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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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I am soo sorry I know this is a late response and I'm sure you have already reacted but yes. Honesty is needed in a relationship along with trust...without these two things it isn't a relationship.
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Hi, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 years. I love him soo much I just find that we do not do much together. We don't have much money to spend but sometimes go out to watch a movie. I want to know what are things we can do later at night that don't cost much. I work during the day on week days and he works evenings weekends so when we see each other we end up watching tv or doing seperate things and than going to sleep. I want to have fun with him like we used to and go out. What can we do? during winter we go tabogganing and skating but hat else can we do... and what can we do during the summer? Any ideas???? (link)
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Maybe you can go bowling or when there's a fair go to that. During the summer you might like swimming. Sorry that's all I have I don't have a b.f. at the moment but it might work.
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So, I'm 17 years old and my girlfriend is 19. We've been dating for 6 months and she's in college in a different state. We've started this thing where I ask her one question every night until she comes home in two months.
I've asked alot of really good questions but I'm running out of ideas!
So if anyone has any ideas, that'd be great :)
thankyou!
ps, we're both girls. if that helps at all. (link)
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Have you ever thought of switching to guys? I don't knowt helps yoat but its a topic that can have u going at it all through the phone call.
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My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. I am so overwhelmed with the whole engaged issue. I feel almost like everyone is getting engaged around me, and they have only been with these guys for a month, should I push the engagement issue on him or just sit back and watch these 1 year or even 6 month relationships evolve faster then mine is! (link)
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I believe you should not rush the engagement issue. The short relationships that are for like 6 months or so usually don't go so well once they are married although there are some that do. Maybe your boyfriend isn't ready yet or maybe he doesn't believe he has a good enough pay to support the wedding or possibly if you decide to have a family it might become a financial problem. If his pay is good then maybe he just needs a little more time.
-Good luck
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ok is till like this guy and i donkt know if he likes me but i dont want to go ask him wat 2 do?
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Possibly get a friend to ask what he thinks of you or flirt with the eyes or go to www.wikihow.com it gives great advice from professionals talk to him in a friendly manner anyway thats not to noticeable good luck he'll notice you eventually don't act desperate around him.
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Hi,
So I like this guy. While I know that it is impossible to make someone like you, what are some tips to flirt and such?
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Catch his eyes and smile or if you see someone you know that you talk normally to talking to him say did you get that math question or if the guys in your class one of them ask what was homework i forgot to write it down(make sure if you did write it down pull out a blank sheet of pare and do it) or go to wikihow.com and it has answers from pro's.
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My guy friend kept joking around with me, saying "So when are we gonna make out?" Then actually lip-kissed me!
I always thought he was only joking. That guy has a gf he's not serious about. They've only kissed a bit so far and danced, and have been together for like 2 months. He was completely honest with me when he said things like "Dance with me then" and "I love you cuz you're crazy awesome" and "i like your smile too, when you actually do smile". he always smiled at me alot, stared whenever i talked and never looked away, he hugged me every time we parted for class at school, put his head on my head when i put it on his shoulder, complimented sometimes, etc. I want to go out with him for a while, and i wanted to call him to explain things about this one event that caused me breaking up with my bf (but im giving him time to cool off, i don't really regret it, he was too into me), but im scared, so im giving him a note just before winter break. he's a senior, 17, and im a sophomore, 15. my ex bf is 18, but held back as a senior. What should i do? Im not going to let go of both of them. (link)
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You should tell him at school around the opn(people) about how you feel and what it has caused you to sacrifice tell him I like you as a friend only that for right now you have a girlfrind I HAD a boyfriend.
And for you(meaning he person who wrote this) should tell your ex the truth before its to LATE. good luck
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Ok, so, after alot of things that have happened to me in my past with guys, and, just my horrible trust issues, it's hard for me to see my boyfriend talk to other girls without thinking bad things. Is this normal? Like, he moved, and that day, this one girl was like, sorry I didn't call you! Right in front of me, and after school, she was hugging him and was like, you'd better call me, and I'm so sorry you're moving, and I'm gonna miss you soooooooo much! That really bothered me for some reason. Should it? I know I'm paranoid, but, I don't know what to do. I think it's my paranoia and my trust issues that's really bothering me. After everything that's happened to me, it's impossible for me not to be paranoid. What do I do?
Thanks :]
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Well it should bother you. if the girl isn't a friend he's known forever and she doesn't seem interested in him then don't worry if not then you should be. Ask him whats going or tell the girl is there something I should know? good luck.
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do you think it is okay for a freshmen and a senior to go out if theres only a 2 year age difference? (link)
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Yes I think it is okay. If they are really in to each other and there is no problem then yeah(between the two daters). Otherwise then they need to talk to eachother about becoming closer or to split.They shouldn't care about what people think.
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Before thinking, I told the guy I like that he was in for a suprise when I see him tommorrow at school. I like him, he likes me, but feels he would be a bad boyfriend. We are pretty close. What are some cute or romantic or thoughtful suprises that I could do, I mean to show I was thinking about him? (link)
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You could write hearts like a kid on your arm or a heart and show him smile and blush while doing it. Good luck sorry I didn't see it yesterday even though you probly meant for the surprise today.
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Recently, I found out that my boyfriend of 6 months is getting kinda bored with what we do. The farthest we've gone is making out and that's the farthest we will go. And then all he talks about with his friends is how he almost spent the night with some hot chick. I don't want to break up, but it upsets me that I'm getting old or something. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. We do kinda make out a lot when we see each other, but what else are we supposed to do? (link)
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At least finger eachother
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Okay, so there is this guy. We'll call him Jim. Well me && Jim Have been off & on since last year. We were recently broken up for like 6 months. So we started to see other people. We didnt really talk ... so i started to like this kid "ben" and he likes me... but After jim broke up the girl he was seeing he told me that he missed me so much and how beautiful i looked now and that he wanted me back... i mean i still like him ALOTT but i dont know if i should or not . Becuase ben is just as sweet and cute. (link)
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I say no to dump a really good guy for someone dumb enough to leave you in the first way I may sound mean but girl the truth hurts.
-Meghan(Meggyboo)
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hey. so i like this guy, guy 1, and i got his "friend" / "acquantance" 's screen name & now i talk to him. well like, his friend sorta has a lot of friends, and so i'm really worried about like telling him stuff. but i just want to get my crush's sn if he has one. should i just...
1.) suck it up & deal with it. just flat out ask him cause for all i know, he could just not have my crush's sn and not even question whether i like guy 1.
2.) get to know guy 2 (guyfriend) better & see if i can actually trust him before telling him about guy 1 in case guy 2 finds out i like guy 1.
3.) other
4.) suck it up & deal with it. if guy 2 finds out i like guy 1, big deal. PLEASE BACK UP YOUR ANSWER!
i'm phobic of popular guys, but my crush isn't as popular as my crush's "friend." (link)
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do other tell him your feelings hey I know it's not easy but give him clues flirt.
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Hi I'm a female and i'm 15 turning 16. I'm sorry in advance this may be long....what happened was I cheated on my boyfriend.when it was happening i was in the moment (i had the issues of boredom, wanting attention, spite, anger,lonely...). i didn't consider it cheating but after the fact, figured out it was...it was OVERLY flirtly like if you woulda saw me you woulda thought i went with the person. and touchy feely. there are two parts to this and i did my bf dirty...i know. First and for most it was recently (last saturday) and during last summer. it was with my ex and my bf's cousin (in-law not blood i know it's all bad). They came on to me, and i feel for temptation (and last saturday if he woulda just came around it wouldn't have happened anyway, but i still do take the blame) But during last summer my bf (now my ex) was sent away to glen mills, for over a year (he just came home last thursday.) Well i decided to ask him a what if question...but when he asked me what i did i said stuff and wouldn't explain. well he got mad and banged on me telling me get at him when i matured...well my brothers called him yesterday (that made everything WORST) and i found out we seriously don't go together. so i know how it feels to be cheated on (even though from what i know of except something he never cheated on me- pretty faithful) but i tried calling him today when i knew he was in and he banged on me and told me it wasn't no talk about it. well i feel as if there's nothin i can do, and i love and i'm sincerly sorry, i swear i am, i believe in second chances and think i should have one. but he won't talk to me and i've been crying for 3 days now and feel terrible...i've already been told not to worry, it's not the end of the world, to wait....but i have a right to worry it is the end of THAT part of my world and waiting hurts.he said he loved and i believe he did and still might...but he's not willing to listen. and i believe if a person really loves someone they'll try. but i hurt him i know. i need advice obviously. i need help noone around me seems to be able to help. so i'm turning to you males/females....please don't judge me and i know it was wrong just try your best to help me. and i'll be sure to let you know how your advice works out. THANK YOU for taking time to read this!!!! (link)
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Well I wont judge you because I can't it's not my place to and you should tell him I no what I did was wrong and if you really do still care for me you should give me a second chance it's your life I can't make you say yes or no all I can do is try and hope you understand this is for real not fake I care for you and I hope we can forget it and start over.
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What do boys like in a girl
( well most boys?)
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Well I am no boy but I know from past relationships and my friends most boys like a girl thats developed either all way or enough that you can see(meaning breast,butt,barely lips)ext.but good guys like grls for girls.
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alright im going to sum up my night and my gf's night, tell me if i did the right thing.
my night:
got stoned with 3 guy friends of mine, had a complete and utter blast, made cupcakes, brownies, played games, watched movies. harmless fun.
my gf's night:
got completely shitfaced with some 3 of her girlfriends, 1 of my other guy friends, and another guy who i dont like. they went skinny dipping, she claims to have covered up and stayed at the opposite end of the pool as the other girls.
how it went down, she called me today told me about her night after i told her about mine, she threw in skinny dipping as if it were no big deal, i then proceeded to tell her that if she did that, then she wouldnt mind if i went skinny dipping with a bunch of girls while she wasn't there. she then said oh but it was only two guys, i then told her that i still dont like the one guy (he grabs her and touches her and is a complete ass to me, so we're in a conflict right now) and that she went skinny dipping with him while they were completely shitfaced, she then tried to blame the alcohol, i asked her who consumed it, and she said that she did (duh), and i asked her whose fault it was.
i hung up and told her i'd talk to her later, due to the fact i dont know what to say.
help me out with what to say when i call her back.
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Tell her I am sorry I am not trying to invade you I just don't like anyone flirting with you I am not the jealous type I just really care about you will you forgive me and I will forgive you.If
she gets mad tell her I don't mean it to be rude or to put you down I mean it to be serious and caring .
But the answer to your question is it is ok to be pissed off sometimes just try not to bring it out on every single person you come in contact with.So try controlling that anger.
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is it just me or nebody else where whenever i love someone, they end up breaking me heart. everytime... (link)
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Have you ever tgought it was you that was pushing them away?But if not them I am sure they don't know what they are missing if there ever seems to be any screws in your board then ask them is everything alright between us so you can help it before It gets bad.Feel free to talk to them if there open(they should be your dating them)for conversation.
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Hey guys, my boyfriend is coming to visit me from Canada this summer and I wanted to know what waxing kits worked best for you (of course, for my you know what :P) Something that won't irritate the skin too much and leave razor burn bumps. Any help is appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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Go to a waxing place or if you wanna do it your self you use sticky stuff and rip it of it looks better but it hurts no razor bumps.
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my best freind haley is going out with a great guy named steeve but shes so weird with him she will be in love withhim then she will break up with him or cheat on him and liek idk i feel really bad bc i tlka to steve al the time adn he used to love her like relally love her but the worse their relaionship gets the less he caresadn that scares me bc my best freind is starting to give up her player ways for him.. for example he always used to call her and tlak to her every night as long as he could now he avoids her cals and alwaysd calls me .. also when hes on the phone with me he only tlaks shit about her to me .. thne when they are with eachother if she isnt hoooking up with him enough then he will just leve and be pissed at her .. and im always the one stuck in the middle
ANY ADVICE? (link)
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Be straight up don't let them put you in the middle.Say I don't want to be in the middle you all are both my friends so you to need to reason it out your self I am here for you I just don't want to mess up our friendship.
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i dated this one guy for about a month in a half. and we didn't really get to see each other that much...and it was pretty much my fault because i was either busy doing something my mom was making me do, or hanging out with friends. he told me that it would be better if we were just friends. but he won't even talk to me...and he told my friend that i pretty much ruined my chances with him, but that it could change. this guy means a lot to me and i like him sooo much. but what if i do have a chance with him again? should i wait, or move on? (link)
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Well if there is something you can do about it than try searching for the answer and make it up to him saying I will do better next time if there isn't anything then don't stress move on with your life you never no you may be to good for him anyway.So the answer if you do don't waist your time follow your heart if there really is something you can do then he should have excepted you by now but don't let him bring you down.
Sincerely,
Meggyboo
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