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Should I Ask Him Out?
Ok. Well i have recently started hang out with this guy...and i like him alot. Well he has told me many times that im fucking hot and how much he likes me. But when people ask were always like were just friends...Im kind of wondering why he hasnt asked me out yet...and if i should just ask him out...i would definitely prefer him to ask me out..but im thinkin he either doesnt want to go out with me for some reason or he is just afraid of rejection...what do you think?
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He might think lots of girls are ummm what you said. It does not mean he wants to date or commit to you exclusively. He could very well be afraid of rejection, too. Ask him out if you want to, unless you are also afraid of rejection. By the way no one likes rejection, but it is a risk we all have to take, unless we want to be weenies for life and let others control our destiny.
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i think you should ask him out because most times the guys have to build up the courage to ask a girl out and that shows alot about someone and if you really liek him you should deffinatly go for it !!
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He might really just be afraid of rejection. Even though you know he likes you and everything, does he know you like him back? And with you being "fucking hot", haha, he might be worried you might not want to go out with him, or that you're too pretty for him or something.
I would just ask him to hang out with you sometime really soon, and just flirt with him and have a great time, and at the end of it, just be like,"You know, I really like you. Do you think sometime you'd want to go out on a date somewhere?" So you're not exactly asking him out as your boyfriend, but at least it's something. And then that obviously sends the message you're available and you really want to date him and like him, so hopefully he'll put together the pieces from there. If he doesn't sooner or later, you might as well just ask him out. Guys DO like a girl with alot of confidence and who asks the other out for once.
But like I said, ask him out on just a date first, and see where it progresses from there. Hopefully, he'll ask you to be his girlfriend then!
I hope I helped, and good luck!
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maybe he's asking himself these exact same questions.
don't be scared, go for it & ask him out.
<3
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well maybe he just shy to ask you out n dont kno what to do at the moment. well just simply tell him how you feel and that you rfeeling him a lot to and you want to be his gurl..dont wit to long becuas he can just end up liking a another gurl..so go for it and tell him how you feel and then see if he will ask you out if not then just ask him out you always cant get everything how you want it but so ask him out.
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Instead of just asking him out, maybe find an indirect way of asking him. For example, are there any dances at your school? You could ask him if he want to go with you. If you do, he'll probably get the hint and ask you out. Then you won't have to =D
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