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okay, soo i'm 15 years old and i've never had a boyfriend before.. I find being my age and never having a boyfriend is kind of lame. haha.
I've always been really shy, so talking to guys is something i've never really been able to do.
All my friends have had boyfriends but they're all not shy. i've always been shy so coming out of my shell is hard, the only time guys really talk to me is to get the answers on a worksheet, or to ask me for a pencil! anyways, I like this guy but I have no idea what to do to get him to like me too. I don't have any classes with him anymore but I do see him in the hallways sometimes. when we did have a class together he was always really nice to me, he would notice everything about me like if I got a new pair of jeans or other little things and he would always TRY to talk to me but I was too shy to hold a conversation with him.
WHAT DO I DO?!
what are some ways I can get guys to notice me? I don't want to get of highschool and have no experience with guys.
How can I come out of my shell at school?
I neeeed help :(
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hi I am 18 and i didn't have a boyfriend until i was 15 either I lost my virginty to my best friend and we ended up dating and then he broke my heart i took him back and about a year later i got pregnant he was there for me but he left me when she was 10 months he broke my heart again.
If you want to talk to this guy you need to become really good friends bu not to good where he won't date you but start there and then little by little he may like you in the end.
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There is this guy I’ve been with for almost two years now, and our relationship has been kind of bumpy… We’re very different from each other, until we come across these little things that remind us both how similar we are… But anyway, the differences between us have started some very big fights and we have been fighting since six months into our relationship. About a year into our relationship, he broke it off because he said we fought too much and because we were so different… That crushed me, but things started to build up again, and before we knew it, we were celebrating our second valentines day together again. I’m in love with him, crazy about him, and I thought things were starting to improve between us, But this past February, he broke it off again after another big fight… He said he couldn’t take the fighting anymore and he was tired of hurting me, etc. etc… But he wanted to remain friends… I wasn’t so lucky this time around and he’s been trying his best to stick to just being friends… He doesn’t kiss me anymore, he doesn’t tell me he loves me, and I hardly get to spend time with him anymore… And I’ve tried, but it’s hard and it hurts to not be close to him anymore, and I guess that because of that, we’ve been fighting way more than when we were together… It’s probably immature and stupid, but the fact is that I can’t pretend to just be his friend when I’m crazy in love with him… And I’ve told him all this, and a while ago after another one of our fights, I told him I couldn’t take it anymore, that I’ve been too depressed trying to be his friend, and that we fight too much and that I couldn’t take it anymore and I told him that it was best if we didn’t see or talk to each other ever again… He cried and he begged and he kissed me and he said he loved me too much to loose me forever and he asked me to please try harder to be his friend… So seeing him so hurt, made me give in again and I tried again, but the fights came back, and a couple of days ago we went trough the same thing again… I told him I hated fighting with him, cause it was hurting both of us and I told him I loved him, but that I couldn’t pretend to keep doing this… I was a bit more firm this time, but he cried again and that was that… I erased his number from my phone, but the next day he called me back over and over again, until I eventually gave in and answered… He told me he loved me and couldn’t live without me and that he needed me by his side (just not as his girlfriend), he cried a lot and begged and said he would kiss me if I wanted and that he would spend all day with me together and we could make love and do everything we loved doing when we were together… and I gave in again, and yesterday, Friday we did just that… But at the end of the night I cried again because I knew that when the day was over, we were going go back to just being friends… And that’s what happened and here I am, depressed again because I can’t have the guy I love… BUT technically I do have him… So my question is, should I wait until he’s ready for a relationship, or should I let him go, for real this time… And if he loves me so much, why doesn’t he just want to be with me, am I missing something? Any advice would be appreciated,
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ok yeah this is really immature on his part he obviously wants you or he wouldn't keep calling you what you should do is tell him that you can't do the friends thing because what are you going to do when he get a new girlfriend then you will be nowhere it seems like right now hes using you until he does get one so just ignore him don't answer his phone calls just don't talk to him at all trust me he will realize how much he misses you there and he will come back to you more then a friend but for now just stay away
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so he's pretty popular.. im somewhat popular i guess.. we both like know eachother.. like who the other one is.. n talk online a little bit.. but i want him to like me.. how can i show him that we "click"? (link)
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just hang out with him and well i don't know i am in a relationship right now that i somewhat popular but he is really popular and we met through a friend and hung out alot and became best friends over 2 months and then we started dating so yea just start hanging out with him and be yourself don't act like anyone but yourself
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my names lisa...(13/f) ok so im good friends, well actually best friends, with this guy named jake...and for some wierd reason i think im starting to like him, but im way to scared to ask him out or anything because im afraid it would wreck our friendship. Plus i have no idea if he even likes me or not...some people say he does but i dont know for sure. What do i do!?!?!?! (link)
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ok ive been in this situation im goin through it right now lets see i had this friend and he was really good friend and he liked me alot but i couldn't get myself to say yes and go out with him but then he asked me out finally after like 1 month after asking me out i said yes to him and i am going out with him right now and it is going good because we know eachother so well already and i can tell him almost anything and he tells me i think about everything i can tell you what will happend next but i will tell you to take a chance and just move with it don't hold back
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13/F
I always avoid guys I like. I'm either really intimidated by him or I want to seem more confident by not talking to him or I'm embarrassed of liking a guy.
I'm quite an introvert. I'm really embarrassed that a guy might know I like him and I try to hide the fact that I like him by never to talking to him much, or avoiding him, never making eye contact, etc.
I'm too shy about this and I need some advice. (Books, tips, exercises? Anything.)
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well lets start out like this i have the same problem as you but mine is more i don't like the way i look even though everyone thinks im really pretty i just don't see it but anyways
just start hanging out with guys more then you to girls do what the guys do and you might end up meeting a guy that you will like and by that time you will already be comfortable hanging out with him so being with him would be no problem. your everytime i think about being shy i think i only got one life to live so i need to live my life it doesn't matter what people think of me. and that helps me through that people think what they want to think just remember that ok the guy thing like i said just hang out with a bunch of guys do the guy thing then you will find a comfortable guy to be around
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i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?
like what are some signs to know?
guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=) (link)
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1. he wont be excited when you start dating
2. he wont tell any of his friends that he is dating you or he might just tell a few
3. if alls he wants to do is makeout or just do sexual stuff
4. if he wont sit down with you and have a real close conversation
5. if he doesn't look at you alot
6. if you look into his eyes and his pupils don't get big hes not that interested in you
7. if he told you he loved you when you first started dating hes using you
8. if he didn't really know you when you started dating then he is probley using you
9. if you call him and he makes up excuses to get off the phone fast hes using you
10. if he calls you hot or sexy instead of pretty or beutiful hes using you
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out like 1 or 2 weeks now and we're gonna make out and he's most likely gonna feel me up haha I'm okay with it and everything haha.BUT he said I can feel him "down" if I want to so if I have the courage tonight haha how would I go about doing this without putting my hands down his pants or anything ? I just wanna get him exited haha thnkx a million !! [p.s. no lectures please haha]
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well if you want to get him excited what kind of exited like horny excited well if that happends he might be excpecting you to do more with him like stick your hand in his pants so he won't get blue balls but other then that well you can grind on his lap guys like that.
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ok
so i finally got up the courage to ask this girl i've known for a while out, and she said yes!
so we're gonna go see a movie next weekend- she had to babysit all day friday and i left town for the weekend friday afternoon- and now i just am not realy sure what i should do...i think we're going to see the new Harry Potter film...but what do i do? do i put my arm around her? do i hold her hand? do i buy her ticket? i'm kinda confused...i don't have a whole lot of experience with the whole dating thing- i've only ever had one girlfriend before and she was kidna a slut and did whatever- but this girl's not like that, she's beautiful and has an amazing personality...
so what do i do? my brother keeps telling me i'm past the hard part (asking her out)...now i'm just worried i'll screw up on the first date...
thanks
S
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well lets see ok you should probley put your arm around her or do what she thinks will be most comfortable hey you never know she could be the one to make the first move
about the buying the ticket thing well i personally don't like guys buying me stuff but this girl might what you to buy her ticket since you are the one that asked her to the movies in the first place
just don't go without money
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My parents are out of town for the weekend, so my boyfriend is planning on coming over tomorrow night. We've talked about it, and both decided that we're definitely not ready to have sex. We just really enjoy eachothers' company, and want to be close to one another. Are there any other things we should talk about before he comes? Any additional advice we might need? (link)
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let me tell you right now talking and hanging out isn't what it will all turn out to be trust me you might think that your not ready for all of that right now but then when he is there it will just happen
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I am 12/f;;
I am really confused,, because i have not really had a proper boyfriend before, and soo i have not kissed anyone before either,,
i like this guy but i no he will NEVER like me back;;
anyway, all of my mates are so much prettier than me, and they have all had lots of boyfriends before, and madeout with them,,
pleases help me, wot shall i do ??
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don't worrie well i think the best way for the guys to like you is to become one of there friends do stuff that they like to do and don't act like you have a big crush on them just be friends and then after a while the guy will begain to like you
and about the kissing thing that is nothing to worrie about it will come to you just remember to always turn your head to the right and don't stick your whole tongue in his mouth just the tip of it and move along with his you will catch on
and don't worrie about you not being as pretty as you friends because in the long run they will be the ones that mess up in life and believe in yourself and know that you don't have to be the best looking girl out of you and your friends you just have to have the best personality and the guys will like you because guys like girls that are confident
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ok well I'm 13 and I had never really french kissed anyone before last night. I was completely honest with my boyfriend and told him that I wanted to so we frenched. he knew I had no idea what I was doing and I still don't! He said that was pretty good for my first time! But I don't know what I am doing! what the heck and I soposed to do with my tongue? please help!!!
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1. always turn your head to the right
2. just move you tongue with his like your playing a game or something
3. be honest and tell him that you still don't get what you are supposed to do and if this guy really likes you he will help you out and understand
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oh and i was nervious my 12345 times of makeing out even though it was with the same guy i was always nervious i would mess up but everything turned out right in the end
and if you do mess up just laugh about it
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Hey im a 13/f and i have a boyfriend who is really nice and i love him to death but the thing is when we are on the phone he always talks to me and he is super nice and shares feeling with me and understands me but at school he pays absulootly no atention to me like he'll talk a little bit and hug me but when he talks to me he just says hi. And he shouldn't be embarised to talk to me im one of the populars and everyone know's we are dating so can you help??
Love,
Need's more atention!!! (link)
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well maybe he is nervious to actually talk to you and maybe he thinks that he might say the wrong thing so instead of saying the wrong thing he thinks it would be better for him not to say barley anything at all
I hope i helped
ask him bout it
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14/f In my town, there is a "nightclub" for teenagers to go to where people basically only grind and hook up all night. I've been there a few times, but I just do not understand how I can hook up with someone. Normally, I will just grind and then after the song is over walk away/grind with someone else. I really want to hook up with somebody, so how could I do it? Do you just turn around while grinding? Also, what if they don't want to hook up, then that is so embarassing! I would like any aadvice on how to hook up (with random strangers) while at a louuuud party/while grinding? Like is there a way you can let them know you want to hook up?
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i hope you know that hooking up means that you go have sex with a person
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MY question is just basically what age do most teenagers have their first kiss? And what age do they get their first boyfriend? I'm fom a respectable family and I don't want to spoil my fam's name..but I really want to have a boyfriend BTW i'm 15/f.
My mum had her first bf like 18 or 19! And this is kinda weird...but I don't think I can't wait that long cause I mean most people i know have haad a bf and a first kiss! Please answer!!
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hi well i am 15 my birthday is and well i just had my first kiss like about 2 months ago im not a geek or anything its just that i have been having family problems so that kept me from having a boyfriend but my boyfriend that i had my first kiss with turned out to me a total jerk and alls he wanted was sex and i am still a virgin so i dumped him its all good now though so don't worrie your time will come mine came unexpected
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hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate. (link)
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yeah i will help you i am having guy problems myself so maybe you can help me with mine as i help you with yours
i got Msn IM me any time at
JessicaBusick@hotmail.com
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There's this guy who says he likes me (on this site) and I have no idea how to talk to him. Because I don't know who he is...he sent me a personal question about a girl named milly, me thinking it was a quincedent answered and when he gave me feed-back he said i like YOU (my name is milly)...so what do?
I don't get in a relationship with someone I don't know and I don't meet with someone somewhere who I talked to over the Internet...I want to ask him why and a bunch of questions...
please help if you know what I'm talking about and trying to say...
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um mabey it is someone that you do know and do talk to and doesn't know any other way how to talk to you but to send you a private question just ask him some questions
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I heard sme feedback from my friends that although in porn girls like crazy 11 inch dicks, in real life the girls I talked to say that all they feel is pain when guys with 7 to 8 inch dicks have sex with them.They can't really feel pleasure but just a painful feeling and it also is harder for them to blow, and it's a disadvantage for the guy as well because he won't get to have his whole dick covered.
While some girls in my class said that guys with relatively small, maybe 4 to 5 inch dicks are good because they hit the g-spot which happens to be where the head of the dick goes to, so in other words, it's like a joystick.So which is it?I'm confused. (link)
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ok i am 15/f and i think that the girls in the porno's like them big because they are lose and the girls at your school arn't they are tight and when you are tight you like them smaller like 4in 5in mabey sometimes 6in but anything bigger then that girls at your school will think hurt i perfer the smaller side ok
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My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me
Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.
Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.
Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.
Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.
I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.
Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]
Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.
Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.
THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.
Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]
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hey don't worrie if you need anyone to talk to then just im me at JessicaBusick@hotmail.com ok i will help you because i think that know one should make front of peoples phisical apperence well im k
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im 16/f and this guy is 14 i know age difference but i dont care..
i started to kinda like this guy before he got a girlfriend. we always flirted and he would touch me and we would wrestle and i would get on top of him but then when i find out he asked this girl out that he liked i was kinda..heartbroken (link)
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ok well i know how you feel because i have the same problem but the thing is what you should do is write out a speech that would really get to him but say it don't red it off a paper to him that is lame let him think that you just said that speech right there that yiu made it up right there but you have to make it really good and it must touich his heart if yoiu know what i mean well i am going to try to do the same thing well i hope this is good advice but well good luck
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14/f. ok i dont normaly get tounge tied or anything around guys, even if i like them. but there is one guy i like sooooo much. im different around him, its like when he smiles at me, my face instantly goes red and i forget how to speak. my problem is that i cant ask him out, or even flirt with him for that matter, i get to shy. and trust me, im NOT a naturaly shy person. I dont know what to do. i just cant figure this guy out.
oh did i mention, he is like drop dead gorgous, hes like the hottest guy in my school, in my opinion. [not all the girls like him, some even say he has a big nose, i dont think so] (link)
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um jsut try saying what you want to say to him infront of a mirrior first then do the real speaking
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