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Spending the night
My parents are out of town for the weekend, so my boyfriend is planning on coming over tomorrow night. We've talked about it, and both decided that we're definitely not ready to have sex. We just really enjoy eachothers' company, and want to be close to one another. Are there any other things we should talk about before he comes? Any additional advice we might need?
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let me tell you right now talking and hanging out isn't what it will all turn out to be trust me you might think that your not ready for all of that right now but then when he is there it will just happen
um there is nothing really to talk about
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Well, are you planning on kissing/making out, or anything? If yes, you have to set down specific boundaries. Things can easily heat up, and lead to other things very quickly. (such as sex.) You should say something like, "I don't want to do anything past kissing." Or, "I don't want to go anywhere past touching." Also, make sure if things get out of hand, you have to tell him to stop. And he has to respect your decision. If he agrees to all of this, then that's good. But still, be careful. Stay out of any bedrooms. Stick to staying downstairs, maybe watch a movie, or go on the computer with him. Other than that, nothing else. Just maybe what movie he'd like to see.
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Well you sound mature enough not to have sex with him.. but I would always be preparred just in case! You never know! Even if you don't have sex condoms are good if you do anything sexual!
Now do your parents know he's staying? Perhaps you should talk about that! Make him aware that it has to stay between you two!
But just have fun.. make the most of it and be safe!!
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