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I'm Leah. I'm 16& a sophmore, but very mature for my age. I could actually do very good in school if I actually applied myself, but I don't. I have a boyfriend, Randall and we've been together for over a year now and i love him alotalotalot I'm usually happy because I think lifes too short to be depressed or crying all the time. My friends are my life and I definatly wouldn't be the same without them.advice
what are some interesting things to do with a boyfriend besides having sex? we've done everything except it but is there any techniques or stuff to make it interesting.. we've been going out for 9 months..thanks
spencers. that store is like for sex freaks ;] haha but seriously, they have like massage lotions, games & edible things. none of it involves sex, but it spices everything else up!
This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.
Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation?
my bestfriend is going through this same situation and i'll tell you what i tell her,
you just need to stop talking to him, period. it may be hard, but it's for the better. you are basically being used, and you are so much better than that. now i don't know you personally, but i know that you could find someone WAY better who would actually treat you right!
don't let this loser (who breaks up with you over the INTERNET) ruin your life anymore!
i know you can do better :D!
How do you know when to consider someone your boyfriend or consider yourself someone's girlfriend?
well, i think that boyfriend/girlfriend thing is sort of like a label, but probably to the guy or anyone else, once the guy asks you out, yall are offical! :]
well ok theres a guy in my vocal class and we have become somewhat of a couple just not going out and what not, because i am moving in 3 months but i asked him out anyway i just figured i would just ask just to see...and he's thinking about it...was it a smart idea or should i have not of bothered at all?
well this depends on how far you're moving and how serious the relationship will get. if you're just wanting a fun relationship that doesnt mean much then i think its alright, but i also think that if you could make it work out in a long distance ordeal, that would be perfectly fine to. its all up to you and how your going to handle it.
me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship. we've been together for 6 months. i was playing around on myspace and i found his (i didn't know he had one) so i was looking at it. i was looking at this girl who had been commenting him and it seems like theyre going out because shes always like "love ya" so i looked at her profile and it says stuff about him like they are only friends except for her headline which says "
You need to ask him, don't try to be blaming or hateful though. It it's a long distance relationship, it would be possible that he is, and you would definatly need to break up with him. Why didn't he tell you about his myspace anyway? was he trying to hide something? maybe those are some questions you need to consider.
Hi,
I am a female from Canada seeking advice.
My bf who I have been with for 6 months is very controlling of me. We are in a semi-long distance relationship, we are still able to see each other a few times a month despite the short distance.
He gets upset when I don't tell him where I am going all the time, he gets upset when I am on the computer while on the phone with him and he uses the computer when on the phone with me, he even tells me to lay on the bed and turn off the light. He gets upset when I have to leave him for the bathroom or to say hello to someone in my res room. He considers me forgetting to call him when I promised very hurtful to him and compares me to his ex gfs and friends who do that to him. 3 months ago I OD'd and was hospitalized for depression and anxiety and ever since then he has been like this. I have tried everything from talking to him calmly about his behaviour and why to yelling at him to stop being this way and nothing has worked.
Is it just me or is it him? How do I make this bearable for myself? I still love him and don't want to leave him.
Please help!!!
Thank you.
i'm sorry to say this, but when you're with someone, you are supposed to be able to talk to them, and they will understand. If he's not understanding, he's not worth it. It's not going to be a healthy relationship ALWAYS goes his way, either he can change for you, or you need to break up with him. Even though you think you love him, if you were with a guy who treated you right, you would know instantly that this guy isn't right for you.
hi i'm 13 years old, almost 14..and i've never been kissed before in my life. not on the cheeks or lips or ANYWHERE! and i've never even had a boyfriend in my life either. but i want one SO badly! i dont care if my first kiss isnt "real" or whatever..i just want puppy love! i dont care! i just want it to happen..i dream about it so much everynight. and i feel like such a loser because it feels as if every other 13-14 year old girl in the world has been kissed except me. even some of my more unattractive friends have...idk. i dont think i'm hideous or fat or mean or any of hte above...but i dont know ..something about me must turn guys off..just please help idk what to do. and if i'm ever going to get my first kiss soon
first of all, dont worry about it! i mean if you think about it, if you want to kiss someone so badly and you just kiss the first person thats willing to, it wont really matter that it was your "first kiss" because it wasnt special. most girls your age havent kissed anyone either, so your not left out. and guys your age are still going through that stage where they want to kiss girls, but are still shy. just give it time, i promise it will happen!
Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help.
Well, I'm sorry to say, but hes not worth it. and dont think of it as "giving up", if you keep letting him call you names and then two seconds later make out with him, he knows he can do WHATEVER he wants, and you'll come running back. But if you wanted to get him back, don't make out with him, make him want it. if hes mean to you, ignore him and go talk to someone else, it will make see that you dont care, and that will make him realize if he wants you, he has to respect you
hey ummm this might be long.... ok this guy i really like asked me if i wanted to lose my virginity to him....and i was like asking him questions like if we would ever go out and he said he didnt know maybe.... and he also doesnt want anyone to know about it...which i can see that to because i dont want it getting around school either but i have the feeling that he doesnt like me and he just wants to lose his virginity....but i dont know. and like after we talked about doing it around his birthday and then like all of a sudden he asks my best friend out and im like OMG... and they went out for a couple of days........ but i havent talked to him about it anymore because i havent got the chance to... but i dont think he likes me anymore... so does anyone have any advice?
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don't have sex with him! really, sex IS a HUGE deal, and if you don't love him and he doesn't love you its seriously not right. just wait until you find someone that wants to actually be in a relationship with you, not just having sex with you.
Aside from flowers poems letters notes what are good ways to win a girls heart. I mean really melt her heart. We broke up but I still love her. I dont want to lose her. Any ideas. I ran out of ideas. Something(s) a girl cant resist. Im not good with what women desire or what melts there heart. Your advice tips etc will be highly appreciated and I will rate you high.
well what my boyfriend did once was made me a CD with all our songs and gave me all ofthe pictures of us, it was really sweet
My boyfriend of two years is really starting to annoy me. I love him to death but hes ready to settle down and i dont think im ready. He asked me to marry him and im only 15 years old,and im not ready for that kind of commentment...yet. And since then everything has been really weird between us. If i talk to another guy (like this guy ive been friends with for along time)he gets all jealous and we fuss. I really love him and all but i dont think im ready for a serious relationship like he wants. What should i do? How do i tell him without hurting him?
well, if you've been with this person for TWO YEARS, its basically impossible to tell him that without hurting him. if its been two years then you should want to be with him, maybe youshould just talk about his jealousy and tell him it really bothers you, but if you cant take it anymore then i then only thing you can do is just take a break or something.
what do 13 and 14 year old guys look for in a girl and relationship? i am fairly pretty, good at sports, smart, and friendly, but i can't seem to get a boyfriend! what do you guys look for?
it is seriously about the personality. if you are pretty and your personality sucks, then no one will like you. i know alot of people who arent that attractive but once i get to know them i think they are. you just have to be yourself.
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I was wondering if anyone would know what I could possibly get my 25 year old boyfriend for christmas. Its not really that far away and I would like some ideas so that I will know how much i should save up. Does anyone have any suggestions?? I rate high. Thank you for your time.
why dont you make him something? like one of those blankets that are really easy to make, it would be special because YOU made it