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I dont know what to do!!!
Hey ima 13/f and i have a boyfriend and i love him he has the best intention's for me ( most of the time) and he is so sweet but i have one prob. ima white girl and i have a very very close guy friend and he is black and him and my boyfriend do NOT get along at all!! and my and guy frind are so close like we habg out all the time how cani get him and my boyfriend to get along?? and the reason they dont get along is because my boyfriend thinks black kids/adults are gunna hurt me so can you please help??
Love, dont know what to do
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Don't assume he might be controlling later on because he has somewhat racist views. Now, you can't make any body get along, but set it straight that they do not have to be friends, but just be respectful of you, and each other. Do not stop talking to your best guy friend, you will absolutely regret it. Talk to your boyfriend, I'm sure you guys can work it out
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well your young and its cute that your in love but if your guy friend is seriously a true best friend, never lies, is always there, has your back you have his, respectful, never ditched you, anythinggg at all. then you need to tell your boyfriend they need to get along or else you might have to end your guys relationship, (justt to kinda make him nervous) if he really likes you he will respect that, other wise it wont ever get better.
buttt you cant change his views but he should really learn to respect yours. but your so young so dont be hurt if things dont work out. theres many many boys in this world who will respect your friends and you.
good luckkk girll (:
l0vee alwayss-
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You can't make someone accept someone else
Your boyfriend sounds kind of racist.
I don't know if you want that
He might grow to be controlling later on.
Just tell him that the kid is your friend,
and if he doesn't like it,
then I guess it's his fault
cause he might as well lose you
if he doesn't let you hang out with your friends.
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