i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)
listen, i havent been on this site in a while because my life had a few umm....complications. but anyway u shud dump him because apparantly he duznt no wat it meens 2 have a dating relationship with a girl. its not all about sex its about commitment, love, caring, comfort, similarities responsibility, and if u both want maybe some sexuallity. but its not alll about sex otherwise it mite get out of control and lead 2 date rape
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I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks
well there is no specific type of guy that likes shy girls. if a guy likes a shy girl its probably becuz their hot. thats bcuz thats the only way they notice them if their not outgoing. if a shy girl like a guy well u can leave him notes asking him 2 meet u alone somewhere like in the skoool library or something and youll hav to look and wink at him in the halls. just make sure its a guy that wont humiliatye u cuz theres almost nothing worse than that. hope i helped
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ok well theres this guy who always flirts with me and he knows i have a boyfriend and all. and also my boyfriend is a very jelous guy and wants to protect me in any way he can. but i dont want to hurt the guys feelings because hes nice and all, i dont know if he'd be hurt if i told him i dont like him flirting or what, what do you think?
just talk 2 him online and dont tell ne1 about him
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I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't.
just plan 2 meet jon somewhere w/out tellin ur friends where ur gonna meet and make sure he duznt tell ne1 either hope i helped
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How do you know if a guy likes you and if he/you does like him how do you get him to notcie you??
u gotta talk 2 him alot and and wink and smile everytime u go past him and u no just flirt naturally and if u dont no how 2 flirt then just IM me and ill sho u ;) lol my s/n is WinterX2690
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Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
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so wat if he gets mad. hes an asshole that drinks duz drugs and hes only goin out w/ u for pleasure and not who u r. u deserve better and actuallly no1 deserves som1 like that. just dump him b4 he duz somthin that will upset u even more. and remeber this "It is not our abilities that show who we truly are.....it is our choices" choose wisley;)
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Alright...ok I've been talking to this guy who is 3 years older then me and well the both of us are too shy to ask the other to hang out...Should I Ask him? He is also best friends with my best friend's boyfriend...but then also there is another guy who is good friends with my best friend, he is closer to my age, but I haven't known him very long...so should I go for the guy who I've been talking to for 10 months or the new boy? Should i ask them out to hang out? (seperately of course)
u shud go 34 the one that u no better and trust more. age duznt matter that much. choose the rite one. o and remeber this" it is not our abilities that show what we truly r....it is our choices" choose wisley;)
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Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now
hey,well id say that there cud b 1 of 2 things goin on. 1 is that he's not cheating on u and hes just busy. or he is cheatin on u and he just feels guilty and duznt want 2 talk 2 u cuz he'll end up spiilin it. just sit him down and nicely ask him wats goin on w/ him latly. hope i helped ;)
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Ok...I'm 16 years old and I don't go to a regular school...I go to a girls' school. I don't KNOW any boys. I just don't. I wanted to meet some because I really want a boyfriend. So, I went to a restaurant the other day, and started smiling at one of the guys there. He just gave me a look like "What? Why are you staring at me?"
What is wrong with me??? I thought that was a good way!!
Well, atleast I got his attention, right?
ugh.........
nothings wrong maybe he just duznt no girls or maybe hes shy ui werent doin nething wrong. i can only imagine how much it must suck 2 b in a skool that only has the same sex.
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I am havin soo sooo many problems! I need so much help!
1. My dad is sexually horassin me and Im affraid to tell my mom bc she will get a divorce and well have no money!!
2. I am havin so many problems with movin I dont want to and we relocate like 5 times a year and none or our family is in the military!!
3. My mom is a major bitch!!!!
4. My hole family and supposed to be friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I wanna kill my self but Im afraid Ill go to heell stupid huh
Plz plz plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
u do have alot on ur plate 2 cope w/ at the moment but if u listen 2 me youll b able 2 make a stand and make it all stop. it seems as tho both ur parents r unexceptable. u shud inform DSS straight away even if it meens u mite get new parents. these people arent acting like parents their acting like sickos that dont care 4 ur feelings. and wateva u do dont kill ur self. u dont go 2 hell..its much worse....ur chosing 2 take ur life wen God has not callled u yet. i no it sounds gay but its tru. youll just b a drifting soul in an open space forever which actually i gess is hell. just go 2 DSS and tell them everything. dont b afraid. just remeber this "it is not our abilities that show who we truly are.it is our choices" chose wisley;) i reallly hope i helped and plz tell me how it works out
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Me and my b/f have been going out now for 3 months. And i haven't kissed him yet..not even a peck. Is there something wrong with me? He has tried once to make a move but i backed off. Does anyone have any advice on how to do it or anything??!!!
just relax and go w/ it. try not 2 hesitate and dont b afraid. and dont it unless u feel comfortable w/ this guy
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i have been seeing this guy for 3 years now and we have made out a million times i want to go farther and so does he but i dont know what else to do..i just need some ideas...plz..
u could do 2nd and third base or give him a BJ or a hand job
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I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....
what do I do..
and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?
u shud def meet him as long as u no peeps can proov hes not a pedophyl and it perfectly fine thatu sent him ur pic. just make sure that u get one of his.
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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
hey well im 14 2 and nea had a gf. and i deided i wouldnt till im 16 cuz wen u get a bf or gf at 13 or 14 the relationship is stupid. all u do is say i love soo much and make out a few times and then ur cryin and u hate eahother a week or 2 later. its ridiculous. ive decided not eve 2 bother. u shud 2 cuz ur win up getting hurt but a boy cuz hes cheating on u or duznt like u ne more and it only lasts a few weeks or so. so take my advice and just wait and b patient. if u wanna do it then go ahead. on and i put this on all my aswers bcuz its a good piece of advice itself: "It is not out abilities thta show who we truly are, it is outr choices." chose wisley ;)
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i have a boyfriend kevin but i want another guy named mike and kevin is like the hottest guy alotta ppl like him n mike is just soo much nicer n there is a less chance of him hurtin ur feelings becvause kevin is the kinda guy who would cheat on you and has already done alotta things that i dont know if im into yet...but lately i have been talking to mike alot and hanging out with him when im goin out wit kevin n i have NO IDEA what to doo....because alot of girls would be lucky to have kevin and i think i have alot more feelings for mike ... what should i doo??
trust me go 4 mike u wont regret it as much as u think u will. remeber dont go 4 the looks they dont matter as much as his personality.
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Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!
u shud go out w/ him cuz u sed hes nice and ur lonley and need somebody so just try it you will probably start 2 like him
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I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me
PEACE
as long as u lve him thats all that counts
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help
i mite understand how much pressure and anxiety this put s on u but i do no pressure and anxiety. u deff hav 2 tell ur parents and ur bf. to keep the baby or abort it is your choice but first just listen to this. wen a woman gets an abortion they r scared 4 life. they will never 4get the baby. its like murdwer only worse. ur taking a life away b4 its even started. just do wat u think is rite.
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ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..
well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! or
oly shit....that is extemely confusing......but fortunatly i can help. just leave him he OBVIOUSLY is not interested in alot if hes goin out w/ like 50 friggin girls in month or something. u gottawait til he gets his priorities in order. ask him if he really wants 2 b w/ u and only u. if the answer is not a flat out yes ...then ditch him cuz hes just way ova his head in girls right now(lucky bastard). tell me if this helped! !!PLZ RATE ME!!
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What do you get guys for gifts????
um... a guitar or drumset a car um theres nothing really afforable that a boy wants. but if u just show him ur love in sexual ways then he'll deffinatly b happy and that basically the best gift u can give him. im not sayin that cuz im a sicko im jjust sayin that cuz im a guy and its tru. !!rate me!!
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