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ok my boyfriends friend just died. liek i have no idea what to say to him. i feel so bad
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Well there isnt really a "right" thing to say. I think you should just try to be there for him as much as you can and get his mind off of it or if hes the opposite then talk to him about it and help him through it
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From experiance there's nothing you really can say, because nothing will make it better except time. The only thing you can do is be there for him when he needs. He may not want to talk about because sometimes it's easier to just ignore things like this, and pretend everythings alright. Just be there when he needs you. And make sure he knows your always there for him.
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A time like this I don't think there really is a "right" thing to say. All you can do is be there for him and let him come to you if he needs to talk. Don't force conversation or sympathy down his troat. Often people try and do that thinking it's the right thing to do, when infact it's the worst thing they could do. Take him out to dinner or a movie, try and get his mind off of things, and DON'T bring up his friend until he does. Sorry for his loss;
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well i haven't had my boyfriend's friend died but his grandpa died recently & that was tough on him. all you can really do is be there for him like you know what you'd want if that happend to you. you'd probally want just somewhere there to give you a hug or hold you & let you know things will get better & everything happens for a reason. you know stuff like that. right now he just needs someone there & who's better for that then his girlfriend. Oh and try not to get mad @ him over little stuff and just know he's going through a tough time like if he snaps fast at you or yells he doesn't mean it. bottom line: be his shoulder to cry on basically. just be there & let him know you care.
im sorry though you have to go through something like that. hope i could be a little helpful to the situation.
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Aw! I'm sorry. The best thing you can do is just be there for your boyfriend. Hes gonna be sad, and not himself so just be there for him, and tell him "im sorry." "its okay." "everything will get better"
Things like those =]
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aww, i'm sorry. firstly just tell him that you will be there for him no matter what, and you know he's going through a rough time right now but you want to help him get through it and you will be by his side the whole way. try to make him laugh and keep his mind off of his loss. hope i could help. :)
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