Gender: Male Member Since: June 5, 2007 Answers: 9 Last Update: June 6, 2007 Visitors: 716
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Hi I'm a female and i'm 15 turning 16. I'm sorry in advance this may be long....what happened was I cheated on my boyfriend.when it was happening i was in the moment (i had the issues of boredom, wanting attention, spite, anger,lonely...). i didn't consider it cheating but after the fact, figured out it was...it was OVERLY flirtly like if you woulda saw me you woulda thought i went with the person. and touchy feely. there are two parts to this and i did my bf dirty...i know. First and for most it was recently (last saturday) and during last summer. it was with my ex and my bf's cousin (in-law not blood i know it's all bad). They came on to me, and i feel for temptation (and last saturday if he woulda just came around it wouldn't have happened anyway, but i still do take the blame) But during last summer my bf (now my ex) was sent away to glen mills, for over a year (he just came home last thursday.) Well i decided to ask him a what if question...but when he asked me what i did i said stuff and wouldn't explain. well he got mad and banged on me telling me get at him when i matured...well my brothers called him yesterday (that made everything WORST) and i found out we seriously don't go together. so i know how it feels to be cheated on (even though from what i know of except something he never cheated on me- pretty faithful) but i tried calling him today when i knew he was in and he banged on me and told me it wasn't no talk about it. well i feel as if there's nothin i can do, and i love and i'm sincerly sorry, i swear i am, i believe in second chances and think i should have one. but he won't talk to me and i've been crying for 3 days now and feel terrible...i've already been told not to worry, it's not the end of the world, to wait....but i have a right to worry it is the end of THAT part of my world and waiting hurts.he said he loved and i believe he did and still might...but he's not willing to listen. and i believe if a person really loves someone they'll try. but i hurt him i know. i need advice obviously. i need help noone around me seems to be able to help. so i'm turning to you males/females....please don't judge me and i know it was wrong just try your best to help me. and i'll be sure to let you know how your advice works out. THANK YOU for taking time to read this!!!! (link)
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This, sadly.. is one reason why i don't want a girlfriend, but i can't help it, i guess i want the moment of joy before i get spat on
good thing its just bf, gf, unlike being married, or as my parents, its much for painful,
you can't do nothing, but try to word with him, and don't over do the whole "Im Sorry, im sorry, imsorry" blah blah blah thing.
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what does it mean when you find a indian pointing his bow at a star mean on a tootsie roll pop wrapper ??? (link)
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I'l give you 45$ for it,
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hi im getting my bellybutton pierced and i was wondering how bad it hurts or does it hurt at all im scared so please let me know
thanks (link)
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OOOOHHHH it hurts like hell, i swear i almost died that night, i will never get one again, i had to take 4 pounds of weed to sleep..
HOPE THIS HELPS !!!
(ya)
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I started going tanning about 4 week's ago.
For the first 3 day's i went for 6 minutes.
And after that i kept going up on the minutes.
During the 3-4 weeks i went tanning , i only used a stand up bed , and i went 12 minutes everyday. So my question is ; am i at risk for skin cancer ? (link)
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I actually heard on the news, err on many new's stations, that tanning increases you chances of gaining skin cancer, any tanning at all.
check google...
but i gues what ever to that eh? it makes you look good, so hell with the future.
just keep it up with the little tanning, until your happy with it, then i suggest to stop.
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OMG people always acnoledge me last,pick me last, and never pay attension to me! i'm so fed upppp, i know i sound like i'm complaining but honestly, NO one here ever cares about me. i hate it! i've just created a wall, i feel like nothing, i feel like doing nothing. i'm confused, i just dont know who i am anymore. is there something wrong with me? i'm 14, i know im going throught "changes" but, when will it end? also how can i make people actually care about me? i feel all blank and sad,i feel like nothing. and i don't ever want to do anything. the worst part is,i hide it all. i just need some advice on this,thankss (link)
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I care about you, see? now you got someone that likes you!
no seriously
I do, i do!
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hi, im 15/f. I REALLLLLLLY like this guy named "dean." i really want him to ask me out, but i don't know how to get him to do that. He seems to like me because according to my friend, he was flirting MAJOR the other day, but i didn't see it. He likes to stand near me, talk to me, and sometimes, i guess you could say, stare at me (face, not chest). AKA, now i know he likes me, so what do i do to let him know its okay to ask me out. (o, if this helps, he's going away to greece for the whole summer :(. )
Could you let me know what i need to do to have him ask me out?? Quick advice would be good please, becuase i'm seeing him for the last time tomoro....... :(
sry, but please don't say to ask him out, because i've been down that road with a different guy, and it was pretty ugly if u know what i mean
last thing is...i want him to be my first bf, so this is really important to me!
THANKS!! (link)
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i swear, every girl on here has there true love somehow leaving somewhere far away.. its werid.. but w/e,
anywayz instead of asking him straight out, ask him to go do something with u, like, movies or a grp school activity, or a after school activity or w/e,, smoke a cig..
idunno you get it,
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ok my ex bf who i broke up with about 2 months ago, has recently asked me out. He said he loves me and he needs me. So he asked me out again today and i rejected him nicely. I told him that I wasn't ready for a bf again and he said ok. But now he is telling everyone that he is going to kill himself. I feel terrible, its all my fault. So I feel pressured into going out with him again. But then I can never break up with him cuz he will kill himself, so i will have to like be with him forever. WHAT SHOULD I DO!??? (link)
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Don't get yourself stuck with him.!
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all over the floor! he's not new, he's 5, and we've had him since he was a little puppy and he never used to do this. he's a little on the heavy side......anyone have any idea why he's randomly doing this? How can i make him stop? Thanks. (link)
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Ummm, Stop feeding him?
Leave him outside permently?
Beat him with a newspaper?
you can try www.hwtoshitless.com
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ok. so theres this boy.. i somewhat like him and im pretty sure he used to like me.. but now he barley talks to me.. how do i get him to "chase me".. like get him interested and show him that he's the one who wants me..
hopefully that makes sense (link)
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Don't igorne hiM!, thats the last thing you want to do, but don't just fall like a doll to him either, but trust me, whatever is it that you do, don't act like he doesn't exist, may work with some guys that enjoy to flirt like man whores, but theres got to be some kind of "hint" to him, invite him to do something, a.. activity, not alone.
or get a friend to give em a hint, like slip in a word blah blah would love you to go with her to .. w/e
myguess
if he used to like u, then he prob would still, just he thinks you don't like him, so then, as a defence, he will try to forget you, and soon will..
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