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He's getting bored
Recently, I found out that my boyfriend of 6 months is getting kinda bored with what we do. The farthest we've gone is making out and that's the farthest we will go. And then all he talks about with his friends is how he almost spent the night with some hot chick. I don't want to break up, but it upsets me that I'm getting old or something. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. We do kinda make out a lot when we see each other, but what else are we supposed to do?
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well if he doesn't like you anymore because you won't go farther than making out, then he's not a good guy.
why don't you guys talk to each other? that's always a good idea, and a lot of times good conversations happen.
i don't really know what else to tell you. i wouldn't break up just yet. i doubt he's "bored" with you, i just think he wants to go farther after six months of just making out. maybe let him get to second base, or do some dry humping.
there ya go
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just because your boyfriend is bored with you.. please dont be pressured to do things that your not ready to do. if you feel like you've been going out for long enough, then i would maybe start doing other stuff like giving him a handjob..letting him finger you or w/e but if you dont feel like your ready...dont. you'll regret it so much later, its not worth it. If your boyfriend really does love you..he wont break up with you becasue of it either.. good luck keep me updated =]]
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At least finger eachother
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Well, you don't do anything you aren't ready to do, weather he is bored or not.
If he respects you, he will wait. If he respects you, he won't spend the night with a some hot chick. (Though, I imagine he is likely talking out his ass on that one to sound like an alpha male to his buddies. Guys can be strange like that...)
And if he DOESN'T respect you by not wanting to wait, or by hooking up with some other chick, then he isn't the guy for you anyhow. He wouldn't be worth any more of your time.
Don't be upset thinking you are getting old, because in all long term relationships, just because the fire dies down, doesn't mean it isn't still hot. Get it?
You aren't doing anything wrong at all. Just keep on moving at a pace that YOU find comfortable. Don't ever let a guy convince you, or guilt you, into moving too fast. Like I said before, he WILL WAIT if he respects you.
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