i dated this one guy for about a month in a half. and we didn't really get to see each other that much...and it was pretty much my fault because i was either busy doing something my mom was making me do, or hanging out with friends. he told me that it would be better if we were just friends. but he won't even talk to me...and he told my friend that i pretty much ruined my chances with him, but that it could change. this guy means a lot to me and i like him sooo much. but what if i do have a chance with him again? should i wait, or move on?
lbwhite89 answered Tuesday June 5 2007, 3:56 pm: I may be wrong, but this guy sounds starved for attention. If you're too busy, he can't expect to be with you at all times. However, maybe taking a little time away from friends to be with him once and a while wouldn't have been too hard to do. Relationships take effort by both people. Sometimes it's hard to find time together, but you have to be together once and a while in order to have a relationship.
This choice is up to you, so if you really like him, wait for him. The only thing is that you WILL have to make an effort to spend time with him. It can't just go back to how it was and be all good. He'll still be upset that he never sees you.
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