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my boyfriend told me that he thinks he might not love me as a girlfriend, but more of a bestfriend. he doesnt know, and that hes confused. he says he still has feelings for me as more than a friend, but not as much as he did when we first started dating.
i think it may be that hes getting bored?
can someone tell me some ways to spice up our relationship? im up for anything, but nothing sexual, we arent ready for that yet.
im 14 and hes 16 and we've been together for two months an one day.
thanks
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try to do something really sweet for him
like make him something or something like that.
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I hate to say this, but you two are on totally different maturity levels right now. (Since you are 14, and he is 16.) An age different should NOT matter, but sometimes in certain situations, it DOES. Did you ask him why exactly he doesn't like you as a girlfriend anymore? Did he give any reasons? You should definitely talk to him and ask him why. I know you don't want to do anything sexual, but maybe that IS what he's looking for. He might not admit it, but that's usually what guys want. Maybe the physical attraction just isn't there anymore. Maybe he's getting bored in the relationship. NONE of this is your fault! You shouldn't have to feel like you have to change yourself for him. And definitely DO NOT do anything physical with him, that you don't 100% want to do. I'm going to be honest with you, I don't think there is anything you can do non-sexually that will "excite" him. You could try going to different places with him. Maybe surprise him, and go out on a unique date. Think of a place where you wouldn't usually go out on a date. Take him there. Do something fun. And then end it with a kiss. But, even that might not be what he's looking for. It could possibly be better off if you two were just friends, but really, talk to him about it. Find out the details.
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