about

Hey*
My name is Erika
and I am 14 years old
and I am now officially a Freshman at West!
I am so happy!
Any-WayZ*
There are so many different things going on during school and conflicts that I have to deal with!
I have experiance with most of the things ya'll are asking about!
I hope I can help you!
Dont be scared to ask me about anything! *Seriously!* :)


advice

Are there certain signals that guys do that sort of show he likes a girl? I'm 13/f and I have this guy friend and people say he likes me but I'm not sure. He invited me to see a movie with him but how do I know if it's just "friends".

♥

well if people say he likes you and he asks you toi the movies... well go... just dont act really intersested and all over him! I hope I helped and I bet everything weill be fine!

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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?

UMm... no not that weird... its just how things go and if that is how they go then just let it flow! Later* :) that is so cute that ya'll are in love!

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I'm not sure but how can you tell the difference of love and like.Because i like or love this one boy but i dunno if i love him and most my friends tells me i do even one of my teachers! so my question is how do you know when u love someone and how do you know if they love you back?thanks in advance for even concidering to read this.

When you are scared to talk to him or when you look in his eyes and you get a tingly feeling inside... That is when you love some1... like is just stuff that other ppl do and you dont really care... hope I helped!
Later

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im embarassed, all of my friends have had sex, and i don't wanna have sex yet, but when im older i think its gunna sound stupid. and their gunna ask me if im still a virgin and ill say yes. its jus weird.

I know it feels weird... I was like that tOo... But here is some advice. Do not give in! Just b/c thier not virgins doesnt mean you dont have to be either. And if they dont like you cuz of that then they arent really good friends... I know you didnt say that they dont like you cuz of it but it was just a little bit of heads up! O and believe me... it is really good to be a virgin cuz there is no way sum1 can call you a ho or slut or anything! Just stick through it!
Hope I helped*
Later*

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

Well from what my experiance with others I guess it means like make-out and other stuff. Well thats what guys say it is anyway. There are alot of other ways to say it! bye*

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Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`(

I would talk to your b/f about it... but dont mention the whole flirting thing... see if you are ever going to see each other (in the flesh) again! No relationships never work when they are "long distance"... Mostly I think you should keep in touch and see how far you can go if thats what he wants tOo... most likely he is gunna start to flirt with other girls. Good luck*

Later*

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I really like this guy lets call Him "gabe" well Ok I met him like 3 days ago well OK I met him like 6 weeks ago but we never really noticed eachother till now. well when I met him we were at a party type thing and He drove me and my friend home But he ended up staying over at her house with us and me and him were talking and stuff then all of a sudden we were holding hands next thing U know were making out and kissing and everything else at school he doesnt ignore Which is kewl U know he even kisses me and everyones like "oh you and Gabe are so cute together" Even though were not going out at all but Hes 18 and IM 14 is it wrong

No way! Just make sure no1 else has a problem with it! If he really likes you and you like him it is totally ok! Have fun and hope ya'll are happy! bye*

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OK i like this guy.. we r rly good friends we talk every single day..im afraid if i tell him we wont be so close..and i want us to stay close..i think he might like me a lil too.. because he asked me who i liked and i told him that it doesnt matter because they dont like me anyways ..and he said r u sure about that..so im rly confused because i want to tell him but i dunno..help plz

I would just tell him the truth...
I am kinda sick right now and no it is not the fever talkin just so you know...
but, I think you should do what your heart wants you to do! Good luck*

Later*

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Hey its me again....i kno a lot of ppl told me to talk to this guy from the last post i put up...but the problem is im a very shy person(really shy when it come's to guys i really like)....i dont kno how to talk to guys at all....like i always say something stupid or make a fool of myself...and i heard he is dating someone too:(....shes punk but not that punk like shes a mix i guess....well ym ?'s are
1. how sould i talk to him like how do i bring up a conversation?...
2. Should i still try even though he's dating someone?

Thanxs for you help

ok*
I think you should just bring up sumthing like really random... and just start talkin... dont be really nerdy or nosy tho. As the convo goes on jut find out his intersts and maybe find sum things in common... things just happen... but i wouldnt try tOo hard... just see what's going on and then try and get closer to him and get him to like you... good luck! bye*

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Every day i go to school and i see all these couples walking around together. I'm really jealous because i want to be one of those guys that other people look at walking with their g/fs. The only problem is that there is nobody at my school that i can see myself goin out with right now. What can i do? (I'm a freshman)

I so had the same problem! I wanted a bf so bad! so I went out met a tons of ppl! I even chaged my look to a little bit hotter! lol* anywayz just be hott and meet people and flirty! you'll get it! bye*

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i am deeply in love with a very close guy friend of mine. we have lost touch. he moved away and theres no way i can see him, we talk on the phone once a month about. hes my best friends brother..shes still here with her family its only him that moved..ill only be able to see him once a year, he gets so many girls, hes my ex boyfriend, he probably has so many where he is now, but when he comes back for his 2 week visits i want somehting to happen with him, he doesnt knwo i feel this way, and eaither does his sister (my best friend) what do i do?!?!

I would just see how he acts and when you get a chance flirt alot and show him how you feel... but not really on him... just yea... talk small talk... do your thing and if you want sumthin to happen you gotta show suome signs and make it happen! hehe* Just dont be slutty... well not alot... but yea maybe he likes you too and you would never know it! hope i helped at least a lil! bye*

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Whats a rebound girl? i think i kno but im not 4 sure lol i kno its a really dumb question but

Hey*
Dont worry it's not really a dumb question! Well... a rebound girl is a sum1 a guy is goin to use to get over or get back at his old g/f or sum1 he needs to... kinda bad i know... hey but i hope i helped yOo out! Rate me plz!

Erika*

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I NEED ADVICE!
i love this girl and i want her to love me but she is obsessed with this other guy I really love her at first it sounded like she like me and it was flirting...I want her but she loves another What should I do?

Awww! I am so sorry but I think yOu should tell her how yOu feel! I mean, if yOu dont say anything to her about it then she will prolly go with sum other guy... and it may not be that guy she is obbsessed with. /flirting is GooD! Keep Doing that and keep talking to her!\ I know yOu are really sad rught now... but I am serious! Just tell her that yOu really like her... dont say yOu love her... or n e thing cheesy like I really love yOu and need yOu... just be cool and straight foward... tell her that yOu like her alot.. she will listen. Hope I helped!

Plz Rate,
:|Erika|:

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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?

I think that yOu may be bi but maybe yOu are just curious about other things and yOu just want to find out! dO yOu feel somfortable thinking about girls and guys... I mean do yOu think its weird or are yOu totally comfy... Tell me how yOu figure things out... seriously! I hope everything works out!

Love,
.:Magic:.

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ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!!

Hey*
I am so sorry but I think yOu should watch to see how he acts. If he really acts a little suspicious... there is sumthing wrong there. I think that if yOu have heard the name and these people are telling yOu about it maybe yOu should talk to yOur other friends about it. When yOu feel comfortable... talk to yOur boyfriend. Believe me things happen for a reason. I understnad yOu dont want to loose him and I have been through this b4 tOo and He took my virginity tOo. Turned out he was cheatin on his g/f with me and she found out about me and she broke up with me and then he broke up with me. I am really sorry if things go bad! Tell me how things go... Really*

Love yOu and hope everythings Ok!
.: Erika :.

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Hey I'm going to be a sophmore this year and I met this guy Scott at summer skool before freshmen year. He's not that hott but hes cute, and hes nice I guess and he's been asking me out ever since I met him but I always said no because I had a boyfriend well my boyfriend broke up with me and ever since then i've felt soo lonely that now i wanna go out with Scott! But I dont know if I just want a boyfriend or if I really like him. I'm thinking maybe when I go out with scott I'll start liking him? Idk I need help!

Hey*
Try and Fit it out! I think that yOu are ryte... once yOu are goin out yOU will most likly start likin him! Sorry about the break up! Maybe he could be a great guy for yOu! Good Luck!

.:* BYE *:.

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My ex-girlfriend and i broke up a while ago. I didn't want to break up, but we did. I thought i would be ok with it after a while, but i'm not. Every time i see her i wish we were still together. It's hard for me to hang around her or even think about her as just a friend. How can i get over her and just be her friend?

Just tell her how yOu feel! I mean no girl is going to get mad at yOu for not feeling rite. Tell her that yOu regret breakin upwith her and maybe she feels the same! I just got dumped last night and I think it is weird that we are sort of just friends... I wish thigs were different! Tell me if things go ok!* bye *

.:*Erika*:.

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wat types of things that guys do are concidered cute or sweet by girls?

Well if yOu mean when a girlt hinks a guy just did sumthing cute... sumtimes it could be sum of these things...
* He wines
* He says he loves yOu/her
* He holds yOu
* He keeps yOu warm
* Gives yOu his sweatshirt
Sum things lyk that would be cute... I hope that is what yOu meant! >-Rate Me plz!!! Even if it did suck!-<

.:*Erika*:.

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Ok here is my problem. The other night at my friends house we decided to play truth or dare. I was dared to make out w/ my best'guy'friend. We decided since it was just a dare and that it wouldn't mean nothin we would do it. So it turned out different than I thought. My friend got carried away I guess...he was really into it and very passionate. I don't know if he really thinks it meant somethin more or what! bUt I feel weird around him now & talking to him. Soo please help me out! ;) thanks

Ok... sounds lyk yOu have sum things to figure out. It was just a game that yOu played and yOu think that he might have lyked it toO much. Well maybe yOu should talk to him and make sure he didnt think it was more than just a game. Just talk to him and make sure that he gets the story straight cuz yOu dont want n e problems with ur best friend relationship happenin. Sometimes these things turn out to be good things. Maybe it is just a sign to something that could happen in the future. I hope I helped yOu out a little.
Please Rate Me!!!*
thanks*

.:*Erika*:.

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now almost 5 months but lately we've been fighting alot and i dont like it..like everyday something new to fight about comes up..we hang out like everyday so people say its because we need to hang out less..he brought up taking a "break" or time apart..im scared..=(..what should i do..and does it seem like its gonna work out in the end?
xO ManDiiE =)

Hey*
I really think yOu and ur boyfriend are gunna work out. I dont think that yOu guys should take a break at all... your friends are ryte... dont be with him EvErY Day... It gets kind of boring. Plus if yOu are gunna be with him every day. Have a friend arounf and have another guy come too. I mean many things can happen. I widh I would have a long realtionship with a guy that long. I have only known a guy fro about 1 month and a half and we arent even goin out... we mess around and do stuff. I wish I was dating him... Dont be scared... just tlkin to him about it and work things out. Write me back and tell me how things go... bye*

-*>RaTe Me PLeAzE!!!

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