I am 15. my birthday is febraury 15 1995 Anyway i role play as a neko. Im a foxgirl and im clasterophobic.
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Theres a friend i havent seen since i was 7. we were real close. i found her on facebook recently and saw see was in a complicated relationship so i asked her to hang out and she said yes and the day before we hung out her status changed to single and said looking for a relationship. we went to the movies and got something to eat and it kind of felt more like a date. After she said we should do it again so valentines was a week away so asked her to breakfast and to be my valentine and she said yes. the day before breakfast she asked one of those question on facebook asking who would you spend your whole saturday with and she put my name then changed her status to complicated again
Breakfast went good and she explained that the guy she used to be with called her to much and his parents didnt like her so she dumped but is still going to go to prom with him. after breakfast we had a quick kiss, and i asked if she was happy and she said yes, her status still says complicated, i dont expect a relationship between us so soon but why is her status still complicated? (link)
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She probably still has a little feeligns for him but have feelings for you too and is wondering who she likes more and can't chose. I've been that way before it is harder if someone trieds to rush you so give her some time to think.
-Jay-
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okay so yea theres this guy im a sohpmore and i see him in the hallway all the time. i think hes is really cute. i know friends who i think know him but im not sure what to do? help please. (link)
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First become friends with him so you can get to now him better. Once your more comfortable around him than get him alone and ask him out. Dont take too long to get to know him because someone might take him good luck. ;)
Jay
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(please dont judge by the age judge by wat i tell you first than if you want than judge by the age than judge the age thx)ok anyway i have a boyfriend named jack. he is 14 turnin 15. im 14 btw. well my bf is never really on anymore or never really emails me he waits until i email him and when i ask him why he didnt email me or why he hasnt been on he either says he has been sick or its his parents fault not his (i dont now if this is true or not i just now his parents sometimes doesnt let him stay on as long but he could email me u now) well now i have this crush who is 17. he's name is lane. we use to be like best friends but now we have a crush on each other. lane nows i have a bf and doesnt want to rush me but he asked me why i didnt dump my bf if i liked him so much. i told him i didnt have a good enough reason. my bf says he loves me a whole lot but he never really acts like it i mean he says he loves me and stuff but he never acts interested in wat i am sayin if he does ive missed it. so you see i dont want jack no more i want lane but i dont have a good enough reason you think you have any good reason for me? a reason he will understand and wont be sad and maybe we can still b friends afterwards? thx
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I dont have any easons sry but i do think that it doesnt sound like he doesnt love u and is makin an excuse about somethin ok l8r
Jay
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i am 13 years old and i have a friend who has this prob with a guy she has liked for a really long time and has been best friend with him for 3 years now. my friend and the guy have never gone out...but the guy has a gf already....soo my friend wants to know if she should move on or stay with the guy she has liked for as long as she has known him. she asks me this question every nite please help! (link)
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tell her to tell him how she feels. IF he doesn't feel the same way tough forget him and to move on. He probably feels the same way and is shy. Or he just thinks of her as a friend. Tell her to take a risk and see if he and her will be togther or will she move on. It be a good thing to move on and stay away from him if he doesnt liek her. Avoid him so she wouldnt have to deal with it until she is clear out of the mind of him. But thats only if he doesnt like her.
Jay
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my boyfriend and i were together for about 1 year and then we broke up cuz his ex gf wasnt ready to leave him..we were ot of contact for about 6 months and then we started talking again and we got physical.this continued for about 2 years then i went out of country for a a few months and behind my back he made out with his gf again who he claimed to not have loved.i was heart broken cuz i thought he loved me for 3 years and everything felt a lie to me...anyway i stopped talking to him and then he started frequently calling,messaging,mailing telling me he has totally changed and will never hurt me again.he has changed a lot but i am pretty insecure..the thing is if he gets angry or depressed i cant work ,i cant do anything...itz like i am eddicted to him...please advice (link)
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Maybe you shoulf listen to what he has to say. Than if you don't think he is telling the truth just let him down easy. The way to tell if he is lying or not is to see if he sounds like he is depressed without you. Try and find signs of him lying. But if you feel he is gonan cheat on you don't go back with him try and avoid him. Ignore his calls and messages and mailing. When you feel safe enough you can stop avoiding him. Get some fresh air and get to now new people. don't think about him clear your mind. Get rid of any pictures you have of him and get rid of anything that could remind you of him. Hope this helps
Jay
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How do you know? I mean, I don't actually know if there is love or not really. I don't think I've ever felt that emotion. Is it like in the movies? Butterflies and all of that? Or is it something else? Can anybody describe it? (link)
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Hmm i'll try and explain it. It's when you always want to spend time with someone and you get either jealous or over protective over that certain person. Than When your not with them your always thinking of them. You can barely get your mind off them. Thinking what would it be like in the future for you two. Sometimes you even dream about that person (not everyone dreams about that person this is just like a bonus.) This is how my three friends, and I feel when we are in love. Hope i help.
♥Jay♥
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I'm a senior in high school and there's this i guy i liked and still like and talked to a lot last year. I pretty much didn't see him all summer. Today was the first day of school and I was scared he wasn't gonna be happy to see me but thank god he was and said hi to me and talked to me. I really, really wanna keep talking to him and i really want him to keep on flirting a lot with me but there are a couple of problems. One, we were both in the play together last year, which brought us together but i think he might not be doing it this year and i'm scared it just won't be the same as last year if he doesn't do it. We're in a few classes together but it's not the same. Also, the bigger issue is that he's pretty popular and hangs out with a completely different crowd than i do (he hangs out with pretty much all girls, though) so it's kind of out of the question for us to hang out. It's kind of also out of the question for us to go out for the same reason (i don't really care about that THAT much though, i kind of just wanna flirt/socialize with him A LOT like i did last year). Do you think i should still try to make an effort or just give up? Is there no point?And how can i keep socializing with him if he doesn't do the play? (link)
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♥You should tell him how you feel. It will make you feel better. And you never now he might feel the same way. I now i told my boyfriend how i felt and a week later we started going out so give it a try at least. You never now what could happen. Also you could talk to him during lunch hour or during pass time or any other free time you guys have. Try and get him alone. If your afraid of his crowd than try and ge his attention and finger him to come here.♥
Jay
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ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. he left for college almost 2 weeks ago and wont be home for another 2 because of the fact that his schools 3 hours away and he doesnt have a car. i miss him sooo much. he's always on my mind and i just want him back here so much. i know that nothings gonna changet the fact that he's gone and so i've been trying to just live my life and be fine but its so hard. we used to talk all the time and now we dont talk nearly as much as we did. i understand he's in college now but like. ok the past two nights i've called him to say goodnight like i always do and he's been like ok i'll call you back in a few minutes and then he never does.. i just dont know if i can do a relationship when we're this far apart. its to hard and like. i love him with my whole heart i really do. and before he left we told eachother that love would be enough to get us through anything.. but i just dont know if it is anymore.. i have no idea what to do. could someone please help me.. :( (link)
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DO what you think is right. Take a deep breath. Think of road A and road B. Down road A your with your boyfriend longer and yyou guys get to talk about things you havent talk about when you see him and when he is down with college. Down road B you have yourself and wondering if you did theright way. Free to date anyway you please. After a few months you get over him. But you dont get to see or hear how he has done in college. You dont now if he failed so you can covert him and if he succeed than you can congratale him but youll meet new poeple. Which one seems better to you? i would pick the one with my boyfriend.
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im 14 and female and i like my friend. hes a very depressed person (i am too but not as much as he is) who used to not be very nice to me. he was never really open and he never gave me high fives like everyone else. but now hes starting to be a little more open towards me and hes giving me high fives. this all happened very quickly. i dont know if he likes me the way i like him. it bothers me a lot. please give me advice. (link)
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If you like him that much get him alone. Than ask him not to be mad but you like him and wanted to now if he liked you and if so if he wanted to go out. If he says no say you hope it didnt ruin your friendship and can you guys plz still be friends.
Jay
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OK so i like this guy and he is one of my best friends.i have known him sence 1st grade. his dad and my dad work with eachother so i get to see him kinda a lot.
i dont think he likes me but then again you never know.I really want to ask him out but i dont want to ruin our friendship. should i just keep on being friends with him? being friends with him is really fun because he is really nice and all theese 7th graders like him. i really dont know if i should ask him out or keep being friends with him!!
please help!!
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If you really like him get him alone and tell him you like him and ask him does he like you and if so does he want to go out with you. If not ask him can you guys please can still be friends.
Jay
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Okay, so there is this one guy and he likes me and I like him back and I heard he was going to ask me out! I'm really excited about it, but i don't know if i want to say yes because I think he only wants to use me for his pleasure! What should I do? (link)
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You shouldn't do his pleasure if your not comfortable and not for sure if he likes you for you and wants you afterwards too. If he doesnt than dont waste your time on him. NO use trying to ask him you'll be wasting your time because he would say he wasnt either way. Ask some of his ex's. They'll now the answer. But only ask the ex's who dumped him not him dump her. If their all dump by them den you ask them why he dump them. BINGO
Jay
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I really liked this kid, a whole lot. We both liked each other, but no move was made to do take our relationship further than just "friends". So he moved on, and I'm still upset over what could have been. I know he doesn't care, because he likes someone else who likes them. Its extremely awkward because I see him every time I go to my friends house, and we both get that weird feeling of old-like. I'm positive he doesn't like me anymore though. So, I want to move on really bad. How do i get rid of him in my head? How did you move on from someone ? Every been in this situation? What did you do? Please, I find it hard to like anyone else now, Thanks everyone :(.
16/f
-Unrequited. (link)
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Maybe you should aviod him for a while. Get some fresh air. I'm not saying not be friends just aviod him for a while. Get to now new people. I have been in this situtation. After a month i got over him because i stayed away for awhile and met new people. After that month i started talking to him again. I didnt feel like i liked him at all anymore.
Jay
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well i have this crush at school he is in my hoomroom but, i dont know him and i am shy in front of him but pplz say he likes me back what should i do to hook up with him..............i need advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 (link)
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first be friends so you can get mroe comfortable around him. Than when your ready dont jsut blurt out you like him get him alone and tell him you like him. DO this before its too late
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I have a very loving live-in boyfriend of 1.5 years. I consider him my best friend. I'm all around thrilled with the way things are going and I can see making a life with him ... except for one thing. I recently confirmed some suspicions that, very early in our relationship, he was still involved with an ex-girlfriend.
Something never felt right about the way he talked about his ex. He was evasive and mumbled and was generally unresponsive. Things got worse when I noticed files of hundreds of photos of her on his computer (not hidden). I know that he has had problems with fidelity in the past, despite assurances that he would never be unfaithful to me. I still had no hard evidence, but, as time passed, I began to worry more and more that something was or had been going on with her. I brought it up in passing, mentioning that it's no big deal if he was with her for a few weeks when we first got together, but he adamently denies it.
Despite my 100% certainly that he is not currently cheating on me, I am obsessed with finding out if he is lying about those first few weeks/months. So I snooped through his email last weekend (I know, I know). I just couldn't get these questions out of my head.
And here's what I found: extremely flirty/outright sexual emails between my boyfriend and his ex, dating to about two months into our relationship. They discuss having seen each other, and what sexual things they would like to do to each other (although never outright confirming that they were done). I am not concerned that this has any impact on our current relationship. But I am heartbroken that lied to me about it and I am worried that this incidates a lack of morals on his part. Can I trust him now? Has he fundamentally changed since falling in love with me, or do his lies mean that he might cheat again?
So my questions are as follows: is it worth admitting that I snooped (several times) to air these concerns? Is it worth risking our wonderful current relationship, just to make him admit some past truth? Is the old adage true: once a cheater, always a cheater?
Please help! Thanks.
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I be pissed if that was my boyfriend. But i have a little fun with it. I print out the evidence. Talk to him slowly about it. Than he denies it the third time i be like in a (calm voice) oh yeah than what's this and threw the edvince down in front of him in a folder and tell him look threw it. Than i walk off steaming mad to let him sour in his lies.
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So my cousin is devastated because her fiance broke up with her after almost 4 years together...
I know that I can't really help her the way she wants me too and I know she will get through this but I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of things she can do that will help her feel better even for a moment? Like when I was heart broken I started coming on here and giving advice because it took my mind off of my problems (I already sugested it...she shot it down) I also liked to read quotes and listen to songs that described how I was feeling (I don't know why but it made me feel better)
tell me stories about what you did to make yourself happy when you were heartbroken so I can get some ideas to help her.
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Get her out the house. If she is not ready to meet new people than just take her to the movies or take her for a walk even. Get her mind off it. Give her love and attention. Watch something or do something that doesnt have nothing to do with him. And if he calls dont let her answer it. If he ask is she there say she doesnt want to talk to him and dont let them be friends or she will never get over it.
Jay
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hey, so my best friend is also an ex boyfriend. we dated for 5 months about 2 1/2 years ago, and we've been best friends since then. we really ar BEST rfiends, like practically family. we go on vacation together and everything. my boyfriend, who used to be my best friend unti lwe started dating, knows that i dated this guy and he gets really mad when i hang out with him. and i hang out with him a LOT, but i have no feelings fo rhim. i only have feelings for my boyfriend. but anyway, my boyfriend has a best friend whos a girl. they were together for a little while and they had sex, and she fell in love with him. he wasnt in love with her but he liked her a lot. shes still in love with him and he knows that. but they still text 24/7 and talk on the phone sometimes and theyre really close. when me and him fight he always goes to her and tells her everything and i feel like he flirts with her soemtimes but idk. i get really jealus when theyre talking or hanging out or something. so idk, is it like the same thing me and my best friend and him and his best friend? (link)
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I think he is just trying to show you how he feels when you go hanging out with your best friend a.k.a ex-boyfriend.
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i reeally like this guy and im 95 % sure he likes me back because he keeps showing me. the thing is that im really shy and cant seem to give him the signs that i like him back :/ and sometimes i do really dumb things, like today i just left without saying goodbye, and when i realized i turned around to him and he looked at me really sad and turned away. the thing is that hes always soo sweet to me and talks to me whenever he can, and im always weird because im so nervous because i like this guy more then i liked anyone before, i just cant seem to show it, i think im afraid?
what should i do? (link)
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MAybe you should be friends first. Than when you feel relaxed around him than try and get to speak to him alone. When you do tell him you like him. Tell him how you feel. See if he feels the same way.
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female/ 16/ senior
So, since the start of July I started to "talk" to this guy. He's 18,and a freshman in college this september. He made it clear that he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship because he wasn't sure if he was going to meet someone in college. The college is literally 5 minutes away from my house. Anyways, we would text eachother every single day. I liked him alot and I was sooo sure he did too,just that gut instinct. He told me he liked me but he didn't know how much. So all of a sudden, last week; he just stops texting me. Then, when he finally decides to text me, he stops responding to me after 2 texts. So, 2 days ago I decided I don't have time to deal with immature guys. I told him, we should stop talking and he said he didn't want us to stop talking. well it sure seems like he wanted us to. he told me to wait 3 weeks and he would decide what he wants. wtf. no.
What do you think about all of this? Do you think he's playing a game? Or he really doesn't know what he's doing wrong?
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You should not wait that long if you don't think he is worth waiting for. You should tell him he got's a day, or how ever more long you want to wait, to make up his mind or your done.
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Would it be wierd for a fourteen year old girl to date a sixteen year old boy. Its only a grade apart, (so like freshman/sophomore)but its still like a two year diference, what do you guys think? (link)
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I think its fine if you want to date a sixteen year old. If you both like each other than what the heck. No harm no do.
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So I am a girl and I am in my first relationship with a girl. We have been dating for about 3 months. Well none of my family knows and I feel im not being true to my girlfriend because they dont know. Like when I stay at her house I tell my mom im somewhere else. I am scared to see there reactions but I am in love with the girl. They say its hard comming out but how can I deal with this? She wants us to get our own place too. (link)
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If you feel its right tell them. They will be shocked the first time but they will come around. If they love you they will love you no matter what and for what you are not what they want you to be.
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