hey! i have a really big problem. so i dated this guy jake over a year ago now for almost 2 months. he dated thisgirl i knew and then they broke up after 2 years and me n him dated. which was quite crazy. anyways, we ended up breaking up bcz he cheated on me with her and they got back 2gether n have been on n off for almost a year. well, now he is dating sum other girl that idont know n the other day i messaged him on myspace, i havent talked 2 him since last year n i asked him for directions 2 get this oneplace we went 2 last year when we dated. he messaged back sayin he has nothing againts me n he knows he did some bogus shit n to give him a call ormessage when we wanna hangout for old times sake... so idont know if im taking this too overboard but he was my first realll bf that i reallylikedn my friend's birthday is coming up this weekend, and he knew her, thats how we met n began dating bcz his x was friends with my best friend n because of allthis she hated us... well i really do have feelings 4 him n want to ask him 2 come by but is it 2 weird?? but thing is... he never said sorry... what should i write back? thank you somuch
well if your very comftable talkn to him u should tell him how you feel about him now ....you guys maybe coudld get bac together because he just might feel the same way and all but dont kno how to taell you.. he must have sum feeling left if he just want to hang out for old times sakes ...just tell him how you feel and you should hang out sumtimes ..im pretty sure he will miss being around you and have fun with you jus give it a try and tell him how you feel ..you dont want to have any regrets about what you coudl have done and what if you said sumthn,would you two be together so go for it..get bac to me
~ miss_diva ~
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KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close the store together and he was on the phone so while he was on the phone, I took off his drive-thru headset and put the till infront of him.... later he walked up to me and was like thank you for that, no ones really done anything like that for me (I know it was little but it was a big thing for him I guess) and I was like your welcome.... and then one morning we had to work together and he wanted breakfest and didn't have a car, so I loaned him my car and he ended up bringing both of us breakfest and I thought that was sweet. He mocks (jokingly) everything I say and teases me playfully, and I like that...but I don't know who to choose.....PLEASE HELP!!!
Which is better a man that treats you good or one that doesnt. but think about your future:and about your bf ask him y he talks to you like sum gurl out on the street. SEE if you bf loves you the way you love him and hoe he feels about you. and you should ask johnny how does he feel about you and tehn compare the too and the person you have the mosy strongest feelings for choose him..
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I've been dating a man for about a year and a half. I love and adore him with my whole heart. I have never had so much fun with anybody just hanging around and doing nothing. We have the most incredible chemistry and banter. Even when we're not together, I'll think about something he said, or an exchange we had, and it'll make me laugh out loud.
HOWEVER, we are both very passionate people and when we get in arguments, they are HORRENDOUS. Things just escalate at an insane rate. We have horrible, brutal arguments. And unfortunately, they are very frequent. We've talked about it multiple times, and we've promised each other that we won't fight or that we'll fight nice, but it never works.
I ache at the thought of having to leave him...but I cringe at the thought of more arguments like what we've had in the past. I can't imagine living without him, but I dread the thought of having to live with these arguments. I just don't know what to do.
How do you know when it's time to leave?
Well first of all dont argue over petty things and if you tow love each other then you will pick the right thing..but no relationship is perfect me n my bf fight errday sumtimes its harsh but we kno we love each other and laugh about it and the end but yee erverybody fights... think about it u love each other just think about it wen your fightn is it over somthing really stupid or it really a matter ..
~ Miss_Diva ~
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me and my boyfriend have been together a year the 15th of this month and i have no idea what to get him. i wanna get him something cute or do something cute for him without spending over $100. do you have any cute ideas for me? itd be greatly appreciated.
okay well tell me wut kinna stuff he likes but u should get him a chain that says sumthn special but not to where it in public.. but yea just get back to em on wut he likes asnd i can help u out..
~ Miss_Diva ~
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He gave me a note he told me he liked me.
he started texting me and he stopped and when i text him he wont text back so i just stopped.
but i like him ALOT to and he doesnt even act like he likes me anymore. I dont get it.
either he started liking a new girl but i dont think you could be able to get over me just like that. hm
y dont chu just go to him face to face and ask if he likes you or etxt him maybe his foen is off or wutevr but im sure he cant get ove you that fast
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About 4 months ago I got dumped by my bf. We were in a long distance relationship- I sort of gave him an ultimatum that I wanted a ring on my finger (I'd been with him for 3 years). He had been stringing me along and sort of playing games with me and just got sick of it. He ended things with me very childishly and was a real jerk at first- not returning any of my emails or calls. I gave up after 3 days. He was- and still is very stubborn and has difficulty expressing emotion. In the past when we have fought and broken up I have always been the one to mend fences even though he was the one being a jerk. I've decided this time if he wants me back then he needs to contact me with no effort on my part. I'm sick of doing all the work in this relationship and I know I deserve better than this abuse. Anyways; my question is that since we've broken up I keep seeing male friends of his come into the store I work in. They pretend they are shopping but I know they arent in my department because I sell kids clothing. They just stare and watch me and don;t talk to me. Do you think he's been getting his friends to check up on me? And if so does that mean he still cares about me? He lives out of town remember.
Yess becuase if he cares he doesnt want any other guy taking you away from him at all so he taking no chances and want to make sure you dont go off with another guy.. yess does care he and maybe yo u should talk t him and ask why he doesnt liek to expres emotions and he proly think thats kinna femine.ya kno how boys are these days.. but he might just care for you if he all the way out of town and has friends come to your job and stare at you .... get back to me ....
~ Miss_Diva ~
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14/f
I like a guy named David. Seems simple, right? Wrong. He happens to be a friend of mine. Well, I've liked him before, and I've notified him. Recently, I told him I liked him. He didn't care but said he wouldn't give me a chance.
I eventually got over him, but now I'm falling for him again. Ten times harder. And he's been flirting with me nonstop - but I can't help but wonder if that's just his nature. He flirts with me, and he came to my halloween party. My friend asked him if he thought I was pretty, and he said I was. So I'm confused as to whether he'll ever give me a chance and if the flirting is just hormones. :/
I kno this will be hard but ust simply ask him or have a friend ask him does he like you and that girlfriend way..and if he does flirt with him back to and then sooner or later somebody will ask somebody out..and make sure he doenst want you for sex make sure he really like you and if he doesnt then stop wasting your time and find the right guy he would give you the time of day and not you chasing himand everthing ..get back to me
~ Miss_Diva ~
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Yes, my girl dumped me. I no longer have to be in denial that someday will be back together, giving up, gave 100% of myself, just an empty shell left behind. So ? What to do? How to move on?
I dont spend any time alone at home.Not at all. I do not get drunk or take anything. I go everywhere, clubbing cinema, every single day found my self a great girl, hot sexy and smart. Only many times I kind of...mix her name with my ex's, I sometimes just want to walk away alone from everyone, I...cry every now and then...when I acomplish stuff I think I am doing it for my ex.
My friends talk to me as if nothing important is going on while I am really dying on the inside (and the outside,lost a lot of weight). It really is the end of the world for me. I think that good times will come again but unfortunatelly, I cant believe it. I think about her all the time, dont sleep at night cause of her, I put twice the effort to accomplish stuff in my job cause I think of her, I know she will not come back.
My brain is killing me, it is just stuck, thinking over the same things again and again. Thinking about it so much, that late night, I can really listen to my thought in my ears. It is crazy, it is my brain going in circles and I am listening to it, I hear my though...but...crystal clear.
There are 2 ways to end this, none of them will do. One is taking pills, fuck them I dont need them, other is killing myself, no way out of the question I got to make money in my life. I ve taken new hobbies kept myself busy.
Well, i am sorry I think I did not leaveanything for you to advice me. Maybe some online support group where I can find people like me? You know that circle people make and hug each other,only online.
Aww po baby SORRY 4 YOUR PAIN but down to the point. It i not the end of the wourld for you .you justthink it is an the more you think aout it teh more obsessd yo become with thinking about her..you neeed closure or sumthn just once and tell her how you feel; if she takes you back or not you still accomplished a greed task on moving forward because you have all that emotion bottled in you and you need to let it out..by telling her your last feelings about her..just to get it out of your head and hunting you from your sleep.and then you could maybe focus on you and your new realationship and all adn not so much on her..i will say it is not easy but you gotta commit to it and get rid of you rthoughts by teling youe ex... thats one big step to take ..get back to me..
~ Miss_Diva ~
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So I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. I posted a question yesterday.. and this is a continue on.. Well my boyfirned went back and forth with me and two other girls in the way beginning and then when they didnt work out he came to me...So I really felt something strong between us. I also felt like a rebound. but we have been together for a little over 7 months and we have been pretty strong. I don't think hes cheating on me its just I get really jealous. He talks to this girl he used to really like...and he always goes on church retreats or to camp and i get really worried about him falling for another girl. He tells me he wouldnt and he can't be attracted to anyone else... but from the past i get worried. I also have anger problems when i get jealous i just ignore him until i break down and cry. We talk about it eventually but i treat him wrong when i'm jealous or sad. I wish I didn't and I don't know how to handle myself. I'm scared of him thinking I have too many problems and just getting up to leave me. I just want to know what i should do.
Yeah i can relate to you, but hey just calm down and breath for a sec... I think my bf does taht to (will fall in love w/another gurl)its scary but what i do is try to occupy my tyme to him so that he woulnt have time for that other gurl at all.... do things that make him happy then he wont think that you have probelms and that you care for him and tell him you love you(only if you really do)and when your mad try doing things that make you happy or just write your anger out on paper;make a poem or sumthn ya kno..dont go all offf yelling and screamn becuase that will stress you out more..THINK BEFORE YOU ACT OR BSAY ANYTHIG ..i kno its hard but you have to accomplish handlin you anger.Member write a poem about it or just write down how you feel at that moment.. Get back @ me..
~ Miss_Diva ~
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i cannot keep a bf for longer then two weeks. ill start out liking these guys then BAM i break up with them..then i want them back && its too late so i am screwed..and i learned from a good friend how bad it hurts when girls play guys and ill just not like them anymore..it sucks..what is wrong with me?what can i do?
ps my last "relationship" lasted a day and a half
I guessyou really ghot a problem but hers a trick dont go out witha guy just because u like him go out witha boy that you really like and can have good converstaions with and a good time and that will be around and wont bore you.It seems that you like the guy then he might bore you so you dump him but .thats it just pick them right..okay get back to me
~ Miss_Diva ~
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my b.f and i just broke up and hes been telling my best friend that he has regrets and wants me back. i really love him and i knw he does too...and its only been a 4 days since we broke up. if i do decide to go get back together with him...or how should i talk to him..i mean he has to knw he cant just come back when he wants but i dunno (you know what i mean?)what should i do...?he hasnt spoken to me yet, but everytime i go on msn he comes online like 2 secs later and he changes his name to reflect to me but he wont talk to me..and i dont knw wat to do! help
Well first of all dont waste time thinking he just cant come back when he want to ..soon enuff some otha gurl gone come n take ova his mind soo just sit down and tell him how you feel or over msn one or the otha ...but ask him do he wants to get back together with you.If nobody speaks to each other then NOTHEN will happen at all so youu gotta step up 2 the plate and do what you got to do times ticking ..get your man back if you really love him it wouldnt matter if he can just come back when he wants .most people cant find love so get him back nothn should matter but yall love trust etc. for each other.. gee back 2 me...
~ Miss_Diva ~
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ok so i have been going out wiht my new girlfriend for about 2 mouths now and i want to know a couple of things
1. on avrage how long do people wait to have sex
2. should we celabrit things like 1 mouth annaverys and if we do, how long do we do that untill it's to only a one year annavery?
3. she's a little new at haveing a boyfriend, she is my forth girlfriend, and i just want to know is there a way to make her more confuable with being around me, she already really cares about me and trust me,
1)WAIT till your BOTH ready to have sex, to make sure you both trust each other and very comfortable with each other.
2)Well every now adn then just out of the blue give her a gift,card,candy,be romantic to keep your realtionship spontanious and fun.
3)Let her do that on her own and make her feel special and show that you care and you can be dependable.
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Ok. Well i have recently started hang out with this guy...and i like him alot. Well he has told me many times that im fucking hot and how much he likes me. But when people ask were always like were just friends...Im kind of wondering why he hasnt asked me out yet...and if i should just ask him out...i would definitely prefer him to ask me out..but im thinkin he either doesnt want to go out with me for some reason or he is just afraid of rejection...what do you think?
well maybe he just shy to ask you out n dont kno what to do at the moment. well just simply tell him how you feel and that you rfeeling him a lot to and you want to be his gurl..dont wit to long becuas he can just end up liking a another gurl..so go for it and tell him how you feel and then see if he will ask you out if not then just ask him out you always cant get everything how you want it but so ask him out.
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Okay so this was the answer you gave me to my question:
okay jes chill and think for a minute... if he really loves you then he would understand that you want to wait..and should respect that. and if he doesnt then jes try your best to forget about him because whats best; having a bf thats willing to wait or not.i would want one that waits n respect my answer towards that.but sit down with him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and tell him that you want him back and you want his respect and see what he has to say .. get bac to me please i would love to help more.
so my next question is you think i should talk to him? like how in person, email, text, phone call? and u dont think im like giving up my pride? cause thats wat my mom keeps saying but shes a really proud women and i want to get some things off my chest...wat should i do/would you do?
Well i would sit down wit him in person,then you would be able to see all his little expressions to what all you have to say.No your not giving up your pride;your jes doing what you have to do to get that stress off of you.You should do sumthing about it then just wait and let another girl come along and take his love away that he has for you.Remember this expression..."A CLOSED MOUTH DONT GET FEED"...meaning if you dont open your mouth and say whats on your mind nothing will ever happen and you will be stuck wit WAHT IF'S for the future and wonder (if i had said sumthn how would our relationship turned out).So sit down with him (IN PERSON) and have everything that u want to say thought of , you dont want to hold anything back .Tell ALL how you feel.. Hopw i was a big help. *Thanks for writing back*
~ Miss_Diva ~
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i like this really cute guy. i talk to him but i want him to like me more. does anyone know any tricks on how to get the guy you like? ty 13/f
i KNO A GREAT TRICK OKAY.... **just be yourself** becuase soon or later those tricks that you want to spring on him will fade away and the new you will come out then you will need help being yourself .so just be your self from teh start then you will kno if he really like you for you and not those little stunts u make..Get bac to me .
~ Miss_Diva ~
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13/f
OK, my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months. Well, a lot of girls in my school like hiim. They always talk to him and flirt with him, and he flirts and talks back. I have asked him many times to stop and he claims hes just talking. But all my friends keep telling me that he always does this. Plus, he told me he thinks other girls are hot. Should I end our relationship? I am getting really mad at him about this and need help!
okay gurl gone had and end your realationship because you shouldnt b unhappy with who your with because of his actions and you told him to stop and he wont change for you .(Sign#1) he doesnt care(Sign#2)he dioesnt have respect for you..So you should let him go and move on to another sexy hot boy of you liking and that is more respectful or you and your feelings....Get bac to me please.
~ Miss_Diva ~
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So, i knew this girl like 4 years ago, then one year, i changed schools. now last june, i saw her again, and we talked, found otu we still liekd each other.(question #1= Do you think it was juts because we had'nt seen each other in so long that our feelings were so strong?) so we went out for liek a week, untill she said she was ahving some problems, and could'nt deal with a relationship. so we broke up, and i continued to be there for her. in sepember, i gave her a blur rose(because it was a flower she really liked, along with it's meanining as a flower), and i asked her otu again, she said, not right then, but one day.(#2= was she just being nice?)
So i tried to deal, and mostly did, we were still close. Now then, i tried to move on, get on with ym life, and accept she probably did'nt share my feelings. Now lately, a whiel later, i've really been down, because i've really been missing her, even though i see her everyday.Everytime i see her, and hear her talkign about how cute some guy is, or what her "boyfriend" is like.(she says they are'nt really goign out, but they go otu alot O.o)
I'm wondering mainly if there is: 1) any way to show her how i feel(preferable one that would get ehr back, but thats unlikely) and 2: any advice for dealign with this, and feelign less and less down.
GET OUT MORE EXXXXPREIENCE i kno it hard ive been there before,but the more u think about her the more your goin to be sad for a long time.try something new and just find a girl that you can hagn out with and have fun with.time will pass n you will still miss her but it wont be so strong.Let the girl go and let her wonder what she missed out on and and regret what she did.Let that be her fault not yours and to be all sad n depressed. Youe got a life to now live it and dont let that PUPPY LOVE get in the way of what you think is real. Get back to me okay....
~ Miss_Diva ~
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my bf & i broke up b.c we had a fight. and "sum otehr reason that i didnt want to give in to" if u knw wat i mean. anyway i thought he was gonna regret wat had happened and he is? how can i get him back wit how respecting me. Because i knw- i knw we still both love each other. help me!or should i just forget the whole thing? but i really love him and its stupid to have broken up over this. i just think we need to talk this all out and i dont knw wat to do. plz help!
okay jes chill and think for a minute... if he really loves you then he would understand that you want to wait..and should respect that. and if he doesnt then jes try your best to forget about him because whats best; having a bf thats willing to wait or not.i would want one that waits n respect my answer towards that.but sit down with him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation and tell him that you want him back and you want his respect and see what he has to say .. get bac to me please i would love to help more.
~ Miss_Diva ~
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