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i think i might be having some boyfriend problems. a few days ago i was like 1% considering that i should break up with this guy i've been going out with. then the next morning it was completely out of the question. i couldnt tell my friends my problem because i knew the moment they heard this, it would be all around the school. the thing is, he's really cute, smart, well-known, and sweet to me. the first time i talked to him on the phone, he seemed like he was myself in another sex! we just had soo much in common, like a lot of the little things. we also had a few things that made us different. i like heights, scary movies, and partying with my friends. he on the other hand, wouldn't dance even if he was paid, likes his feet on the ground, and perfers comdedies. i mean, i shouldnt judge him by those stupid things though right?

well anyway, we've been going out for 6 months which is pretty rare for 13 year olds. when i really thought about it, i knew i would regret breaking up with him in the end. i like the idea that he's loyal, honest, and walks me to my class whenever he sees me. now whenever he calls, we run out of things to talk about in less than 10 minutes. when my other guy friends call, im usually the one babbling on about the most random things. sometimes i even feel like i should make up an excuse to get off the phone with him. do i just have nothing to say because i really like my boyfriend and dont want to embarrass myself by saying something stupid?

its weird, but part of me wants to leave my options open. but then again, my boyfriend was the best one i've ever had in my life.

i planned a party for next week and he's invited. i think that will help us reconnect a little more because i've had parties like this before and they've always resulted with me watching him leave with butterflies in my stomach. he also invited me to come mini golfing with him this friday. but my god, do i suck at mini golf or what. what can i do to make our "date" not boring without making him feel awkward?

i hope you guys can answer my questions (the last sentence of each paragraph haha). please, im wishing i can get some good answers before friday...

Hello. =)

Like you said, you and him have alot in common. Those few random *little* things shouldn't matter at all. It's no reason to break up with him..

Actually, in my opinion, i think it's good that you suck at mini golf. That way you'll have something to keep you guys occupied, him teaching you how to play. Also, you two would have another thing you enjoy doing together (hopefully you have fun) and you two would get the opportunity to learn from each other which is a good thing in a relationship. Maybe the next time you go out you could teach him how to figure skate, or something you like to do, haha. Just a suggestion.. =_=;;
Anyway, on to my point, trust me, it won't be boring.

Oh, && the phone situation is completely normal. You're just running out of things to say. Try being random && try to learn more things about him.

I hope all goes well. If you need anything else, leave me one in tha inbox. =)

Good Luck!

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should your boyfriend/girlfriend come before your best friend?

please explain too ♥ thanks.

Yah best friends should come before a gf or bf because they might leave you but you'll always have your friends. :]

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OK so I have this power of flirting with guys I like and then getting them to like me back. Well I really like this one guy and he really likes me back. The thing is, he's wayy too sweet. I'm all about having fun being hyper and going wild. He's all about romantic stuff and taking me out to dinner ALONE. I guess I'm just not ready for that yet and plus we aren't even going out! I wish he was more hyper and wild and well sexy. Can I make him that way? Or should I just brek it off? He really wants to see me this weekend and I don't know what to do with him... any suggestions? (suggestions for just me and him dates and for me him his freinds and my friends dates)

You could always talk to him about how you feel. Tell him your not ready for the romantic stuff & you'd like it if he was more wild.

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okay my boyfriend walked past me in the hall and i said hi and his friends were like theres ur gf and he looked back and kept walking...but then the next day he acts like nothing happend...does this mean he doesnt like me or wat


please help i will give anyone a 5

Maybe he was a little embarrased because all his friends were around. I'm sure he still likes you. No worries. :]

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i have to meet my boyfriend's parents tomorrow. and tips on how to make a good impression?

*Be polite. Call them ma'am , sir , Mrs. ____ , Mr. ____*

*Wear appropriate clothes. Maybe some jeans (not tight jeans.. lol) and a long sleeved shirt..*

*Have good table manners if you eat dinner with them.*

*Don't try to be desperate for their attention and say stupid jokes.*

*Don't do anything nasty with your bf in front
of his parents.*

*Be respectful.*

*Don't reveal too much about yourself or your bf & you*

Good luck. :]

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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?

It's completely fine. He's a celebrity!! It's not like anything will happen, no offense (hes a celeb). So its completely normal, unless you actually were to have a relationship with Johnny Depp (i doubt that)
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do guys really care about how big a girl's chest is?
guys please answerrrr !! .. and girls if you know the answer too..

Sadly, some do, they are jerks. Some really sweet guys dont care. Hell, some sweet guys would date an overweight girl, which is cool. Those guys are not jerks, lol. Some do care about boobs, ass, and other shit like that. If a guy cares whether or not you have big boobs then he sooo not worth it.
:)
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okay im 16 and so basicaly i have the worst time ever talking to guys. just get all nervous haha. and well i suck at flirting. and there is this guy that i really really like and he is always like stairing at me. but he doesnt seem to really notice im there.. and i was just wondering what the hell i should do to get this guys attention..? :) any help/ advice you can give is greatly appreciatied.

Awe, lol. Instead of flirting you should maybe get to know him and hang out or something so that he actually notices you're there, lol. After you become closer to him it'll probably be easier to flirt around him. When you do flirt, he'll notice you like him, and it'll be easier for you.

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Hope i helped.

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foshizzle my nizzle ok so i like dis girl and she likes dis other guy and i have liked her since like THE LAST ICEAGE ok AND I REALLY LIKE her ok and i wanted to know some tips on impressing a girl gotcha and i'm assuming you have good answers cause i don't come here just for nothing

Wigga.

Anyway, just be yourself. Be funny, nice, dont act black *ahem*, and be outgoing. First get to know her alot as in best friends. Then you take it from there.

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hi i like this boy who i no is just using me for sex but i keep letting him because i like him what should i do

This has happened to me before. Please try to forget about him. If you keep letting him then he is. You dont want that, do you? Do it for your own good!!

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Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.

-Paris-

Well, you really should be yourself!! Guys love when you act yourself!! But, i'll help you anyway. You could wear a cute top and a mini skirt. If its cold wear tight jeans and a tight top!! You could put liquid liner on the top of your lid, pencil eyeliner on the bottom, light pink lip gloss (dont put it on heavy), and a concealer to blend in with your skin (it makes your skin pretty). Thats all i got!! BUT PLEASE DONT PUT ON TOO MUCH!! It'll make you look gross! :)
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GOOD LUCK

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