hi, im 15/f. I REALLLLLLLY like this guy named "dean." i really want him to ask me out, but i don't know how to get him to do that. He seems to like me because according to my friend, he was flirting MAJOR the other day, but i didn't see it. He likes to stand near me, talk to me, and sometimes, i guess you could say, stare at me (face, not chest). AKA, now i know he likes me, so what do i do to let him know its okay to ask me out. (o, if this helps, he's going away to greece for the whole summer :(. )
Could you let me know what i need to do to have him ask me out?? Quick advice would be good please, becuase i'm seeing him for the last time tomoro....... :(
sry, but please don't say to ask him out, because i've been down that road with a different guy, and it was pretty ugly if u know what i mean
last thing is...i want him to be my first bf, so this is really important to me!
anywayz instead of asking him straight out, ask him to go do something with u, like, movies or a grp school activity, or a after school activity or w/e,, smoke a cig..
BabyGirl1sideonly answered Tuesday June 5 2007, 7:33 pm: Hey
I think you should exchange addresses or e-mails or SOMETHING to stay in touch. Try to tell him or slip him a note saying you like him and call him afterward. Or just tell him face to face if you're up to it. Just make sure you find out from him does he like you and to keep in touch. Or take the what if approach...I hope i helped and GREAT LUCK [ BabyGirl1sideonly's advice column | Ask BabyGirl1sideonly A Question ]
claireblue6 answered Tuesday June 5 2007, 6:21 pm: It depends on how well you know this guy. Does he REALLY like you, or is this just according to a friend. If he flirts with you, then good, but does he act the same way around other girls? You don't want to get your hopes up. DON'T relay your friends back and forth asking if he does, because they may say something completely different than what he says (or a nicer version) and then it will just get more complicated. If tomorrow is the last day you see him, turn it up a notch, tell him to have a good trip, and maybe give him a quick peck on the lips. So he REALLY gets the message, and doesn't think you're just an ordinary flirtatious girl. Maybe, he'll fess up before he leaves so he can just get it off his chest before his trip, or maybe he'll want to wait until after so he can see you after he asks you out, or maybe he just thinks of you as a friend. I don't know, I haven't sen how you two react, but you have a good chance if you go in confident and smiley and friendly. He'll respect you more as a person if you say "Hey, I like you, and I hope you like me too." haha. I know, it's easier said than done. Be blunt, but be classy. Good luck! [ claireblue6's advice column | Ask claireblue6 A Question ]
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