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Should this bother me?
Ok, so, after alot of things that have happened to me in my past with guys, and, just my horrible trust issues, it's hard for me to see my boyfriend talk to other girls without thinking bad things. Is this normal? Like, he moved, and that day, this one girl was like, sorry I didn't call you! Right in front of me, and after school, she was hugging him and was like, you'd better call me, and I'm so sorry you're moving, and I'm gonna miss you soooooooo much! That really bothered me for some reason. Should it? I know I'm paranoid, but, I don't know what to do. I think it's my paranoia and my trust issues that's really bothering me. After everything that's happened to me, it's impossible for me not to be paranoid. What do I do?
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Well it should bother you. if the girl isn't a friend he's known forever and she doesn't seem interested in him then don't worry if not then you should be. Ask him whats going or tell the girl is there something I should know? good luck.
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Well it is just natural to take things out of preportion because it is with the guy you are with. I think it is just natural. You just got to say my boyfriend is a compleatly different guy and that he won't hurt me. Just think possitive and don't let things get to you. If you are really bothered, talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and what is going on with the other girls, but most likly it is just a friendly relationship and that tehy are mad taht one of there friends are leaving them. Hopefully everything goes ok and good luck with your boyfriend.
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Well, of course you are going to have trust issues if you have been hurt in the past. You have to keep in mind that the guys who hurt you in the past are not your boyfriend- he is a completely different person.
You should talk to him about your feelings so he knows what's going on inside your head. He can't do anything to help you, comfort you, or reassure you if he doesn't know there is a problem.
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