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Q: i don't get it. when i get into a relationship and i want to be serious about it i let all my guy friends go, and my guy friends are fine with that cuz they understand me and how i don't beleive in cheating and shit.
but my problem with my boyfriend now is that he kind of makes a big deal out of it, i just finely got him to fix his damn myspace top friends thing, cause it was me and like 50 million other girls.
i trust my boyfriend, but shit like that makes me 2nd guess, he hasn't done anything to prove me wrong, if i'm not at his house we are on the phone will we go to sleep pretty much.
i just don't know what i need to do. cause i think it pisses him off when i bring shit like that up. but yet he is glad i tell him so he can know.
and it really hurts his feelings when i tell him i have a hard time trusting him sometimes.
but i've been cheated on way to much these days.

well i'm pretty much im in the same boat. lol i do trust my boyfriend but at the same time i can be a very jealous girlfriend. like when there's 398712487 other girls on his myspace..yeah i question him but then he just reminds me "im not your ex i havent cheated on you and i dont plan on it trust me. i love ya too much to do that" or something like that. but he does get offensive about it so i stopped asking becauses it causes unnesscary fights. Just keep this in mind HES NOT YOUR EX'S. lol that's a big one for me. if you keep that in mind then it'll probally help your nontrusting issue a lot. it did for me. hope i helped some. (:

//PLRx

Q: ok my boyfriends friend just died. liek i have no idea what to say to him. i feel so bad

well i haven't had my boyfriend's friend died but his grandpa died recently & that was tough on him. all you can really do is be there for him like you know what you'd want if that happend to you. you'd probally want just somewhere there to give you a hug or hold you & let you know things will get better & everything happens for a reason. you know stuff like that. right now he just needs someone there & who's better for that then his girlfriend. Oh and try not to get mad @ him over little stuff and just know he's going through a tough time like if he snaps fast at you or yells he doesn't mean it. bottom line: be his shoulder to cry on basically. just be there & let him know you care.
im sorry though you have to go through something like that. hope i could be a little helpful to the situation.

//PLRx

Q:
ive had a thing for this kid named joe for as long as i can remember. i met him as a freshman and im a junior .. so at least 3 years now .. we dated 10 months but then we broke up. its been 3 months .. i still think about him all the time and no one compares to him to me .. ive tried SO hard, numerous times to get over him. i dont know what is so appealing. our relationship wasnt all that great. we didn thang out that much, but he always could make me laugh more than anyone else .. i miss him..

well my friends are all like well you have to get your mind off him .. date someone else. so this friend of mine named ian whos like COMPLETELY and totally nice and i are tryin to date. but yesterday he told me he loved .. and we've only been togehter 2 days. and that makes me nervous. i dont do the quick feelings thing well. and i cant say it back .. cus i dont love himm . im not over joe yet =/

i dont think its fair to be with ian and still love joe or whatever .. but my frineds are like its exactly what you need to get over him ..

suggestions?

I had a problem similar to this awhile back in december (me & my ex dated for the same time too. werid. lol) but anyways first off dating another guy to get over one is badddd. take this from experience. if yall break up & yall probaly will because you aren't over the other guy the guy you used will hate you. believe me. the best thing you can do to get over joe or whoever it is is just time. like be single, hang with friends, flirt but dont get into another big relationship untill you are COMPLETELY over your ex. Trust me You'll find a guy ten times better when your not looking and your friends arent pressuring you to find someone. I know I did. & I know right now it seems like you can never get over him but eventually you will. & about that time he will realize he wants you back & you'll be long gone. it always happens that way. lol but i hope everything works out for you. (:

//PLRx

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The name is Emily (:

14 yrs old. (15 in July)

I love Jesus.

My friends mean the world to me.

Freshman in highschool.

I have an ah-mazing boyfriend.

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