, and the more i like this other guy.

now, the guy that likes me told me he liked me AFTER i told him i liked someone else... so i dont know why he told me. but he did. and he asked me for my cell number & he doesn't text... which is pretty much the only thing a cell phone is USED for... and he called me and he was like, hey i'd really like to talk to you and i mean i feel bad and everything but dude, he's becoming sort of obsessed with me. like the moment i get on my instant messenger, he IMs me.

i just REALLY need some space. i've been trying to avoid going on as much as possible, saying i'm busy etc. and only limiting to talking to him in school, but idk it's just really hard cause of all this guilt.

he KNOWS that i like someone else that's not him cause i told him, but he still tells me he would like to kiss me, thinks i'm beautiful and wants to go to the 8th grade dance with me but i really don't like him beyond friends.

the TRUTH is, i only asked him for his screen name cause i thought he was friends with my crush! it turned out horrible, and NOT what i wanted. cause now my crush's so called friend now DIGS me and my crush still doesn't like me!

please help me? i can't just tell him to lay off cause that would really hurt him.

xo

Just tell him he's not what you're looking for.
Tell him you like someone else,
and he should probably find a girl
that he could get along great with
and have a lot of fun with.
Inform him that you're not the only girl.
There's other fishies out there
that I'm sure would love to be his.
If you're not honest with him, you're stuck with him.
It's your call really.