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Ive been doing good dealing with my break up with my boyfriend, but lately its bugging the crap out of me cause i still love him. And right now Im having a very bad moment. Im a cutter, but havent cut since january. Right now I feel like i wanna hurt myself and i dont know what to do. i feel like i could kill myself right now. SOMEBODY TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!! :o( (link)
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think about the best way to solve this problem maybe he still feels the same way about you tell him how you feel and sooner or later everyone knows that you have to let them go so good luck and think about what your gonna do before you do it actions have concequences
-Jacky!
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well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love.. the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat to do?
xoxo angita (link)
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This might be the worst thing that can be said but DONT TELL YOUR PARENTS! He might be that person who is going to be there for the rest of your life. Be carful because there will be obstacles very hard ones so make sure that this advice is the best thing for you remember your not forced to do anything!
Good Luck and keep in touch
-Jacky!
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Ok my boy friend iz at camp in maine he has been there since um.. the 10th of july n i love him so........... freak'n much ,but im scared he iz gunna meet sum girl there that's prettier funnier and all that stuff!!! i kno i should trust him cuz we have been togetha for almost 9 months n i trully ove him to death but im not to sure i can trust him cuz he iz a HUGE flirt!!! Do u think i can trust him not to do n e thing wid anotha girl????????
-X- Caitlin -X-
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You might get that feeling mostly because you really like him. Just trust him and when hje comes back to the home state ask him to tell you what happened if he seems nervous 0r u have a feeling hes leaving something out explain to him what he means to u and then maybe hell tell u but only if u can tell hes holding something back
-Jacky
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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost? (link)
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I ve had alot of freinds use it and i saw great results maybe it will work on you too!
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I like this ok and I asked her out she said yes and her mom said I was to old for her what should I do? (link)
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Well the first that is probably poppin into ur head is go out with her anyway DONT DO DAT you will never gain respect from her mother if you do dat then you will never see her again. Just try and show her mom how dignifies you are. And make sure you dont hurt her daughter, cuz her mom will hunt u down lol j.k good luck
-Jacky
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im 12 and my parents wont let me go out with guys yet cuz im supposedly too young, but i go out with them secretly and now more guys are starting to ask me out, but they want to actually take me somewhere like dinner or a movie and stuff, but my parents wont let me go anywhere unless they kno my "friends" parents!!!!!! (link)
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Ok you have probably seen shows where the people who sneak out to go out always get caught sooner or later u will get caught maybe your parents think your too young becasue some guys( no offense to the guys) are dogs and they will try to seduce you maybe when you grow up mentally and physically you will realize that they were right cuz now you can tease the boys just wait till ur 13 k?
-Jacky
p.s tell me how it goes
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my boyfriend is moving to new jersey at the end of this month..we're both 13 and we really like eachother but i dont know if i should break up with him..right now we live on long island..but should i break up with him since hes moving to new jersey? i have NO idea what to do!!! please help!! (link)
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What you shuld do right now is spend as much time as possible then whens its close to that day either brake it off or promise to write. you might be scared but there might be someone else waitin for him over there. and he might not be the one. But enjoy what you have!
-Jacky
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i like this guy but when i am around him i act really shy how can i stop that like when he comes up i just stand there i have never even said hi i know this is stupid but can you help me (link)
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Ok the first thing to do is relax. Even though you really like him when hes right in front of you wanting to talk think of him as a really good friend. Talk and breathe. Just dont babble! Lets hope that you can actually breathe dont forget because then hes going to think you dont want to talk to him at all and that sends mixed messages and nothing will ever happen. Just talk and have fun. Good Luck!
-Jacky
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ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help (link)
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You might really want to be with him but there are two problems here
1-he dosent really know what he wants
2- I dont think you understand that hes feeling really insecure right now and needs some time
Let him think about it. And dont be surprised by what he chooses dont get your hopes high because then you will really feel heartbroken. So relax and let him decide whats in your future. Good Luck
-Jacky!
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how do you like...ummm...make out with someone? cause my boyfriend wants to nd i do to but i dont know how....help! (link)
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The first thing to remember is relax. Start small and the more practice the better. Just make sure its with a person you want to kiss!
-Jacky ;)
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I waz talkin on da phone with him...& i wuz about to he off....& he said ok iloveyou i paused 4 a min. & i didn`t want to hurt him so i said it back...but i totally didn`t mean it....i take iloveyou very serious!thats not the first time he has said that wut should i do?
~Joyful~ (link)
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I think you should be honest. Why lie because when they find out u didnt mean it itll just be worse. Tell him how you feel
ex. "That day you said u loved me and i said it back but i dont think its fair to you that i lie maybe we should be more careful and actually mean what we say but ..."
so just try really hard to explain if he gets mad then he need some time. He might get over it and if he dosent then you should explain what those 3 words mean to you.
-Jacky
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im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP! (link)
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Well you shouldnt really care whatother people think. This is how you are. As for your parents its time to be honest. You are what you are and they have to live with it because you cant change and shouldnt because you might not fit in or people dont like you. And if anyone judges you by your sexuality then they dont see the real you. Maybe a suport group will help you through this. Good Luck!
-Jacky
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nicaprincez13: HELLO
rivergirl736: hi
nicaprincez13: u need help
rivergirl736: yes
rivergirl736: asl
nicaprincez13: does it matter
rivergirl736: yes
nicaprincez13: why
rivergirl736: are you a b or g
nicaprincez13: g
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: is that a problem
rivergirl736: how do you now a boy like you
nicaprincez13: well
nicaprincez13: there are many types of things
rivergirl736: well what
nicaprincez13: hell talk to u alot
nicaprincez13: hell want to be with u
nicaprincez13: hell flirt
nicaprincez13: all those things
rivergirl736: he don't like to talk and i think heis afrade to let anyone now he likes me
nicaprincez13: then maybe its time for u to show some emotion
rivergirl736: he stares at me smilles at me and whiselsat me and shows off aroumd me
nicaprincez13: and make the first move
rivergirl736: i am afrade to talke to him
nicaprincez13: i had this same probl;em
nicaprincez13: how old are u
rivergirl736: 14
nicaprincez13: same as me
nicaprincez13: ok wait
nicaprincez13: ima going to call my friend
nicaprincez13: hes a guy
nicaprincez13: hell know
nicaprincez13: ok?
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: you there
nicaprincez13: yes
rivergirl736: so what did he say
nicaprincez13: im asking
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: see i used to like him
nicaprincez13: and it was the same problem
rivergirl736: oooooooooo
rivergirl736: did you go out with him
nicaprincez13: no
nicaprincez13: he just came over to my house
rivergirl736: ooooooo
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: does he bother u
rivergirl736: no
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: he says
rivergirl736: what
nicaprincez13: that because he does those other things then he might like you
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: is that good enough
rivergirl736: if he duse like me what will he do most likly
rivergirl736: other then talking to me he don't do that a lot
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello are you there
nicaprincez13: yea wait
nicaprincez13: he says to make the first move
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: and so do iu
nicaprincez13: i*
rivergirl736: oooooook and 1 more thing
nicaprincez13: ok
nicaprincez13: what is it
rivergirl736: if his cosent is best friends with you and she said alot of thing he said should i beleve his cusent
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: ok
rivergirl736: how old is your friend
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: 13
nicaprincez13: hes younger than me
rivergirl736: cool
nicaprincez13: but were in the same grade
rivergirl736: so the aser to the ?
nicaprincez13: i say to not jump ahead of yourself because then u get hi hopes
rivergirl736: about if you thnk his cusent is lying or not
nicaprincez13: dont believe anythiung unless u knoiw its tru
rivergirl736: i think it is tru or i wunt it to be
nicaprincez13: what exactly did his cuzin say
rivergirl736: like he wunts to have sex with me and he really likes me and he woudedo any thing for me
rivergirl736: this was in a leter
nicaprincez13: ok'
rivergirl736: so is it trw you think
nicaprincez13: well i think shes probably trying to scare u away
nicaprincez13: and mostly family members are very protective about their family
rivergirl736: it is makeiag me closer
nicaprincez13: ?
rivergirl736: she wunts me to go out with him
rivergirl736: it is making me closer
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: what is it that you want to know all in all?
rivergirl736: what
nicaprincez13: whats the question now?
rivergirl736: i love this boy so much what should i do
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
nicaprincez13: wait
rivergirl736: ok
nicaprincez13: well
rivergirl736: hello
rivergirl736: so
rivergirl736: hello
rivergirl736: so
nicaprincez13: make a move
rivergirl736: talk
rivergirl736: ok
rivergirl736: bye
rivergirl736: thank you (link)
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My conversation with some one who needed help!
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