Hey! I'm Melaur-F 16 5'7 111 pounds! I've been through some tough times in my life and I have heard that I give really good advice. I LOVE helping people out no matter what age.. oh, and I can be kinda bitchy sometimes about stupid people that write LyKe DiS.. I'm not saying I always use correct grammer but COME ON lets atleast speak the same language people! I love to help on long complicated problems... they make me think! I'm an EXTREMLY deep thinker as well, sometimes I get so bad I have to see a doctor about being crazy.. which I'm not, I promise :o) Well anywhoooo... ask me absolutly anything, I promise I'll answer as long as I can read it! Take care!!!
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my boyfriend is the type that flirts with girls and when I first started going out with him I was hoping he would stop doing that because he has a girlfriend. But since then..my friend saw him feeding food TO HIS EX GIRLFRIEND!! wow that made me really mad..and I let him know!! but we worked it out and he said that he would never do anything like that agian. But, just a few days ago one of my friends saw anouther girl sitting on his lap!! So I talked to him about it and he said that she was only sitting on his knee and that they wern't even talking. Things keep happening like that and I don't know what I should do about it..or tell him. If you were in this situation what would you do/ tell him? Thanks soo much!! (link)
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I would break up with him, he's going to keek doing this to you! people never change. No matter how hard they try, peoples personalities are stuck, there's no way to change it. I'm sorry! Guys suck!
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i've liked the same guy on/off since like the 5th grade...lets jus say im wayyyyyyy past the 5th grade(im a sohpmore in HS.) (we never dated)Anyway he recently moved and has been dating like a bunch of other girls and i have been thinking i need to move on...so i guess my question is how? like what is going to make this depressed feeling go away. lately i've just felt really numb how can i feel good again? i know it sounds pathetic but i always believed that like i'd always have him. (link)
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Hate to say this but there is really no way to get over somebody. The only think that heals pain is time. Feeling numb can be a good thing and a bad thing,it's good because you KNOW that this is how its always gunna be, it's bad because it means you've stuck around too long. Talk to new guys, make out with strangers, party hard, (don't do anything stupid), get your mind off him, he's gone, Also, if you have his number or screen name, DELETE it NOW. get him OUT of your life, your mind, and your phone. good luck!
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So i graduated from High School last year. And i'm in my first long term relationship. I mean of course i've said i love you and we've had sexual moments together, but i also had that with the last two...the problem is i feel different i feel like i want to give him my whole heart and let go of trying not to give him to much. I want to make things work and show him just how much i care. But in the last two relationships i got cheated on for about 4 to 6 months of our relationships so im scared...is this normal? I have been with him for 6 months! (link)
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that is COMPLETELY normal. no matter what other people say, that is normal. You are paranoid because somebody has hurt you before. I understand completely, and its hard to get past that and trust people, especially people that your giving everything to, because they can either make or break you. You are allowed to be scared, but test him. Have friends he hasnt met hit on him. Nobody said that was wrong O;o) good luck
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have a big problem...i'm 15 and i'm goin to be 16 soon, i have never had a boyfriend or kissed a boy...is something wrong with me? what should i do?
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absolutly NOTHING is wrong with you. I respect you for that! it seems like your waiting for a GOOD guy to come around.. because you know ANY girl could get a guy... boys will take anything that has boobs and a pussy :o) make sure your first time is with somebody special... i promise it is worth it!
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there is this guy in my class, that i'm not too sure if he likes me...but he complimented a flower in my hair and said it looked pretty, and sometimes when i turn around i see him lookin at me. does he like me? or am i just over reactin? (link)
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aw. boys are too confusing to tell, talk to him and if he starts starting conversations with you and paying lots of attention to you, he does!
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When my husband and I were first married, he promised me that if we ever had children, he would get out of the army. Two children later, he still hasn't gotten out.
The army has ended up being his life. He loves his job and has informed me that he is never getting out. He feels like his country needs him. I think this is very selfish of him to break his promise to me. The children barely know who their own father is. I feel like a single mother.
While he was in Iraq the second time, I wrote him a letter telling him I couldn't take it anymore and I was filing for divorce. I told him when he got back that I did not mean what I had said and that I was just going through a hard time with the pregnancy. Now three months after the birth of our second child, he is going back to Iraq.
I really do not want to leave this man. I love him dearly; he is my husband and the father of my children. My parents went through a divorce when I was a little girl, so I know how traumatic it is for a child.
It's hard for me to fight with him over this. The precious time he is here, I do not want to fight with him and bring up this issue. I want us to be happy with our time together and act like a family when he is here. I do not want him leaving to go to Iraq thinking that his wife might leave him. But sometimes, I feel like this relationship is just too difficult to take anymore.
What should I do? How do I cope with this? (link)
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That's an extreamly tough situation, and I cannot say I relate to it, but I can try my harders to help out. I don't think you should leave him, if you truly love him with all your heart, then you would be even more unhappy without him even being alittle bit in your life. Also, it might be hard on your kids to never have their father around but it's tough to not have your parents together, and you would understand that. Your husband is probably young if you guys are just having kids, he might realize how much of their lives hes missing and end up leaving the army. I mean, how many times do you get to see your OWN kids grow up? ONCE. He should eventaully realize that. I hope you make the right choice and I hope your life turns out great because of it.. take care of yourself
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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother she has been acting wierd around us when i am over there adn she doesnt hang out with us as much and she has a bunch of guys that r just friends that r over there all teh time too adn i feel weird like i suddenly become all protective like her bro! please help (link)
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Before you do anything, make sure that she likes you back. Talk to her about it when your friend leaves or something, but make it casual so she doesn't start acting weirder around you. If you find out that she likes you back then talk to your friend about it, tell him you really like her and she feels the same way, tell him that you could have asked her out without consulting him, but you don't want to ruin anything between you and him. Also, make him realize that you are ALOT better of a choice then any guy that shes hanging out with now... because he KNOWS you and he KNOWS that you would treat a girl right. If he says no, have his sister talk to him about it.. girls are good at getting things out of their big brothers O:o) and if for some odd reason none of those things work, you have 2 choices.. you could stay loyal to your best friend and give up on her, or you could always sneak behind his back :o) good luck with everything!!!
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I am MADLY in love with this guy that could, well, basically care less about me. I told him i liked him and we have talked since then but he hasnt taken any moves forward. He is EVERYTHING i am NOT...he cusses ALL the TIME, is loud, rude and is a BIT too physical...(he plays football so i give him a bit of a break)...but when we are together in front of my friends or his friends he puts his arm around me and talks like nothin is wrong...I REALLY like this guy....I would DO almost ANYTHING for him....what im wonderin is..Is he worth it......or should I move on? Ive cried myslef to sleep over this guy...so he means a lot to me....I RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ADVICE!!
~*~maddie~*~ (link)
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blah.. I know exactly how you feel, I would say hes not worth it but YOU know and I know that in your heart he is. Continue on with life and see how things go, if he still acts the same way.. DITCH his ass. Guys like that are NO good, he will use you and hurt you. If that is the case, try your hardest to find somebody new.. good luck :o)
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i really like this guy ...and its not like he doesnt know i excist we talk alot but he doesnt think of me in "that" way at all ...he goes for a different type that just is not me ..i dont know if i should change for him or let it go because i am just wasting my time. And hes kinda a bad boy so im not so sure he could hold a girlfriend even if i got the chance ...what do you think .. help me out please ?
ill rate high for helpful answers (link)
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WOW.. that SOOOO sounds like me like 2 years ago.. sweetie, i changed for that guy and we went out for acouple of monthes and I ended up loosing my virginity to him... he broke up with me the next day... bad boys are NOOO GOOD they LIE LIE LIE until they get what they want, that boy still calls me looking for sex.. if you want a true boyfriend and somebody who actually cares about you I advise you look for a more tame guy. Somebody that your friends with but still find attractive, don't let yourself get hurt!
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I asked this girl out and she tells her friends to tell me that she likes me but she doesnt know if she wants to go out with me. Whats the difference? Also, she said her parents won't let her too. I'm not sure what the real thing is or not. What should I do?
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forget her... yall are probably young and youll forget about it in like 2 days... move on it wouldnt be worth it anyway
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heyy everybody!! i need help.. not mentally. well maybe.. hehe.. but thats not the point..
my problem is that this guy says he likes my bff but i like him like soooo much..like i feel so ditsy aroundhim..like i want him.. like i want his body.. hehe..but my bff likes him too.. what should i do.. should i do himm.. tell her.. tell him.. im soo confused.. help!!.. i rate high!! (link)
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there is noooo way your 33, but anyways about your problem. forget about him, he likes your best friend and she likes him. dont "do" him, that will only cause friction between all of yall. good luck getting over him
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Hey everyone, I was just wondering, I've never really just 'hooked-up' with a guy, meaning the only relationships I've been in, they had something serious part of it. I've never done friends with benefits. I was wondering what are your views on fwb and 'hook-ing/up' like what are the outcomes? benefits? feelings for one another? thanks in advance, i rate well. :--) (link)
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horrrible. dont do it, one person ALWAYS gets attached and if its you then it really sucks. serious relations are by far sooo much better and it ends up alot better, also if you dont know the person that well it could end up alot worse.. stay with somebody that you like and your sure likes you back!
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ok theres this boy i really like and i have a feeling he likes me to but he also seems as shy as me even though he seems to hide it bettr than me. But to the point. Ok i really like him and i want to say something to him even if its just "hi" but the thing is when i do see him my mom and my friends mom is there and they always watch us so its really embaressing and then i ignore him when i dont want to!! plz help!!!
P.S. i see him ocasionally but im homeskooled so it's sorta a different story... (link)
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walk where your mom cant see your face and then just smile at him! and keep doing that everytime you see him and eventually if you guys see eachother without your mom there then hell come up and talk to you good luuuuck!
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This boy we call Pogo thinks I like him but I dont at least not anymore. At first he was all I thought about but now since I got a really good look at him he is ugly. I mean he has yellow teeth and he cant walk straight he smells funny and look so gay.I dont even want to be his friend anymore because he is so annoying. So what should I do? (link)
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shallow...
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ohkay.. a few days ago i asked a question about how would a guy like a girl to make the first move as far as making out. i didnt get the kind of answer i was looking for. can anyone give me a detailed answer on a good SPECIFIC way to make a first move as far as making out? (link)
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if your at a movie, look over at him acouple of times and if you see him look back at you then deffently go for it! then after that scoot closer to him and put your hand either in his or up near his leg. then turn towards him and kiss him, if he kisses you back then start makeing out! hehe good luck and have fun!
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i like this boy for a while but he never knew. today i walked into my class and he strait out tells me he found something out..so i asked what and hes like "you like me.." and i kinda got all nervous and wwent to the bathroom and when i come back hes like teasing me..like saying "oh. why wont you turn around..?" and cutsy stuff like that.. by him being so forword does that mean he might like me? or am i just crazy and having wishful thinking? (link)
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by what i read, he sounds like a jerk & doesnt like you. tomarrow or next time you see him just be like "hey fuck face i changed my mind!" and smile really big :oD hehehe
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I like this guy and he likes me.. Well we have ALOT in common and I admit im pretty popular.. so anyway, He's not the hottest/most popular person ever. I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.. but what do I do?? Do I go out with him of save my reputation? (link)
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hm.. reread what you wrote. "I like him and I swear im not conceited!! But its like I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep.. I dont really care but my friends are like "OMG HES SO HOT!! I LIKE HIM NOW." Im not like that.. I go for personality.."
1. I like him
2. I swear im not conceited!!
3.I feel like if I go out with him then I will ruin my rep..
4.I dont really care but my friends
5.Im not like that.. I go for personality.."
GO FOR HIM! if you like him and your not conceited like you say your not then whats the question- you SAID your not like you friends, they must know this by now if you guys are friends so why should they care? and you dont care so theres really nothing to worry about! :o)
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im an 8th grade guy and i wanted to know if there is a good way to get 8th grade girls to like me (link)
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Be sweet.NEVER make fun of people no matter how weird they are. make them feel special, act like you were looking for them just to say hi, give them hugs, tell them corny jokes. smile at them in the hall, tap them on the back and pretend it wasn't you, help them if they look confused,just be nice! girls LOVE when guys are really sweet and cute:o)
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My boyfriend and I have been going out around 3 1/2 months. I really love him so much. I want to kiss but the only time we ever see each other is at school. The rare times when we are actually alone we don't take advantage of it. we can't seem to talk romantic or get in the mood. Sometimes I really want to kiss him but it would be so awkward since we weren't even being romantic. He wouldn't expect it so he'd probably pull away or sumthing. I'm too scared to talk to him about it. Please help me! (link)
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dont talk about it. Just go right up to him and kiss him. he wont pull away, if he really likes you then i doubt that hed pull away. and i bet hed really like it! guys like girls that make the first move :O)
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i went out with this really amazing girl.but then her n her best friend got into a fight,so her best friend told me that my girlfriend likes my best friend n my best friend like her,which wasnt true,but when i talked bout it 2 him he promised he wud never do sumthin like that 2 me.n then 2 months later my girlfriend says she wants 2 break up cuz she feels vulnerable.n then my asshole best friend moves in on her n now theyre goin out n r deeply in love.sum girl liked me when i was goin out with my girlfrnd but she kept her distant n didnt make a move.my best frnd was just being a bastard n seduced her n stabbed me in the bak.its been 1.5 months since we broke up but i still miss her more then nething.she was my first love n its just so hard 2 move on (link)
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DAMN! that sucks im so sorry! your friend is deffently a bastard. If i was in your situation, I wouldnt let it get to me. be stronger then their "love" you know that its not going to last so if their around holding hands or if they kiss then just make it clear to them BOTH that your completely fine with it, eventhough you arnt. Yest it is lieing but both of then will be disappointed that your not upset with them being together. EVERY SINGLE PERSON on this earth wants people to miss them and to be jelous, so yes they will be upset that your over it. hope things get better.
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