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Hey I'm Jodie. I'm pretty awesome at giving advice to everyone.
I dont beat around the bush though. I am blunt and sarcastic, and I'll tell you exactly what I think. Get used to it. If you rate me low, it doesn't break my heart.
I haven't had the best life. Its had its stressful times. But I use that to my advantage now. Its made me a wiser person.
I'm funny, and outgoing. I'm generally a pretty happy person. And I'll try my best to answer any question that you throw on the table.
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my friend keeps sayin i lyk this boy called jordan i keep goin no dnt bova naw i dnt lyk him but i really do lyk him :D hes luvly i dnt know wat 2 do tho cos i dnt wunu tell my frend that i lyk him really so wat can i do ?? answer asap!! x
your an idiot. i dont even understand what your trying to ask. type like a normal human being, you fuckwad.
friday will be my 6 month anniversary w/ my boyfriend. we want to do something special to celebrate, but i have no idea what we should do. any opinions?
have lots of animal sex
Sooo..me && my boyfriend are engaged, and he`s grounded until may 7th..he turns 18 10 days later. i`m allowed over his house if his mom is home, but he works every friday saturday and sunday from 4-8. and my mom never wants to take me over there, she never will!! and he only lives 13 freaking minutes away!! neither of us drive, and even if we did get our temps, we`d have to have a parent in the car anyways, right??
like, he sometimes takes the bus, his mother rarely drives him anywhere, either. i`m scared that when he moves out, my mom won`t let me over his CriB, because it`s not supervised? i turn 18 in december..and we plan on getting married june 30th, 2008 ((my mom`s bday, just to piss her off))
my mom was talking about how my friend kayla is getting married this summer after she graduates, and she said it`s stupid. ((she doesn`t know that me and adam are engaged))
yea, he`s not allowed to go anywhere until may 7th, and even then. it will be hard for us to see each other..my mom is taking me today, but she`s really pissed about it, and she said never again..
help please??
Are you sure you're even ready to get married? If you still get grounded, and do little immatures things like have the wedding on your moms birthday just to piss her off, and go "&&" and "(( ))", it doesn't sound like you are mature enough for this step. But if you really think you are ready, just wait it out, or be more honest with your mom, try and act mature about it too. If you're turning 18 in December well then just move in with him, if you're getting married you need to be living together anyways. If he is still getting grounded at the age of 17, and you're not allowed to see your boyfriend or fiance or whatever it is, then maybe you and your mom have trust issues with this guy, try and work that out before you go and get married.
so basically the other day i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend he said to call him at one. So i call him no answer so i figure ill go spend time with other people till he calls me back. Well 5 at night rolls around i call him again still no reply. My one friend then says she called and talked to him. i was like wtf why would he do that to me. So i call again no answer. So i look at his myspace im not anywhere on his top.(i was number one) WEIRD. So then i write him a message telling him how i feel and i write on my myspace that i found another guy just to see if that would get his attention so he would call me. So then he calls me the next day is like whats with the message and said he didnt have his cell phone and he had a buncha missed calls from my frineds and stuff. So i of course felt like an idiot so he didnt talk to me because i was at my friends house. Then my he calls me later and it turns up he thought i had another guy lined up because my one frined who said she called him and answered said so. HE didnt know who to believe!!! And apparently he never even talked to her that night. So she screwed up the realtionship. Then later he calls and says lets just forget about the whole thing. Then the next day he tells me things are weird. WAY TO SEND MIXED MESSAGES. So i start crying yet again. So he wanted to break up so we could fix things. what is there to fix i dont get it. I AM STILL IN LOVE. And today we were suppose to hang out but his mom opened his mail(hes 18) and saw he went over the limit on his account so she wont let him use the one car. i want things to go back to the way they were. Should i just end this or should i continue trying to fix it?
Why would you lie to your boyfriend and say you have another guy???? Of course he's going to break up with you when you say you found another guy. Why would he trust you afterwards when he know you just lied to him?? Its not your friend who ruined the relationship, I think you did that yourself. You sound young, maybe he wants a more mature relationship because hes 18. Maybe this is for the best.
i'm giong out with this guy and he is always alot diffrent when he is around his friends. he always ignores me and doesnt hang out with me, what do i do...or say to him?
Most guys are like that.
They change the way the act when they are with their friends.
They always want to act all cool in front of their friends.
And I bet when its just you and him hes all sweet again right?
Its like off the movie Grease lol.
Anywho..if hes like that..hes probably not worth your time..guys like that are immature, and sometimes they grow out of it..but some guys dont..some guys are dicks forever.
So I would just talk to him and say "You dont act the same when your with your friends. You seem like a different person when you are with them..you ignore me and I dont like it."
And if he is a good boyfriend he will try to change..if he isnt..he wont try to change and you should dump him and find yourself a better guy.
im only in 8th grade so i do need help
okay last year when i was in 7th grade i thought this kid brandon was ugly because he had a afro
and now he dosent have one and he looks way better but he dosent no i like him
and i get like 10 dollars a day for lunch money(im no fat) and when i go into third period with brandon i always give him money i dont no why and when i go to sit in my seat he stares at me alot and i stare at him back like the other day he came to sit by me to copy my homework and he kept messing up on a easy word and he was like im not stupid sarah just to let you no and like to me he talks real nice and stares at me
and what should i do PLEASE HELP ME
I dont understand what you are trying to ask.
But why do you give him your money? Chances are, he wont start to have a crush on you if you always give him your money..he will like you for all the wrong reasons..he could just use you for the money..so just keep your money.
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How was that answer mean?
Okay well There is this Kid in my grade and his name is Chris. I really like him but like i dont think i like him as a boy friend just a REALLY good friend well anways...he is amazingly cute and he is in every single one of my classes. I knew him before school started because we were getting our sports physicals together and we had a conversation. It wasnt really a big one though it was Just like hi whats up. I mean at school we somtimes just say like two words to eachother. I think he likes me too because he always stares. But i am WAY to shy to ask him like anything i have basically just been waiting for him to ask me like...my phone number or my screen name or something but he hasnt. I dont know if he is just shy or if he really doesnt like me at all. Please answer back
look at all the other questions that sound exactly the same as the one you just asked and see those answers.
well i like my cousin and he likes me to and i like him because he is really sweet to me and treats me different than other guys. and he lives in mexico and i live in california so as u can see we arent really close cousins. the first time i met him was 2 summers ago and from then we liked each other but we know we can't b together but we want to be together.
wat should i do ?
nooooooo
your hormones are probably just raging.
dont do anything with him.
its inbred.
its unnatural.
its illegal.
i like this girl but she one of my best friends and she only want to be my friend and nothing else what shall i do
Hmm..Thats a toughie.
I would just try and stop having those feelings for her. Even though its really hard to do.
Because, even IF you ever dated, you would probably break up at some point, and maybe lose her as a friend because of the history.
I wouldnt want to lose one of my best friends... so I would just try and get over her.
Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast
Different girls are attracted to different things.
I dont know how full and even facial hair would be on a 15 year old..but if you like it keep it.
ok so her it is.
i have this boyfriend and we have been going out for almost 10 months.
i just recently moved to hawaii.
i dont know if he wants to stay in a long distance relationship, and when i ask him he says yes, but i dont know if he is telling the truth because he always sounds kindof shakey or something.
I'm not sure how i can ask him to not make him feel nervous or something.
What should i like ask him?
Well, you didnt say where you lived before, but Hawaii is pretty far away from everything so..
I honestly wouldnt have a long distance relationship. It makes things hard because you cant see each other every day, just talk.
And it might be fine to just talk to each other for the first couple weeks or so..but then you dont know if he is off with another girl on the weekends, because your all the way over in hawaii.
You might've trusted him before, but trust me..its alot easier for guys to cheat when their girlfriend is 1000 miles away.
It will be hard to break up with him, and it will break your heart, but your heart will heal.
My boyfriend has another girlfriend and I known this from the start it piss`s me off but I love him to much to leave him and stuff but his bestfriend/cousin said I have to make him like me more then her. But I just don`t know how to do that. What should I wear, what should I say and do. got any advise please help me out :[
You know about your boyfriend having another girlfriend???
DUMP HIM!!
He doesn't deserve to get away with having 2 girlfriends.
DUMP HIM. You might feel bad, but in the end, broken hearts heal, and he's the loser who thinks he can get away with having 2 girlfriends.
Ok So I'm a guy, who has had many girlfriends, but for some reason I find lots of guys attractive. I also like to watch gay porn....why is this???
Maybe your bi-sexual?
Or maybe just curious?
I was just wondering what do you think would be an appropriate age to start dating?
Whenever you find someone who you like, and likes you back. Just dont rush yourself, and dont do anything you dont wanna do.
You should probably wait til your parents are cool with it too, because its a hassle trying to keep up with all the lies you would have to tell them.
I really like this boy. But he doesn`t trust me because of the guys I wen`t out with and hes afraid that I`m going to go back with them but I tell him all the time I`m not going to. So how do I get him to believe me what are some good advice`s?
If he doesn't trust you, I don't think the relationship would work. A key factor in relationships is trust.
Find someone else who trusts you, they are more worth your time.
i have been taking the contraceptive pill for 2 years now and am in a serious relationship and am looking to get pregnant how long will it be till i concieve???? i stopped taking it last sunday???
Ok. Firstly, how old are you.
If you arent at least in your 20s you shouldnt be having a baby. I KNOW lots of 16,17,18,19 yr olds have babies but its not like they really wanted it.
Are you ready to be taking care of a baby? Do you think you can afford it? And do you have your life on track to be caring for another person?
It sounds like you are a bit on the young side, because the obvious answer is: you will get pregnant when you get pregnant. stop taking the pill, and keep trying til it happens.
so i really liked this guy and i was pretty sure that he liked me to but he was to shy to say it sooo i made the first move and told him that i liked him he told me that he liked me to i was so exited and i thought that we where gunna go out. But summer came and i soon found out that he had gotten a new gf... I thought everything was fine but aparently not... he doesnt really even talk to me enymore..i was so depressed what should I do? What went wrong?
sorry for such a long question plz help tho!!!
Sometimes people like you, and then they find someone they like more, and then they dont like you. Your heart will break, but it will also heal.
You will find someone else.
Welcome to the wonderful world of being a teen.
here is my problem. I am the kind of girl everyone says is really pretty but never gets a boyfriend or one that is high enough to my standards that i would day. I can get the ugly guys but comeon who wants that.
Anyways here is my situation. I met this kid at work and i found out he went to school with me. He is a veryyy atractive kid and seems like a truely nice guy.
He seems like the guy i have always wanted to date until i found out today he is a pot smoker.
My question is does that make him worth dating? I don't know much about him and by the looks of his myspace it looks like he does not smoke very often. I am totally anti smoking and anti drugs and out of all of my friends i seem to be the most outragous when it comes to that topic (i have drank only a small handful of times). So pretty much i am a good girl.
As long as he doesn't smoke around me you know i don't care but is her serously like boyfriend material? like i don't want to get my heartbroken over a guy who was never going to be comitted or whatever.
I am very confused on what to think and how to deal with this because i believe he likes me and i sorta like him too.
I personally would still date him. Hes probably still a good guy even though he smokes weed. You didnt say how old you were, but I'm assuming you are 14 or 15? Things will be changing soon, and you most likely will find that more and more people will drink, smoke pot and cigarettes more when they get older. People love to expieriment with things. They are still good people even though they dont have the best habits.
It basically comes down to, if you like him, and can see yourself with him, then try it out and date him. If the weed thing gets in the way of the relationship you can always break up with him.
okay so see i have this boyfriend and he lives like 3 blocks away and i just met him 3 months ago and we've been going out for over a month. See he's about 2 years older than me but is in just one grade ahead of me and he's been going to a privaate school his whole life soo he doesn't really know people that go to the local school. well he's really hott so a ton of girls want to hang out with him soo he's hangs out with some but also tries to hang out with me every day. on his AIM profile it's says "oliva i miss you soo much hopefully i'll see you this weekend it's been so hard without you
Guys are allowed to have friends that are girls. Don't over react too much. If it bothers you lots, just sit down and talk to him about it, and get some info on the girls that he hangs out with.
You could always try to tag along when he hangs out with them, and you can see how he acts around them, and how they act around him.
How do you know that he asked the girl if she ever liked him?
Did he tell you he asked her that?
Because if he did, hes really stupid.
If someone told you that he said that, they might be lying, or dont know the whole story.
Just talk to him. Hes your boyfriend, you have the right to know how he feels about you.
Just dont be one of those jealous, overprotective girlfriends that dont let their guys hang out with other girls though.
Okay,this is kinda long.But here it goes.
I like this guy named Tray and Im not sure if he likes me back.He looks at me sometimes..But i think he likes my friend lacie,because today he hit her on the head with a peice of paper but he did the same to codie his guy friend,and he usually flirts with a girl he likes I think but i do know that like 3 to 4 days ago.Tray and Codie was looking at me and when i looked there way they both turned there heads and than codie kinda hit tray in the shoulder but tray looks at me sometimes but not a whole lot but i would keep liking him but I dont know if he likes me or not I hope he does but i need advice HELP!!!!
instead of driving yourself crazy with the whole "does he like me?" thing, you could just go up to him and try flirting with him a bit.
Or you could ask him to hang out after school or something, see where it goes from there. Maybe after a while you will gather up enough guts to ask him if he likes you or not.
as for the hitting your friend on the head with a piece of paper..that probably didnt mean much, because if he did the same with his guy friend, well then I dont think its a hidden "i love you" signal.
Just hang out with him more. Maybe sparks will fly.