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I cheated...but plz don't judge me, try to understand
Hi I'm a female and i'm 15 turning 16. I'm sorry in advance this may be long....what happened was I cheated on my boyfriend.when it was happening i was in the moment (i had the issues of boredom, wanting attention, spite, anger,lonely...). i didn't consider it cheating but after the fact, figured out it was...it was OVERLY flirtly like if you woulda saw me you woulda thought i went with the person. and touchy feely. there are two parts to this and i did my bf dirty...i know. First and for most it was recently (last saturday) and during last summer. it was with my ex and my bf's cousin (in-law not blood i know it's all bad). They came on to me, and i feel for temptation (and last saturday if he woulda just came around it wouldn't have happened anyway, but i still do take the blame) But during last summer my bf (now my ex) was sent away to glen mills, for over a year (he just came home last thursday.) Well i decided to ask him a what if question...but when he asked me what i did i said stuff and wouldn't explain. well he got mad and banged on me telling me get at him when i matured...well my brothers called him yesterday (that made everything WORST) and i found out we seriously don't go together. so i know how it feels to be cheated on (even though from what i know of except something he never cheated on me- pretty faithful) but i tried calling him today when i knew he was in and he banged on me and told me it wasn't no talk about it. well i feel as if there's nothin i can do, and i love and i'm sincerly sorry, i swear i am, i believe in second chances and think i should have one. but he won't talk to me and i've been crying for 3 days now and feel terrible...i've already been told not to worry, it's not the end of the world, to wait....but i have a right to worry it is the end of THAT part of my world and waiting hurts.he said he loved and i believe he did and still might...but he's not willing to listen. and i believe if a person really loves someone they'll try. but i hurt him i know. i need advice obviously. i need help noone around me seems to be able to help. so i'm turning to you males/females....please don't judge me and i know it was wrong just try your best to help me. and i'll be sure to let you know how your advice works out. THANK YOU for taking time to read this!!!!
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i wont judge you cause the same thing happened to me except i sent the guys pictures of me... i know how you're feeling cause i feel the same way but you got to talk to him and tell him that you want to be with him and that you need another chance to show him that yoku wont do it again. i wish you luck and hope things really work out for you.
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This, sadly.. is one reason why i don't want a girlfriend, but i can't help it, i guess i want the moment of joy before i get spat on
good thing its just bf, gf, unlike being married, or as my parents, its much for painful,
you can't do nothing, but try to word with him, and don't over do the whole "Im Sorry, im sorry, imsorry" blah blah blah thing.
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Well honestly, I don't see why your upset, I understand spur of the moment yada yada, but really who's more hurt, him or you? Obviously him, so it's no one's fault but yourself. Maybe you should think about your actions before you do them.
I guess just give him time to settle down, a week or two& then start talking to him that's all you can really do.
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Well I wont judge you because I can't it's not my place to and you should tell him I no what I did was wrong and if you really do still care for me you should give me a second chance it's your life I can't make you say yes or no all I can do is try and hope you understand this is for real not fake I care for you and I hope we can forget it and start over.
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