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i've liked the same guy on/off since like the 5th grade...lets jus say im wayyyyyyy past the 5th grade(im a sohpmore in HS.) (we never dated)Anyway he recently moved and has been dating like a bunch of other girls and i have been thinking i need to move on...so i guess my question is how? like what is going to make this depressed feeling go away. lately i've just felt really numb how can i feel good again? i know it sounds pathetic but i always believed that like i'd always have him.
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i know how you feel.. ive known this guy forever.. and were best friends to this day.. and i have so many strong feelings for him.. but he loves the girls.. and it makes me feel like crap everyday excpecially when i talk to him.. and recently hes with this girl that he truely cares for.. and he knows im here for him and i always will.. and waht im saying is that you need to take a day off from thinking abou thim.. dont forget about him.. just try to move on.. or hang out with people a lot.. and try to find a guy to hook up with.. n writing helps a lot.. its a way to get those feelings out that you have for him.. that way your just clean of them but you know there still there.. but dont be afraid to like talk to him and call him up for a hey some time.. yall are still friends..
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comment to wat you wrote to me: does he think youve moved on? bc if he thinks taht then i think taht you should.. you shouldnt feel self conscience on what you write.. bc when your writing you know that its all about you.. no one else.. and i thinkt ath you shouldt have to worry about what he thinks when you write.. i think you should loosen up.. try to find comfort in things you love.. and hang out with other ppl.. take it a day at a time on not thinking about him as much..
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ummm ... your older you goo out and stuff try finding some other guy too like and you will for get about him and you'll move on !!
hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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wow.. this is similar to me. I mean like my bf dumped me and ive had this feeling of like depression for so long! I know its over and if a girl likes him i get mad! i dont know its stupid. I have been listening to depressing music and everything. The only thing that helps me is to think of all the bad qualities of him.. the reasons of why i shouldnt like him.. eventually i got out of the slump and moved on.. it took some time.. i changed my music to fast and upbeat and i made more plans with my friends. Soon enough, i didnt have any time to think about him. I hope this helps you!
<3 blonde911
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Not bothered by the rating - I'm here to help..if I can!
I know how hard it is to get over someone that you like and believed loved (perhaps you did?) when they're right there. Want to know the answer? Time. It takes time which is really tough. I know it's probably not what you want to hear but there are more important things for you to do in the world rather than mope about someone that doesn't seem interested anyway. Why go through more heart ache and get your heart broken more when you can be the strong one and turn over a new leaf?
Best of luck, chin up and face the music!
x Steph x
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Hate to say this but there is really no way to get over somebody. The only think that heals pain is time. Feeling numb can be a good thing and a bad thing,it's good because you KNOW that this is how its always gunna be, it's bad because it means you've stuck around too long. Talk to new guys, make out with strangers, party hard, (don't do anything stupid), get your mind off him, he's gone, Also, if you have his number or screen name, DELETE it NOW. get him OUT of your life, your mind, and your phone. good luck!
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