14/f. ok i dont normaly get tounge tied or anything around guys, even if i like them. but there is one guy i like sooooo much. im different around him, its like when he smiles at me, my face instantly goes red and i forget how to speak. my problem is that i cant ask him out, or even flirt with him for that matter, i get to shy. and trust me, im NOT a naturaly shy person. I dont know what to do. i just cant figure this guy out.
oh did i mention, he is like drop dead gorgous, hes like the hottest guy in my school, in my opinion. [not all the girls like him, some even say he has a big nose, i dont think so]
charli answered Monday July 17 2006, 5:15 pm: Yep every girls been here lol. The easiest way to talk to him without going all red and tongue tied is through the miracle of 'SMS.' Or if you have it, msn. If you cant do either of these then why not get one of your friends to invite him and some friends out, go bowling or to the movies, places like this make it easier for social interation. Let me know how you get one l.x.charli.x.l@hotmail.co.uk good luck! :) [ charli's advice column | Ask charli A Question ]
laycieee answered Monday July 17 2006, 11:38 am: Yeah, that's definately happened to the best of us. If you really like this guy, then relax. You don't have to be nervous around guys because most of them get equally nervous around us girls. If he smiles at you, smile back. I guess what you really need to do is put yourself in his place--he might like you, and if he does, then he's nervous around you, too. The moment you see him, take a deep breath and forget thinking about it and just do. Smile back and when and if he talks to you, pretend as if you're talking to one of your guy friends or girl friends. Hope I helped :) [ laycieee's advice column | Ask laycieee A Question ]
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