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Hi. My name is Molly. I have experience with guys, I do. But I was wondering whether there was anything I could do to make my guy feel better while we are making out or something. Is there any place that they like to be touch or like tickled, other than the obvious. If you could answer this fast, that'd be great. and Im not weird. (link)
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Every guy is diff. Most guys like their tummy being rubbed. Run your fingernails over his chest lightly. He'll love it. You can do that on the back as well. I dont know if that really helps but I tried. lol
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I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five. (link)
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I never really liked my friends they would be my friends friend. They were always hotty with bodys. lol
Just tell him to meet you somewhere where it is quit(i.e park, lake). Then just tell him that you have been friends for so long and that you would like to be more than friends. YOu would like to try it as b/f and g/f.
He might say no, and things might get weird for a while, but it will return to normal.
He will prob. say yes. He shoulds like he kindof likes you too. Hes prob. shy, guys are shy and worried about rejections aswell. Just go for it. Take a chance. The worse that could happen is that he would say no.
Remember "There is nothing to fear in love. It is hard, it is fun. Take a chance because you never know"
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this girl i like has a boyfriend. i was gong to ask her out but he beat me too the punch. im not one to usually get jealous but i was going to ask her out the same day he did. now i cant help but feel jealous because i really, really like this girl. i dont know what to do. I will rank high:-) (link)
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Well, I always say fight for what you believe in and that really doesnt help you. What you have to do is make sure that you really like her. Then win her over. Steal her away. Make her fall head over heals for you. Do something that is so romantic and something that is so breathtaking that she cant say not no ot. Trust me if she has any feelings for you what so ever she will fall for you.
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I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now? (link)
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He is so hiting on you. He is trying to hid it up by all of the question. It kindof sound like he might be head over heals. Ok maybe not that drastic but pretty close.
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Me and my girlfriend of over 2years have been having some issues lately. She says that she isent sure if she wants to be with me, and when she says this she cries and tells me how much she loves me, however, the reason she doesnt know if she wants to be with me, is because i dont hurry up and finish school. I love this girl so much and definetely see a future with her. Everytime we talk about this, we end up crying , so i decided to send an email, telling her how if she wanted I could brake up with her to make her decision easier, its been 2 days and i have not received an answer to my question, we still talk on the phone all the time and see each other, but no mention of my email is ever brought up. What should I do? How much time do i need to give her to make up her mind? its killing me knowing that she is contemplating braking up. (link)
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Do something really nice for her. Candle light dinner or a walk on the beach. That is what I would want. So her how much you care for her. Be very romantic. Dedicate a whole night to her. Do what ever she wants.
Ooh send her 3 dozen roses, that would do it for me... lol...
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im very confused i have a girlfriend and i like this guy (yes im bi) he is awsome im friends with him we have alot incommon n i dont know but people say he is gay so im hoping. well any way i dotn know if i should break up with my girldfriend n then c if he is gay or any thing at all or has any intrest in me.or c if he is gay n has any intrest in me n if he dose then break up with my gf. dont get me wrong i like my girlefriend and all but i like this kid more. if any one can give me realy good advice ill rate high. (link)
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Im gay so I can relate a bit. What I would do is tell my girlfriend that I would like to take a brake for now. Its not breaking up or anything so you will be fine. Then goto this guy friend of yours and just talk to him about it. I mean, the least he can do is turn you down right? If he says yes if/when you ask him out you can break it off with your girlfriend. If he says no, you still have your girlfriend.
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I used to see a guy from other country for no more than 2 weeks, i fell in love with him, but he didn't. How can i make him love me, i think he is Mr. Right for me. (link)
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March right up to him and tell him. He may reject you and he may not. You should be fine. Just remember if he does say no dont worrie about it because there are many other fish in the sea...
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Alright I'm 15 and I'm a male. My girlfriends birthday is comming up really soon & she won't tell me what she wants for her birthday. I have no idea what I should get her. She's going to be 14. If anyone can give me some ideas it'd be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you on it too. I really need some help. Thanks (link)
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Think back has she been dropping hints to you? Like when she looks in a magazine does she say ooh I like that. Or, you can always buy some kind of jewelry. Heck it would work for me! You could always buy a teddy bear with candy to go with it. Use your emagionation, you'll find the perfect gift for her.
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Me and my girlfriend have been seriously dating for almost 3 years. 8 years before I met her, she became friends with an exchange student from Belgium. She had a big crush on him, however nothing romantically happened. Last week he was in town and needed some 1 to go to Orlando Florida with him, my girlfriend and her brother agreed to go with him. At the end, her brother wasent able to go, so she ended going with this guy by herself. I trust my girlfriend 100 percent, however, the thought of her willingly going, while fully aware of my negative feelings towards this so called "friends" trip has been driving me crazy. Ive asked around and the answer I always get is " get rid of her". My question is, do I have the right to feel mad, disrespected and betrayed by my girlfriends actions, what should I do? (link)
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Yeah you have every right to be a little mad. But the real question is do you really trust her. Just look into your heart and figure out if you truly trust her. If you say she is as great as she may sound, you really dont have anything to worrie about. If something did happen eventually she will tell you. But you need to just have some faith in her. So try not to worrie about it.
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I don't mean to sound stuck up but people tell me all the time that I'm girl of every guys dreams and every girl wants to be. The thing is that it is kind of a bad thing sometimes. Because people won't give me a chance. They think because of my popularity status and my looks that I am mean and stuck up but I'm really not. I always try to speak to everyone. Whether you are popular, average, or not very social I still go out my way to speak. I do a lot of other things but I don't want to take up to much of you all's time.Anyways a lot of girls don't like me. And some of the guys don't even try to speak to me because they think they don't have a chance with me. I want to know how can I get people to understand that I'm a normal person like everyone else. (link)
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Just keep doing what you are doing. Not everybody is going to like you. I know that for a fact b/c I kind of tend to want people to like me-almost to a falt. So you are just doing fine. And bout' the boys that dont think they have a change. Why dont you just make the first move? The worst they can do is say no. right? As my Aunt Lolo always say, you really want something in life, you have to get it yourself.
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Sheesh...It's just been a romantic emotional roller coster for me! A guy I am completely smitten with unintentionally broke my heart by going after another girl...it didn't work out so well. It's been about 3 or 4 weeks since then. I think *Maybe* he likes me now? I dunno...Maybe he just see's me as a good friend...he is allways near me the most at get togethers, or in class, he allways sits next to me. I am perfectly aware that he may just be comfortable around me in a way that doesn't go any further than friendship...but I dunno...I went and saw a movie with him not too long ago...when we went to say goodbye, I hugged him, and he held onto me for longer than I expected...then he pulled back a little, but kept one of his arms wrapped all the way around my waist...he held me pretty close to his face and kinda looked into my eyes...heh...maybe I shoulda kissed him? I dunno. If he IS interested in me now for some reason, I'm afraid he may be confused or just not thinking straight because of his recent failed attempt at a relationship...Well, I should tell any readers now that I am going to make damn sure that if he asks me out, that he's really ready for it, and I'm going to make sure he isn't just trying to make this other girl jealous...(BTW, this girl he liked wasn't there with us when we went to the movies...)
So, tell me what you think...in the meantime, I'm just crossing my fingers...
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I know this is going to be semi hard to do because I know that it isnt the easiest thing in the world to do. Just sit him down when no ones is around and talk to him about it. Just come flat out and ask him about it. But make sure he is still comfie. So to speak. Just talk to him. Like my Aunt Lolo always says ambition w/o knowlage is like a boat on dry land.
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see i have this old boyfriend. we went out for 5 almost 6 months. but then he ended up moving. everyone in his new school loved him to death. now he's forgotten all about me but i still care alottttt about him. what do i do ?! (link)
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Well, one thing you can do is call him up and see if he wants to do something. Like goto a movie or go for ice-cream. Or surprize him. I mean if you think he is as great as you say. He will remember you and tottaly flip out. In a good way. But if for some reason he doesnt remember you hell at least fake it. So just call em' The worst thing he can do is hang up. So there is no biggy.
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I fell in love with my bestfriend (typical). but he used to and still says that he loves me more than he has ever loved a girl in his life. and the other day he told me that he had a girlfriend so obviously i was heart broken. SO appearently he "loves" me only as a friend. yea its confising i kno, geeze. So i just want some advice on how to get over him...like what should I do and places I could go to get him out of my mind, because i really dont want to ruin this friendship. It was just my fault on falling for him.oh yeah i just turned 17 and ima girl and hes 19. (link)
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The best way to forget about him is... well, there is none. I mean when I fell in love for the first time. I was like omgosh. Then he kind of broke my heart. That was crushing, it felt like I was being weighed down by something that I couldnt just get off. I still havent forgotten about him. You have to just let it runs its course. Eventually it will go away. But you will always have that speical place in your heart.
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My boyfriend is constantly trying to tease me. He'll show me his underwear, say kinky things to me, and try to get me in "the mood". It didnt bother me a whole lot, but I got the idea that he wanted a lot of this in return. So I started giving it to him. Only he responded by saying that I was no longer his innocent girlfriend, how I've changed, and how surprised he is at me. He seemed so dissapointed. This type of thing keeps happening. I'll show him what I think is a great picture of me and he'll somehow suggest that I have low selfesteem and I should realise how beautiful I am. I dont get it? Should he be the only one in our realtionship who acts this way? Did I go too far? I rate. (link)
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I dont think that you went to far. You dont need me to tell you what to do. But I will tell you this look inside your heart. Look deep and find out what is really in your heart because its like my Aunt Lolo is always saying a bird and a fish can fall in love, but where are they going to live. So do what is in your heart. Not what is in someone elses heart.
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what do guys 16-20 really look for in a girl? (please try to be specific as possible not just like good looks.. good personality)
please only answer this if you fall into that catogory! (link)
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Well, I think that they would look for some one who is funny. Someone who is not affraid to ask them out on there own. Truthfully, they are just as scared as you. They really arn't looking for anything that you dont look for.You just have to be yourself because that is the true beauty.
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