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i really like this kid..and he knows that i do..and every time my friends mention me around him he blushes (thats what they said)..and on the last day of school all he did was stare at me and he told my friend he would talk to me..but when the bell rang he ran right past me. just last week my friend called him (im to shy to even talk to him) and he said he doesnt like me and wouldnt go out with me..he also said that he just broke up with someone..(thats not true cause he told my friend he was single) but it seemed like in school that he was always looking at me..i really want him to like me too! What should i do?
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well sounds like a typical guy, always changing their minds... but if hes gonna play around and act like that then u need to find a new interest. and maybe hes just dening that he likes u....he'll proly come around soon enough... being 13 u got plenty of time
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okay well i'm 14 and i'm wondering if i'm too young to be in love. theres this girl that i'm going out with and she is always there for me and i feel like i can do anything for her. i think i'm in love with her but i dont know if i'm too young or not. okay thanks if you help me =) (link)
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i dont think u are ever to young to be in love... but make sure its real because thinking ur in love and being in love are 2 completely differant things
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ok theres this kid that i really like and he really likes me and we have liked each other for like 3months now.. but for some reason were not going out.. i wanna try and go out but i dont wanna ask him out.. how do i show that if he asked me out i would say yes or what do i do? (link)
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maybe get a friend to talk to him and tell him u like him too... or u could talk to him urself but i dont think u wanna do that if u dont wanna ask him out
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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all (link)
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i love sensitive sweet guys... i mean being strong and protective is good but if the guy isnt sensitive and cant show his feelings at all then most gurls dont feel comfortable
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My boyfriend & I just broke up. It was the best relationship I ever had, even though we argued alot and were off & on many times. The break up was because of trust issues/cheating & that we tended to argue alot. It seems now that everything reminds me of him and I can't stop crying. I still love him and I'm pretty sure he feels the same. Our relationship was full of good, fun times and great, funny conversations. Do you think we could get back together if we gain more trust for each other and stop arguing so much or do you think a relationship like ours doesn't stand a good chance? (link)
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well if u can figure out a way to get more trust and stop arguing then yeah its got a chance.. but im not sure how ur gonna do that. i guess talking to each other and being honest about how u feel is a start... just be patient and honest
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ok this is mainly for guys but i want to know what girls think about it too.
why is it ok for guys to check out girls and the guys excuse is "its in their genes" but if they find out that their girlfriend checks out a guy then they get all mad and jelous? its not ok if a girl does it but if a guy does then its just normal for them to? girls get hurt a lot easier then guys do... (link)
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while that is true that girls get hurt usually more easily... gurls r also a lot more mature and kno how to control themselves where as guys dont really... not very well lol... its not really fair but i say get used to it.. unless ur man is touching theres no reason he cant look... but thats just me
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wats the best way to get a gurl ,that u like ALOT and u dont got a chnce with cause u already kno she dont like u, out of ur head?
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its not easy but try looking for someone else and at all costs stay away from the girl u like. go out w/ friends and look for girls and talk to them and stuff... find someone else u like.
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Theres this guy and he likes me and I like him..he's coming over to hang out two days from now and hes gonna ask me out...I just wanted to hang out first..but anyways whenever we talk online we have all these pauses...are there any solid topics that could keep a conversation going for more then 2 minutes? I'm scared we'll have nothing to talk about and stuff when he comes over!!!! (link)
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akward silences r awful but if u feel one coming try asking him a question about his interests or his past or something and branch off that. or tell him about somehting u like and see if he branches off it u kno. just talk about each other and u should be pretty good.
good luck
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How do you kiss good? Liek I know how to give little pecks and stuff but you do you make out...like i've heard the whole "Let it hapen" thing but how do youput your lips on his and stuff? And should i chew gum if I know i'm gonna kiss someone? becausei don't want bad breath! but is it bad to kiss with gum? ahh PLEASE HELP! (link)
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do not kiss w/ gum not a good idea especially the first time lol... when u go in to kiss a guy just start w/ a peck and then slowly open ur mouth to let ur toung in, he should follow unless hes an idiot. and then yeah just kinda let it happen. like play w/ his toung w/ urs... just try not to get to much spit involved lol
good luck :-D
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How do you breakup with sumone that loves yOU?! (link)
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omg that is so hard. but if u dont love the person back u have to end it. u cant lead them on, it will hurt them more. so just tell the person that u dont feel the same way or w/e and just be honest. always be honest.
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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all? (link)
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ask them a question about their intrests or their past or something. asking questions is always a good convo starter. or u could tell him about you and see if he picks it up and relates.
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i like this girl more than anything and i would kill to be with her, i know she feels it to. but she has a bf, what should i do
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well... thats tough... if she likes u enough then maybe shed be willing to brake up w/ her bf for u... but maybe she wouldnt for past reasons or maybe because shes the type who knows shes got it good and doesnt want to give it up and risk getting hurt. i definitly wouldnt get ur hopes up for this girl tho cause it would be wrong of u to force her out of the relationship shes in and just sitting around waiting isnt the best either. only fools wait for one thing forever... anyways its mainly up to her i guess cause shes the one w/ the bf but talk to her about it and see how she honestly completely feels...dont even wait for something thats not worth it tho.
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okay i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I think i'm in love with her:-D. She's so awesome. What could i get for her or do for her to show her that i love her? i wanna do something original but not to weird lol. thanks lol. (link)
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awww thats so cute.. well personally im a hopeless romantic and i kno a lot of girls r... so maybe like roses or soemthing sweet like that and tell her how u feel, thats the best thing. maybe invite her over and like watch a movie or something.. just be sweet. if u wanna go original tho maybe go somewhere where u guys can like watch the sunset or look at the stars or something girls loooove that lol.. trust me i kno lol good luck
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well i juss got a new bf today.. and you know how u hab those awkard silent moments at the begining of a new relationshp?!! well i dont like them!! what can i talk to him about htat will make him open up more..and not be like "so..yeah.." LOl. PLEASE HELP.
OH and we already takled abuot music and sports... LOL.. any other topics!!??
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when i have those akward moments i just start talking about something i heard about recently or something stupid that happened to me that day lol or my past or something. asking questions is always good cause it will get the guy to open up and you can learn more about him too. talk about each other get more personal.
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I really like this guy who is a year older than me and can drive (I cant for a few more months) Well, my mom knows about him and said its fine if we hang out. He invited me to a party with a bunch of people but she said no!! I was so pissed off because she said we could hang out but she wont let me go to parties... any ideas to convince her to let me go?! Thanks!! (link)
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let her meet him. if she likes him and sees that hes a kool guy then she'll proly be more willing to let you go with him. and let her make all the ground rules like be home when she says and call her to check up that way she'll trust you more and let you go.
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If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
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it depends... in high school ages arent to far apart. as u get older age is a lot less of a differance. however if your like 13 and the other person is like 10... well there is a bigg differance there. but like the same age ratio would be completely different if older. like if you were 17 and the other person was 14. i dont think that is to much of a big deal. and then like 20 and 23 is nothing at all.
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The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =( (link)
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well its nice that he doesnt do it around you. but alchohol can make you do stupid stuff. so im not sure id trust him going out and drinking all the time w/out you. i can understand that it would be hard to move on especially if you get to see the good side of him and never the stupid drunken side. but honestly this guy is gonna end up getting in trouble with all the drinking he does. id talk to him about it and maybe... well tell him you dont like him doing it at all really and u want him to cut down or something :-/ otherwise yeah, you gotta find someone else.
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I had a b/f for 9 months. We broke up b/c he wanted to go to drugs and I didn't want to be with someone like that. I told him at the beginning of our relationship if he wanted to do drugs I'm not stopping him but he won't be with me. So he chose drugs...week later he wants me back. I finally stood up for something I believe in, and I know I won't take him back...but what do I say to him? (link)
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tell him that you are going to stand by what you said and you will continue to stand by what you said because if you give in your just going to disapoint yourself. no guy is worth that. and if he decided to choose drugs over you at all then he definitly doesnt deserve you. just tell him you are not going to be w/ someone who would for minute choose drugs over you and that as long as hes doing the drugs you cannot take him back. and maybe u might never take him back, thats your desicion.
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ok ive only had sex with 2 guys but im always doin stuff with guys. like with the guys that havnt gotten hand jobs or fingered girls, stuff like that. ive only done this like with 6 or 7 guys.. am i a slut? (link)
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hmm well thats kinda hard cause i have some friends who do that but i wouldnt consider them sluts cuz they r awesome people. now the ones who do it and do it just cause they dont give a fuck or w/e well thats kinda slutty. so cause i dont know u i wouldnt know how to judge it. try asking like ur best friend or soemone really honest they will kno if ur a slut or not
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Hey! my name is soulsista. I need some good advice on this situation.you see, my friend is going to junior high as a seventh grader. She has only dated twice.Once from kindergarten to 1st grade and another in about 4th or 5th grade.
she really needs to know if she should start dating again or just stay single for now. (link)
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uh yeah... i maan if she likes someone she should so go for it. i mean if she doesnt then no she doesnt have to go looking for soemone but she shouldnt not date anyone just to not date anyone theres no point in that. dating is fun lol
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