*iM AlWaYz DoWn TaH HeLp A FriEnD MaH MaTTeR WhAt Nd I LoVe BeiNg a GrOwN Up GiRl BoUt ThiNGz...So AsK MeH BoUt AnYtHAnG Nd iLL HeLp YoU OuT...MeH PrOmiSE..ByE*
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Age: 16
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17/f. It has been over a year since I broke up with my ex. And he is still my best friend. Since I met him two years ago he has been my best friend. I love him. I would do anything for him. I love him so much; I don't know what I would do if I didn't have him in my life. I want another chance with him. Problem is he has a girlfriend and they have been together for a year. Well, I want to tell him how I feel. I don't care anymore if I mess things up with them(I know, it sounds mean or whatever, but I don't). Part of me is afraid that when I tell him things will get weird between us, but we have been through a lot so that it might not. Part of me just wants to take the risk. What should I do? How should I tell him how I feel? I'm so confused. (link)
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YOU SHOULD TELL HiM....GO FOR iT BECAUSE iT REALLY WiLL WORK OUT FOR YOU....AND EVEN iF iT DOES MAKE THiNGS WEiRD AFTER A WHiLE THiNGS WiLL GO BACK AND JUST TELL HiM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL BUT TELL HiM YOU HOPE iT WONT MESS UP YOUR FRiENDSHiP BECASUE GUYS KNOW YOUR SERiOUS WHEN YOU SAY THAT SORT OF STUFF...
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I dont know if i should keep the friends i have right now. All they do is complain about their lives and critize other people and when i complain about my life they are all like im sorry i cant do anything about that. And they are rude like it doesnt even matter to them! One of them never even calls me and shes my BEST FRIEND. she never trys at all, like she always tells me that she never ever askes people to hang out. but i told her she needs to ask me because im her best friend. so i just wanted to see what she would do. and now my other best friend is all like calling her all the time and now they are best friends and they always leave me out. we always have history of alot of drama so this time i really want to make our friendship work. OH YEAHH our other friend went to mexico for the whole summer and all she does is gossips about her... and she gossips about my other best friend too so i bet she gossips about me too. and thats the whole reason we got in a big fight last time because she said I gossip to much! but now i try to hold back and shes being a huge hypercryte. Im moving from San antonio to houston and i dont no if its worth being friends with all of them anymore. i feel like ive matured so much and i dont want to be in a little group of gossip anymore, i want to change for the better and just be alot more independent. do you think i should just not be friends with them or what? (link)
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i WAS iN THE SAME SiTUATiON AS YOU ARE iN NOW AND i KNOW HOW iT FEELS....iT SUCKS BiG TiME BUT YOU GOTTA REALiZE THAT YOU DONT NEED FRiENDS LiKE THAT....WHAT i DiD WAS STEPPED BACK AND HUNG OUT WiTH OTHER PEOPLE..AND i WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDED SOMEONE WiTHiN A COUPLE OF WEEKS SHE WAS BACK CALLiN ME AND WANTiN TO HANG OUT EVERY DAY SHE iS LiKE A LOSER GUY THAT AFTER A WHiLE REALiZES YOUR THE BEST AND THEY JUST WENT AFTER SOMEONE WHO DiDNT HAVE SO MUCH TO WORRY ABOUT...JUST STEP BACK i MEAN BE THERE AND BE FRiENDS BUT DONT ALWAYS TRY TO BE UP iN iT...GET NEW FRiENDS AMD REALLY ENJOY LiFE..
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my boyfriend told me that he thinks he might not love me as a girlfriend, but more of a bestfriend. he doesnt know, and that hes confused. he says he still has feelings for me as more than a friend, but not as much as he did when we first started dating.
i think it may be that hes getting bored?
can someone tell me some ways to spice up our relationship? im up for anything, but nothing sexual, we arent ready for that yet.
im 14 and hes 16 and we've been together for two months an one day.
thanks (link)
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SPEND TiME WiF HiM DOiN THiNGS THAT COUPLES DO...GO TO THE MOViES AND DiNNER...TRY TO GiVE HiM HiS SPACE AND YOU HAVE YOURS..WHEN YOUR NOT TOGTHER MAKE SURE YOU TALK AT LEAST ONCE A DAY BUT NOT TOO LONG BUT JUST BE VERY SHORT WiF HiM MAKE HiM WONDER ABOUT YOU AND WHAT YOUR DOiN...AND MOST OF THE TiME MAKE HiM CALL YOU THEN YOU KNOW FOR SURE YOU GOT HiM HOOKED..AND THEN JUST BE SHORT AND PRECiSE WiTH HiM..DONT ACT LiKE YOUR CRAZY OVER HiM JUST LET HiM KNOW YOU CARE AND THEN CHANGE THE SUBJECT WHEN HE TRYS TO GET ALL MUSHY OR SERiOUS..THEN AFTER A WHiLE SLOWLY GiVE iN AND STOP PLAYiN HARD TO KEEP...BECASUE TRUST ME iT WORKS....DROP ME A LiNE AND TELL ME HOW iT GOES....
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okay so i have a weird question...are some people automatically attracted to younger guys/girls?? (not like really young but like 1 or 2yrs younger) becasue i tend to always like the guys in the grades below me...and for the most part all the guys that i know like me are in the grades below me (link)
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YEAH i HAVE GONE OUT WiF YOUNGER GUYS BEFORE AND THERE iS NOTHiN WRONG WiF iT...ANYONE WHO SAYS THERE iS iS JUST STRAiGHT UP STUCK ON STUPiD....
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ahh so i want this guy to like me.. i want him to chase after me.. but i want to "play hard to get" like i dont wanna be the one always talking to him.. i want him to talk to me.. idk i mean im not just lookin' for attention.. but im soo sick of being the girl who falls head over heels n gets her heart broken.. i wanna be the girl HE falls for. n hopefully things will work out.. (link)
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*MiJa i Had the same problem and Girl TrUsT Meh YoU JuSt GoTTa FoCuS oN YoUr ScHooL WoRk Nd GeT iNvOlVeD WiF FuN ThiNgS WhEn ThE GuYs SeE HoW FuN YoU ArE To Be ArOuNd ThEy WiLL WEaNt To HaNg OuT WiF YoU..ThEn YoU JuSt GoTTa WaiT TiL ThEy CaLL YoU..iF ThEy DoNt GiVe iT TiMe Nd SeE WhaT HaPPeNs BuT DoNt LeT AnY GuY GeT YoU DoWn BeCaUsE ThErE iS AlWaYz OnE PeRfEcT Guy OuT ThErE FaH EvEry GiRl..JuSt TrY TaH AcT LiKE OnE Of ThE GuYs N TrUsT MeH GuYz FiNd ThAT WaY MorE aPPeAlInG tHaN a sTUcK Up GiRlY GiRl..YaH Kno? So JuSt WriTe MeH A LiNe Nd TeLL MeH HoW ThiNgs Go Ok..*
*CeCe*
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ookaaay so i got my period on the 25th of april. now im ussaully on a normal period cycle. i had sex with my boyfriend on either the 2nd or 9th of may. we used a condom. and i wasnt itchy down there. but i havent had my period since. and im having horrible stomach pains. its been 41 days since i got my period. does this sound like im pregnant?... and are there any signs i can look for? (link)
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*WeELL MiJa I WoUlD DeFiNaNtLy Go GeT ChEcKeD..JuSt TaH Be On ThE SaFe SiDe BuT YeA YoU MiTe JuSt Be HaViNg PaiNs BeCaUsE YoU ArE WoRRyiNg AbOuT iT..S MaYbE iTs JuSt YoUr NeRvEs.*
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