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I'm Kyle I'm 20 years old I am An United States marine that plays Guitar and writes songs in my free time.. I used to get on here alot but im starting to get into this again now that im Settled down FINALLY!! Soo get the Questions coming!

advice

wut do you look for in a gurl?
would you rather have a good gurl or bad gurl?
hard to get gurl or easy gurl???

I like bad girls.. but are good at it.. haha.. and i dont like easy girls.. there is no challenge.. and thats not cool..

Kyle

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I moved to Tennessee about a month and a half ago from West Virginia,and I am still in love with this boy in West Virginia.He tells me he still thinks about me all the time,but he also talks to this other girl,and I don't know what is going on in his head,and we have been out twice,but had some problems.I really don't know what to do,because I live in Tennessee now...please help!

Hey..i just moved to arkansas from west virginia.. and personally.. i wouldent mess with long distance relationships... just have fun for now.. and enjoy life.. if he loves you.. he with work at it.. dont stress yourself out


KYLE

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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? Should I call him?

Well honestly in highschool everyone gets a fair chance.. as long as u 2 have kind of a friendship goin.. i mean if he hates you.. then your chances prolly arent too good... but if your allready friends.. ohh yes.. i would say go for it.. but call him.. i think thats too soon.. wait a little while.. till u become better friends.. or try to hint that u want him to call.. and give ur # to him. and say u can make plans to do something.. but i think he kinda might like you and just be SHY.. soo if thats the case LUCKY YOU

KYLE

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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!!

I would keep trying.. its not good to give up on love.. and if your really in love you woudent even question that.. it means that your relationship is weak.. and ur not as strong as u coudl be.. keep trying untill it fails.. otherwise ur a quitter!

KYLE

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hey i am a 13 year old female and i have been going out with this guy for about 6 months and we have made out and basically had dry sex, but ive always asked him if i could see his penis and he would always be too shy to show it. i was over at his house yesturday and i asked him if i could see it and he un-zippered his pants and almost brought it out. i wasnt sure that he would do that and now im worried that he might catch me by surprise again. im thinking that he would try to make me have sex with him, but i dont know what to expect, b/c he talks about it all the time, but im not sure what to do if he tried it. i mean i havent done and i think its too young...what should i do about it?

Why ask to see his dick? thats just asking for trouble.. not a good idea..

KYLE

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there is this girl that i love more than anything in the whole world, and i know we love each other. but she has a boyfriend that she cares bout. i dont like anybody else but her. but i figure if i wait too long i will be hurt even more. what the heck do i do

Just be a friend to her man.. you could possibly tell her how u feel.. but dont scare her.. just be a good friend.. and dont try to ruin anything.. be greatfull that u have a friend.. and enjoy life.. your person will come!

KYLE

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ok i started talkin to this guy named chris about 5 months ago...we wer really good friends and our parents knew eachother so i was allowed to go everywhere with them!! they new we liked eachother 2....well he got grounded about 3 months later n we juss LOST CONTACT 4 S0O0 LONG....well i ben really thinkin bout him bc he treated me s0o well....and i called him up....he wasnt ther but his dad was like sara? ohh hey how r u? r u still in soccer?? blah blah juss totally tlkin to me!! his family loves me!! well ya so he called me last nite but my cell was on silence so i juss saw the missed call!! i was s0o happy!! well i called him today adn he had to go sumwher with his mom so we didnt get to talk and we havent talked for months....shuld i call him back?? wat do i say?? i have NO idea wat to say to him but i really like him n wanna hangout agen!! im really nervous!! plz help idk wat i shuld do!! WAT DO I SAY TO HIM??

Just call and make plans to hangout.. no big deal. dont sweat it!!

KYLE

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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do!

If you like him and he likes you.. be open.. and tell him what you want.. in a kind way... not too agressive.. even tho some guys may like that

KYLE

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hey yall i jus found out that my bf is probly cheating on me and this stuff happens to me all the time i always get used at and it really sux and wel i jus dont no how to deal with it cus wenever this stuf happens i get really depressed and shit and i think about cutting and stuff but i never actualy do it i jus need sum way to get out of this place or idk i jus idk

Get better guys.. or just kind of tease them.. and see if they are worth ur time.. before you actually commit!!!!!!!

Kyle

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Theres one guy who changes mood's rapidly. He used to always be happy, now he's always mad, yet today he was happy. We used to like eachother, but never said anything. Point being, I still like the guy. I don't know if he likes me. I'm 19 he's 16. Sucks, yeah. But I love the guy. He's all I think about during the day. Even now..haha. Help? If I tell him, I know he'd laugh it off and act as if I'm joking. I don't really feel like talking about lovey shit, either.

Hey here is what i think you outta do.. if he changes moods alot.. try this.. because i have bad mood swings like that.. TELL HIM HOW U FEEL.. but.. u gotta have perfect timeing.. dont tell him when he is at a peak high.. because he will more than likely joke about it.. tell him when he is in a neutral stage.. or kind of not in a good mood.. show him that you love him.. and care for him.. and express your feelings.. i dont think age really matters all that much.. as long as you have alot in common.. keep it real... GOOD LUCK

KYLE

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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?

FUNNY.. and u gotta be kind of bad.. but know how to not get caught!!!..SWHOOSH 2 points

KYLE

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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!

Hey Ali.. well.. we have talked about this before.. he seems like a cool guy.. but.. i think he really wants to have sex.. i mean he is older.. and i mean come on.. thats honestly what older guys go for younger girls. from experience that happened to some friends of mine.. the guys were in college and wanted "fresh meat" sorry to say.. but i hope he isnt like that ..

KYLE

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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

Everyone Shoud Get a second chance.. people change.. but u decide if they are worth the risk!

KYLE

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How can my cousin and I get this boy at a campsite to notice us? We're around the ages of 14*1/2 - 15...we are NOT SLUTTY...we are interested in just being ourselves...and we can be outgoing sometimes...but we aren't type of girls to just come out and talk to a guy. It's hard for us...last time at the campsite we sat around and watched this boy skateboard...

He seemed very sweet at times but he never approached us or anything...I think he liked the fact that him and his friend had an audience...

So if we were ever to see this boy again...(which would be HIGHLY doubtful)...what should we do? GIve him a note?? (would that be creepy?) is there anything anybody can do to help us?...

How can we get them to notice us?

Thanks. APpreciate it

Well.. if you dont really know them... and are shy.. and they are shy.. NOTHING can happen.. if both people are afraid to communicate soo here is what i would do.. go up and kind of ask a silly ?'s or if he is skateboarding.. ask if he can teach u a trick or something.. or see if he can do a neat trick.. hehe.. im sure he will like that alot.. then there ya go an ICEBREAKER.. keep it up

KYLE

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I have a little problem.
I Like my bestest guy friend ever. His Name is mike, i don't mind if you kno his name, but anyway. I asked him out and now he is like avoiding me or sumthing. It is weird.... When i asked him out he said.." Umm, let me think that thru a little." and i dunno why he can't just be like no or yes. and i think by him saying that, it is a definet NO! and since he won't talk to me and is like never online and isn't home when i call him, i dunno what to think..

what should i do?
- Signed
In guy trouble

I think its weird.. that happened to me in a way and personally I got freaked out by it.. im sure he felt the same way.. when u are close with someone in a FRIEND kind of way to me it would be like dating someone kind of like my sister.. and for me thats weird.. but. im not really sure what his preference is!

Kyle

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Okay, i've been hearing a lot of stuff about my girlfriend... and i dont know what to believe. a couple people told me that she's been flirting, and trying to hook up with guys behind my back. I even caught her talking on the phone, dunno who with, and she was talkin about all these things that she was gonna do, and i was behind her. What should i do? should i drop the brod, or should i keep it goin for a little longer.

signed,

confused and troubled

Well Troubled and Confused... I'd have to say.. Confront her.. before doing anything stupid and doin the same to her.. Its not cool to "give her a taste of her own medicine" but... If what u hear was really goin down.. your in some trouble in your relationship.. im sure but I think she is kind of bored with ur relationship and need to spice things up soo she dont go after "fresh meat" keep things fresh!!!!

KYLE

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