it's been 8 months and i still can't get over my ex , its so hard i try and try i do everything. and i feel like he feels the same my heart feels it ...
im a female/ 18
What I suggest is that you start talking to other guys, it helps when getting over someone. Just remember not to start anything serious if you still have feelings for your ex because then you'll end up even more hurt. What also help is keeping yourself busy. Do some volunteer work or pick up more hours at work. Make yourself so busy you won't have time to think about him and then it will get to the point that even when you do have time to think he won't be on your mind. Everyone takes their own amount of time to get over an ex. There is no specific set time that it takes to get over an ex. Hope I helped.
~Jani~
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Okay so I need some advice. I was on vacation with my best friend and she has a brother who is going to be a sofmore in college. He brother had brought a friend who's the same age and whatnot. Well Im going to be a freshman this year and I never knew what love felt like until her brothers friend walk through the doors. I thought I was too young for love but I don't really know. But anyways I don't know what to do because I have mocha ce with him he's so much older than me but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. What should I do? Please help
-teen in need of advice
Okay so this boy is in collage, right? This means you have to be careful. Most collage boys are only intreasted in flings. So I wouldn't let your emotions cloud your judgement. Also another thing is that I don't believe you can fall in love with someone at first sight. It could be that you have a strong intreast in him or an infatuation. I say that if you're really intreasted in this guy that you start to talk to him, get to know him. I know that can be difficult considering his older and you probably don't see him much. But have your friend set up a fun night with her brother ad ask him to bring his friend along. But again procide with caution because the age difference may come with different veiws and desires. If he's not intreasted don't push it. There are plenty of other guys out there, and the feelings will fade. Trust me I have been in a similar situation. I hope I helped. Let me know if you need anything else.
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My boyfriend of 4 months gave me his expensive senior class ring around a month ago and I came back to my moms and I can't find it. I don't know if I sat it down somewhere before I went to my dads or what. I'm freaking out because it costs a lot of money and if I tell him he'll hate me and his parents will hate me and I don't have any money to pay him back right now. Ive looked all over my room and plan to search the house as soon as possible. What do I do?
What I would recommend is to relax, because if you are in a rush while you’re looking for it you’re never going to find it. After you've taken a few deep breaths think of all the possible paces it could be. If you have searched those places and still haven’t found it, look again it never hurts to check twice. If at the end you can’t find it there’s nothing more you can do but to tell your boyfriend. He might be mad but he won’t hate you. Good luck.
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hi, i am 13 i like this guy at school but i don't know if he likes me back he kinda gives me those looks that are really mysterious and he keeps on standing in my way where ever i am going and he does all of those childish stuff and then in the summer he got him self a girlfriend
and i dont know what to do please help!!!!
thanks :)
Well considering that he has a girlfriend there's not much you can do. What I would suggest to do is just wait until school starts again and if he doesn't have a girlfriend then start talking to him and then maybe he'll get the hint that you like him. But for now i would let it go because he has a girlfriend. Hope I helped.
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Well I really need some love advise. My ex has recently popped back into my life for the fourth time we have gone out three different times that only last a month or so each month in different years. Everytime we talk so many unsure feelings come back but everytime we say we should give it another try it never last mainly because of me. I'm only 19 and I always feel like maybe Im too young to be commited. But this time I'm more sure of who I am and so is he. we have gone through our little phases and we aren't really young and lost. So my question is if anyone can help me figure this out somehow, it is really confusing for me and I really do not want to hurt him in anyway or hurting myself
I think its not that you were too young for a relationship but maybe you just weren't mature enough. I personally feel that after the secound time you should give it a rest because there is obviously a reason why you guys haven't lasted and broken up before. I say that if you don't want to hurt him be completely certain that you are ready for this relationship. It is not the best thing to be in a relationship if your confused so I say talk about taking baby steps in to the relationship to make sure you are certain your making the right choose in getting back with him. And even if it doesn't work out there is always going to be some left over feelings but it doesn't mean that you should get back together. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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Hello there :) well this is my problem. I have a boyfriend we been together for 4 years. on and off. Recently there has been this girl on his Facebook that likes his pictures and also he starts liking her statuses. Last night i was going through her page and saw a comment her friend post on one of her status. It said "oh look who liked this status Jake" I automatically knew she was talking about him because they call my boyfriend jake. There was another status were they were talking about him. he goes to party's with them and his brother. I'm confused because i been seeing this random things on Facebook so if they do this in Facebook imagine in parties. i think im just going to end up breaking up with him even if it hurts. I know it will get better with time :'(
Ok first things first, there will always be some one that gets in the middle of a relationship there just is. The first thing you should do is talk to him. The main problem here is Facebook. Facebook and relationships just don't mix well. What I suggest is that you guys talk this out. Maybe you guys should both consider deactivating your Facebook accounts, which is what every couple should really do. This why you guys can avoid problems like these. And as for the partying thing tell him that you don't feel comfortable with him parting with these girls or maybe that you would like to party with him also. The main thing is that you talk to him before doing anything else. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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So there is a boy @ school that I. Have liked for 2 years... i m popular but way to snooty and spoiled for him! He's so cute and he isn't to popular for me! People say tht we would make a cute couple but he doesn't think any thing like tht of me! How do I get him to like me? I'm obviosly a girl and I'm in 7th grade.
Popularity isn't everything. There are more things in life then that. If you really like him than talk to him like the previous answer says. But also remember that if he ends up not liking you that your only in the 7th grade you still have alot of time ahead of you for boys. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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17/f . For the past year and a half i have been with my boyfriend and he did a lot of shady things such as drink at his house with a girl who gave him oral sex in the past, went out to parties and never told me until i found out from someone else and other things of that magnitude. On the 9th of february, i got really fed up with the disrespect and i never really got over the things he did to me, so i decided it was time to get my revenge and i broke up with him. I went out with my "friend" and she took me to parties with her, convinced me to hang out with guys with her and smoke weed and drink. i realized that lifestyle is not for me and i was much happier with my boyfriend because nobody can compare to him and he was so angry that i was out without him, that he changed his # and completely stopped talking to me. i had my "friend" text him and call him and try and help out the situation by telling lies that we werent really out. little did i know, she was telling him EVERYTHING that we were doing, while she was lying to me and supposedly helping me out. i confessed to us going out, but apparently she told him that i cheated on him with 3 guys when i really didnt. since she was telling the truth about everything else, he doesnt believe i was faithful to him and for the past 3 days all he has done is call me a liar and has BEGGED for me to tell him what he thinks is the truth. what do i tell him, i have done everything i can to try and get him to believe me but he wont. please HELP! i need to keep him in my life, going out wasnt even worth it.
I think the best you can do is forget about him. He odviously doesn't respect you and you said it bothered you that he acted this way, so why would you go back with a guy who treats you this way. I say let him believe whatever he want to believe, you know you didn't cheat on him and thats all that matters. And as for your friend she is obiously a bad friend because she went against you that way. So my advice is to forget them both and meet someone that treats you the right way and a friend that will help you not harm you. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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alright to sum up the situation theres this guy i like who wanted me for a while then we hookeup up once when we were drunk and now were friendly-ish but like nothing is going on. how do i change that?
Well first thing nothings probably happening because you hooked up with him. If you really wanted something to happen then you gave him the wrong idea. If you just want this as a hook up on and off thing then I suggest talking to him about it. I hope I helped.
~Jani~
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My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. I have come to accept the fact that he is just not the type who give gifts and all. But i thought at our first valentines together, he would at least give me something. I am not materialistic but im sure i am not the only one who wishes that our special someone will put some efforts in surprising us during special occasions. My birthday passed, Christmas and new year, the only gift he gave me is the couples ring we both buy for each other. Dont get me wrong, i know he loves me, i am certain of that. He knows how disappointed i was last valentines day because he led me to believe he is up to something. I am not wishing he'd be all hopelessly romantic, but on love days i really really wish he'd grow a tiny bone of romance.
What i would say is to talk to him about this. this is something that obviously bothering you and you have a point. Every girl wants to feel special and get a gift from their boy friends. i would just say to talk to him because nothings going to change unless you say something.
~Jani~
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i need help finding a nickname for my boyfriend
You could use the usual Babe or Baby, or you could do something with his name depending what it is. Hope I helped, let me know if you need anything else.
~Jani~
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i am 14 and have a really big problem. everyone says im too young for love but truth is im not. and I love a girl but she lives too far away for me to see her often enough to date. i love her and she loves me but we cant be together. do i keep talking to her the way i do or just give up?
You should really talk to your parents and maybe you goes can come to an arrangment like weekend visits. But if it doesn't work out then just know that your still young, you will fall in and out love many times in your lifetime. Now i'm not saying that you are to young to know how love feels because you know what you feel but don't worry if it doesn't work out.
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Okay well he broke up with me and then later that night he said he acted stupid and asked if I would take him back. He also said he loves me and has loved me since two years years ago when we started talking. I'm so confused on what to do. So should we stay broken up or should I give him another chance?
i think that you should give him another chance because although he did break up with you he realized he made a mistake. you should ask him why it was that he broke up with you and go from there. hope i helped.
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why my boyfriend is to much possesive for me?
okay there are many reasons, one could be that he gets jelaous easyly so he gets possesive. another reason is that you get alot of attention from guys and he feels that he needs to show that your with him. i think you should talk to him and ask him yourself why his like that. hope i helped.
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I want to talk to him but I'm scared. What should I do ?
you have to talk to him. comunication is the key thing in a relationship so if your boyfriend made you cry you have to let him know tell him what it was that he did that made you cry. you shouldn't be scared iof your boyfriend unless he gave you a reason to be and if he did then you shouldn't be in that relationship. hope i helped, let me know if you need any more help.
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Well im ready and he tells me that hes ready but he wants to wait until he gets up on his feet, and gets his own place... Ive told him that i dont care if its a ring out of the 50 cent thing but he tells me that " no i want you to have the best you can get" or something along thos lines... Is he just trying to avode it or do you think that he really wants to wait...? All i want is to be able to let other people know that im his and you cant have it... And no this is not the reason that i want him to ask... I truly love him with all my heart and soul... I want to be with him forever and i want to start my forever with him... Sorry it was so long.
USA/F/18
i think that its just that he wants to get you what you deserve. guys are loike that so just let him get on his feet and see what happens but if your really doubting that his ready talk to him, ask him if he is ready for this comunacation is the key thing. good luck.
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When i was dating my girlfriend Taylor i didnt feel weird or nervous at all. But whenever i date one of my friends i feel weird, nervous, and i feel like i should break up with them. is it because they were my friends before? i only knew Taylor a week and a half before i started dating her. could it be because i am dating someone who i have known for a while? im so confused. or is it because i still really like Taylor?
i think because you really like taylor because usually if you date a friend and like them its sopposed to be less akward because you know them already but if its akward for you then its probably because you don't like them and you like taylor. so think do you still like taylor because if you do you shouldn't be dating someone you don't like. hope i helped.
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me and my bestfriend are planning on hanging out on monday, and we have no idea what to do! we're limited on money, and he wants to do something different besides chill at his house cause thats what we normally do every other time. any suggestions? x
There is lots you can do! You can go to the park, or rent a movie and watch it together, you could have a picnicn you could play a sport you both like (soccer,football,etc), you could go bike riding, you could go for a walk also you could play games there are so many things you guys can do. Hope I gave you some ideas :)
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i'm a teen girl and my ex boyfriend wants to take our son for a week. he barley ever sees our son the last time was a few months ago. he is very unpredictable and when we were together he would get high around our son. i don't want that happening anymore so i said no. he is very pissed off at me and said i was being completely unfair. i don't want him to be sad and i want my son to know him but i don't trust him. what should i do?
Okay first things first you were right to say no. You have to think about your son when making this decision. So if you don't trust the father don't let him be alone with your son. What I suggest is supervised visits. Let him go and see you son but be there in the room just in cvase. That way he'll get to know his father and his father won't be mad. Hope this helps! Good luck!
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so im in high school. i am a junior. now the thing is girls always talk to me i'm not a "playa". but it seems every time i get close to a girl i end up fucking up every time so i'm just wondering what other guys do and don't do.
Okay so what you need to do is think about what it was you did that missed it up. Whem you figure out what it is try to change it or not do it again. Some timea guys don't even realize what they do wrong. Trust me you'll figure it out. Hope this helps!
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